Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

If not for the relationship between you, I would have said your mother and her mother have ulterior motives for sending her to live with you.

But considering that she is your first cousin, then it is certainly not what I originally thought.

Anyways, my advice is to talk to her if she makes you feel uncomfortable. You are after all her guardian.

I am always blunt when it comes to matters like this, hence my nickname "Blunt the Apostle".

If I don't want something, and my body wants it, and I understand that it is wrong, I run away from that thing. But supposing I am stuck with that thing (like you are with this hot cousin of yours), then you have got to take it head-on, but with some wisdom.

Start by ensuring that you know her motive for wearing this revealing dresses. You might have to tell some lies that allow you to emphasize the beauty of modest dressing.

Get photos of beautiful girls wearing modest dresses and load them on your phone. Leave the phone carelessly, and she might be tempted to check your phone one day. When she sees the photos, she will surely ask questions. Take your chance, and praise modest dressing. Aside your lectures, the photos will make her realize that a girl can wear modest clothes and still be desirable, supposing that is her motive for wearing revealing clothes.

The whole essence is to help her become better, not worse.

She is your blood for crying out loud,that will be incest!

Bag of lies as usual. Spit

dawnomike:
Sit her down and let her know that you are not comfortable with how she dresses in the house...

First meaningful comment

There are two options and you must choose one:

1: Send her out of your house immediately
2 : Crush your destiny.

The choice is yours. Good bye �

Mercychen:
Potential.... Complete it.

I guess your girlfriend is not hot enough.. shame!

Next time she dresses provocatively, just shout at her ( like the big bros you are) to go and cover up her body. Simple!

Thank you

Guy, it's your house and your rules, at this juncture, you have to draw the line and assume the toga of "big brother" exercise that authority and give her the marching orders as far as decent dressing is concerned, though you're her cousin, the mere 10 year gap between you guys gives u de right to consider yourself her uncle. Mentor, advise and keep a close eye on her. You ma ur case don pass be careful. Having a hard on, for your cousin! I know say prick no go school and can misbehave anytime, so better go buy chain for am.

candidladyTemp:



God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all

they should take you and bring back Muritala Mohammed

Is your cousin's sister not your cousin?

afadi2410:
She is your blood for crying out loud,that will be incest!

It is not incest in some places.

I am not sure about Nigeria, but sex between first cousins is not incest in some places.

Bia Op, banging bodies n ass clappings, you're a bad nigga. Nothing dem wan tell me, you're an ambassador of xxvideos

HW can u get erection for ur cousin sister...ur HVn an intentions to bang her ....u better stop that nonsense feelings...u HV every right to caution her not to put a revealing clothes in ur house if u really love her like a sister

Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

I wish I could give you about 50 likes... You're being realistic and honest. Hypocrites are busy attacking the guy that begged for help

Tell her to dress properly.

Continue telling her. If she ignores you tell your mother and her people who brought her to you that she's trying to seduce you and that you don't like that and that if she doesn't stop she'll have to leave your house.

Some women are very manipulative. If you eventually sleep with her I bet you she'll spread it everywhere that you abused her, and used her. The whole world will believe her because she's a woman. No one will believe you. Use your head and find a good strategy to make her leave. There are other ways of helping people. Let her stay in the hostel or rent a house off-campus. If you can, tell them you don't mind to contribute small money towards her accommodation. Just be proactive. Look for a way to make her leave. Guy be wise.

Even some womanizers wey be players when they see things like this they don't waste time to make sure she leaves their house because na big trap. If you fall na big soup you don enter so. Avoid forbidden fruit. No body every thing in skirt dem de sleep with. Be wise.

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Op if you can't manage this Temptation..
Send her Back to her parent ooo

because anytime your Girlfriend disappoint you already have your cousin has Backup...

And we never enter raining season fully...

With this your narration.. the rest will soon be story..

I am not playing saint oo..

I can see some people typing .. rubbish already..

If you can not stand the after effect of your consequences..

Then let her Go Now!

before reading the story, i don condemn you for my mind. You are a gooner . Though shall not tempt the Lord your God .....flee from every appearance of evil. my guy i no envy you!
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You are so useless! Your first cousin!!!

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Oh my God what I'm looking for

Shut up if u don't have anything to say, don't you read the write up b4 commenting?
Niqqa just said he's not close to them, (probably this might be his first time of seeing her) and to cap it all.not everyone is like you instead of insulting him why don't you give him advice on how to.go about it since you're a saint or better still shut the hell upppppp skunk

Abovebest:
Cover your face with shame bro

Why will your cousin be tempting you

Imagine your blood sister giving you erection

Kobojunkie:
Having high libido has nothing to do with what OP described. If you don't understand what libido or sex drive means, I suggest you make Google your friend..

Any man getting an erection from seeing his own daughter naked needs to go see a psychiatrist,
not make the gal feel self-conscious for a fault that has absolutely nothing to do with them. In fact I recommend such a man should not be left anywhere around female children at at point unto he has been mentally certified as being safe.

You can't stand bum shorts meaning your daughters are not safe wearing underwear or swimming trunks around you, abi? Go see a shrink abeg!

Nigerians and there lame excuses ehn.....

Oga, make we hear word! When we were younger, my mom would chide my little sister for putting on skimpy clothes at home. She said it was meaningless to put clothes that make others uncomfortable. We never had any problems with her dressing, but my mom did. Does she need to see a shrink too? Stop the annoying hypocrisy.

Let's be realistic, any nigga in this nigga's shoes will feel the same way. Any lady aside your siblings and niece will give a bloody man erection. This Jezebel knows what she is doing to that nigga. Send her packing to avoid impending knacking bro. You owe nobody any expectations.

Abovebest:
Cover your face with shame bro

Why will your cousin be tempting you

Imagine your blood sister giving you erection

bro forget dah tin dick can only respect blood sister but doesn’t respect cousins bro

See this idiot dey find excuses to fuch im sister. Village people dey follow u and if u no deh careful, na radio go talk ur matter

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Man what’s happening to you is wrong but it ain’t your fault. From what you said about you not having a good relationship with your mom’s people, it’s obvious you guys also don’t have that cousins-relationship, hence she seems like just a random beautiful girl to you. Just talk to her and let her know you ain’t comfortable with her mode of dressing. But the best option is for her to leave your house, we run from temptation and not manage it. Don’t mind all the nairaland “saints” and “premium self controller”, they’ve done, they’re doing and they’ll do something worst than this. It’s a good thing you haven’t allowed your emotions to get the best of you because sin thrives in secrecy, it’s good you’ve spoken out.
But from the way you described her, e sure me say you be fuckerycant on a normal.

Fhuck her

Op. Stuffs like that happens bro. The temptation won't stop unless 2 things happen.

1) unless you knack her something and regret later but it's obvious after the regret there will be a continuous knacking.
2) if you try to knack her something and she decline then the devil will cover your face with a shame that will even shame you when you are alone in a dark room.

To avoid such a thing endure, oh? and whenever you get erection, dress up and leave the room for her but it's obvious these two things I listed here, one must happen in anytime soon cause I didn't see where you resist the temptation and please tag me when it happens Biko nwanne mmadu let me come and read people's comment.

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

Sit her down and talk to her regarding decency in the house. I'm sure if you are sincere with your concern, you can influence her to start dressing modestly and with little bit of respect for her body.

To overcome this temptation my brother. Try to get a room apartment for her to overcome this temptation.

Person wey dey see wit his dick.

Nonexisting:
Try looking at her the way you look at your own little sisters and trust me, she will become ugly in your sight overnight.

...perv

Remain strong bro... Konji na bastard but don't let that lead u astray

leody:
Even if she's wlking naked in DA house , op e get some kind erection wey someone no suppose get walai.

You're a lady,right
Ask any man around you if he will get an erection from watching a rape scene from a movie,so what's worse than rapeI used to think I was sick in the head and will keep praying to God to take away my erection.....Anytime I remember those days now,I just laugh....The problem with most people out there is to think a man and a woman are the same,sexually speaking.What we feel before,during and after sex is not even the same sef!!!