That lady meant sent you to early graveyard soon if you don't do the needful....

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

May God just help us, almost all married women wants or are commiting adultery these days, but why

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

why will a man like you be acting like a fool... sorry to say but that's the truth...

Shoodboi:
I read the other thread:

You married a lunatic in place of a wife, but I suspect you're the kind of guy who gives her excessive freedom to do whatever she pleases, gives her cash every time she asks & allows her to spend it how she pleases without asking her to account for it?

Or how else did things get to the point where your wife's brother living under your roof disrespects you? And your wife has the guts to defend the disrespect?

You're not married. You're single.

I'd have told you to divorce her but you have a daughter with her and she's going to corrupt the little girl and turn her into a smaller version of herself.


But there may be a solution:

Give her and her brother 2-3 hours to vamoose the house.

Her people will call and I suspect you're the type who loves explaining yourself so you doesn't look as bad as being painted. DON'T DO THAT.

When anyone calls from her side, tell them you've "Gotten enough of her DISRESPECT and UNSERIOUSNESS and you'll not take such anymore." Don't say more than that and don't attempt explaining yourself even if they probe further (which they would).

If you still want her, you may reconcile (since they'll call for a meeting), but don't take her brother back and use that opportunity to SET BOUNDARIES and make sure to ENFORCE those boundaries.


But if you're taking the divorce option, consult with a lawyer over the possibility of you getting custody of your daughter. (I think unserious attitude may even work to your benefit, but the recordings she has on you may work against you.)

Very well said.

In addition though, I would let her keep the child, it is her punishment and your card.

Also, voice recordings are really tricky. A good lawyer will throw it out like bath water.

She don take suicide threaten op. Instead make guyman carry phone begin record video her with him in the background calling the police that his wife wants to commit suicide.

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

Take that woman to her father's house. Pursue all her siblings from your house, get inner peace for once. Except you are not telling us something, I see no reason why that woman should spend another night under your roof.

MY BROTHER, WAKE UP FROM THAT DEEP SLEEP YOU'RE HAVING RIGHT NOW. YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING ON YOU WITH MORE THAN ONE MAN.

Previous and present thread, doesn't like true stories.

Your wife is wh...ore. No apologies.

Just go ahead and divorce her as soon as you can. Do not let next week slide.

Sorry for all you are going through.

If na me I push u down. Idgaf

TheGift:


Eyaaa, sounds like you’ve been hurt. Hope it’s not that you were expecting more than promised.

wha I'd the meaning of Eeeyah ..i told you, y'all lost it many years ago! Even my landlord shock say e no dey see me with girl or woman! Dey there!!

If at all this story is true,this wife no be your wife,na another person wife you dey feed for your house

Bobo'i aanu site n'se mi, please help yourself, the Lord be with you.

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

let her commit suicide if she wants to mtchewwwww it totally means she's been fucking around dude use your brain.

Lesson 123,

This is for the elders, make I learn

Oga had it been i know you, I would have reset your brain with insults because some of you married guys act like fools most times. You knew very well that that snake you married doesn't love you and she is having an affair with another guy. Let me say this to some guys... please if you are not matured enough in mind not in cash to marry, just stay single until you are ready. I dey shame for you for asking this question..... she's cheating on you mr husband. Tell her to go and stay with her parents for now till further notice.

She does not need you in her life.

Some of you don't need good advice you all need a brain surgery

What's understood dont need to b explained

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

This woman is a real drama queen

Just do whatever your mind tells you to do

some kind of things i read everyday discourage me from marrying.... na to get money find girl wey go born for me with no strings attach

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

If you cannot read the handwriting on the wall and advise yourself, then you're not fit to be called a MAN.


You're already facilitating your leap to death, Use your head.


A word for the wise is enough.
Playmaker14 was the first person who replied your post in the first thread...what is that devil still doing in your house...e be like say you no dey watch DISCOVERY ID on DSTV

You spent 30m to your HOEMAN while your biological father is struggling to sell his house to raise 10m.
You deserved the treatment your wife is currently giving you.

NoahHadNoArk:
Another SIMPle matter

Thanks 4 making me laugh out loud today: 23:19

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

YOU GUYS SHOULD STOP COMING HERE TO ASK SILLY ADVICE. YOU KNOW DAM WELL SHES NOT STRAIGHT. SO WHY THE HELL ARE U HERE ASKING US TO SPEND OUR PRECIOUS TIME RESPONDING TO U STORY. GUY LAST WARNING TO U.

gift0123:
I don't even think you are worthy to be a called a real man, not to talk of being a father, so you bring your family issues to nairaland... to get advice? Comfort? So they can hail you for your stupidity?? I pity your kids and wife.

A proper lady will never be quick to insults a mans status especially if it's unwarranted

There should be a course in universities that teaches about "self-esteem" or "self-worth" cos you seem to be lacking it.

You may die soon if care is not taken

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

Lessons123:
Dear Nairalanders,

Sequel to my thread about me investing over 30 million in my wife and she is ungrateful https://www.nairaland.com/6756674/wife-ungrateful.

Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.

I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.


We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.

Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.

SIMP!.

You wife dey collect big gboloa for ............

Go to deleted trash, under this tension, she may forget to permanently delete all from the trash. At this moment it's very important to know what ur wife is up to, her awful moves is of a great concern. If it takes you to hack her phone, do it . My humble opinion.

Vickyvice:
I love my life, well being and sanity... Work with this principle, and without emotions. I repeat WITHOUT EMOTIONS, no matter the cost

How do you come over any emotion bro ?
If I may ask