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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Deicide: 11:26pm On Feb 19, 2022
tensazangetsu20:

Imagine giving birth to a son like portable. I don't know why a lot of women believe guys look don't matter
Doesn't portable have girls that are sleeping with him?
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 11:29pm On Feb 19, 2022
Datboredberri:


Actually, they think I'm nice and cool until they KNOW me...

wow.. that's quite a reveal

so you aren't nice and cool, or your interest cools off as time goes?
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Brian47(m): 11:30pm On Feb 19, 2022
Your comment made me laugh out loud and I don't know why.

Cutehector:
Are you lesbian?

Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Brian47(m): 11:34pm On Feb 19, 2022
I stopped reading when you said you had a crush on Steven Hawkins undecided
Heh?
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Demigod22: 11:38pm On Feb 19, 2022
I am sexually attracted to intelligent ladies. If she is intellectually inclined and creative and productive with sense of humor, she can have my mumu button.
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Karleb(m): 11:41pm On Feb 19, 2022
Datboredberri:


You dont get my point:

Of the two, intelligence is better...

Beauty is a plus...

I'm trying to pass a message that if you're beautiful, there's more to you that makes you more than beautiful...

You mustn't give up on love cause of ever-changing beauty standards...

Get it?

Try to be more articulate.

The question now is, why would you start an intelligence vs beauty comparison when:

1. Ugly people can be unintelligent.
2. Good looking people can be intelligent.

If you are not bias, the comparison should be between intelligence vs unintelligence or beauty vs ugly.

Now that's how to argue.

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 11:43pm On Feb 19, 2022
Descottes:
wow.. that's quite a reveal

so you aren't nice and cool, or your interest cools off as time goes?
It's hard to explain... I've been called 'slow poison' more than once...
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Karleb(m): 11:43pm On Feb 19, 2022
Brian47:
I stopped reading when you said you had a crush on Steven Hawkins undecided
Heh?

grin

She probably said that to sound intelligent.

If Steven Hawkins was a woman, he wouldn't crush on Steven Hawkins.

No disrespect to the late scientist.

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 11:52pm On Feb 19, 2022
Karleb:


Try to be more articulate.

The question now is, why would you start an intelligence vs beauty comparison when:

1. Ugly people can be unintelligent.
2. Good looking people can be intelligent.

If you are not bias, the comparison should be between intelligence vs unintelligence or beauty vs ugly.

Now that's how to argue.


Wrong:

Read the thread again...

1. Beauty is okay...

2. Intelligence is far more valuable...

3. There's no comparison...

4. If you're unattractive, don't give up on love... Your intelligence and/or personality actually matters more in a healthy relationship...

Again... Beauty is alright... It's not something I'm crazy over because I've come to realise that there's more to a person than their goodlooks...

Beauty standards change. Presently, it's not even the same in different countries... The West is crazy over slim girls, Africa isn't... Skin colour, hair texture, facial features (round/almond/uptuned eyes, wide/narrow nose, full/thin lips)...etc

Most people give up on love because they aren't attractive (depending on the beholder) forgetting that they can win the affections of someone they like by working on other aspects of themselves...

You can win a girl over by being funny... Sway a crowd with your charisma... Impress a man with your intelligence...

It doesn't start and end with your face and body...

Get it?
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 11:56pm On Feb 19, 2022
Karleb:


grin

She probably said that to sound intelligent.

If Steven Hawkins was a woman, he wouldn't crush on Steven Hawkins.

No disrespect to the late scientist.
undecided

Because I'm not into girls? Lol...

Intelligence is to me what a pretty face is to you...

I've had other accounts... If you know me, you would know how much I adored him...

ShE pRoBaBlY sAiD tHaT tO sOuNd InTeLLiGeNT... undecided

You're effortlessly dumb... Kudos!
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 12:08am On Feb 20, 2022
tensazangetsu20:

Imagine giving birth to a son like portable. I don't know why a lot of women believe guys look don't matter

Look matter o. I do get a lot of attention from women just because of my look that womanizing won't be hard for me.

The only problem is that most women feels insecure to keep men that look good so they may not be interested in a serious relationship, but me too I don't think I like any woman that can't trust me, neither will I useless myself laying with women just because they want it.

I GOT A VERY HIGH TASTE.

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 12:08am On Feb 20, 2022
Datboredberri:
It's hard to explain... I've been called 'slow poison' more than once...
hmmmm. Seems you're a weird one too

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Sekoni003(m): 12:34am On Feb 20, 2022
Stop the cap, honey... Looks do matter. If you are ugly, make sure your partner is at least above average in looks. You dont want ur kids cursing out you guys for making a ugly child like him/her cheesy
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 1:34am On Feb 20, 2022
tensazangetsu20:
Lol this works for women sha not men. If you are an ugly man you are finished.
Better get money...fine boy without money na slay daddy.
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 5:22am On Feb 20, 2022
Datboredberri:
Why was i bullied?
))))

You tried to give me hope... Hush tender child... grin




You didn't answer... How do you know what I look like?
Who bullied you? So u hv sharp mouth but can't save ur life with it

*Hysterical laughter*
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 5:24am On Feb 20, 2022
Descottes:
I'd love to see your pics tho.
I kinda like you.. strangely
Or should I say, I kinda like your 'thought process'
Only u like everything

Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 6:43am On Feb 20, 2022
Thanks.

Some people compliment me. I don't know whether to believe it because for the most part....

I've been treated like shit for looking average. Or ugly. Very bad, especially where I work, as there's a very extremely smart and beautiful younger woman. One day I came to work and she didn't and my boss only had me to compliment. The word 'cute', he had to force it from his mouth. It was hard for him to say. Or so I think.

I have people who treat me like shit cuz I think for at least thirty minutes before I speak. My colleagues would have moved on to the next topic of discussion before I talk. There's one or two guys that make fun of me for that.

As for talent, I brought something I made to work, and the same guy that makes fun of me for being slow blatantly said it looked local and ugly. Even as I walked away he was still talking anyhow.

I pray people make beautiful babies, because its not beans to look bad o. It's like a one way ticket to hell for your girl child, because once she sees that she isn't valued, guys treat her like trash cuz they feel she isn't fine and therefore shouldn't be treated like a human being, she will have low self esteem and open leg for whoever comes. Not because she's a bad girl but guys will so treat her like trash for being unattractive. I don't wish that fate on anybody.

So, basically your female kid might turn out to be a hoee with no dignity cuz guys will treat her like she's the last option in this life and she better svck a dick when they deem it fit to even dash her. It's a very miserable life. Try not to let your kid live that life. If she's not fine buy her fine clothes and let her style her hair elaborately. Don't get her ugly glasses. But take a shot at procreating with a fine person, even if there's a possibility that the child will still not be fine.

So if some GUYS at work have classified me: Fine she no fine, she dey slow in reasoning, she no get talent, she no dey creative... And they treat me with disrespect for this...what hope? How do I feel about myself? Especially if they treat me bad for this?

Funny enough my dad married my mom, a beautiful woman that three men were chasing at his office for marriage, and he was the one that got her. She was fine o. Her friends mom cried when she saw my mother, a young woman at the time, asking God why her daughter wasn't fine, fair and tall like my mom. I bet my dad thought I'd inherit my mom's looks. But I turned out to look more like him. I have his big feet and dark skin. I look more like a female version of him.

So guys, you being dark and not really fine, then you marry a fair fine lady, doesn't mean your kid will turn out pretty.

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by FanOfMyself: 7:44am On Feb 20, 2022
VocalViolet:
Thanks.

Some people compliment me. I don't know whether to believe it because for the most part....

I've been treated like shit for looking average. Or ugly. Very bad, especially where I work, as there's a very extremely smart and beautiful younger woman. One day I came to work and she didn't and my boss only had me to compliment. The word 'cute', he had to force it from his mouth. It was hard for him to say. Or so I think.

I have people who treat me like shit cuz I think for at least thirty minutes before I speak. My colleagues would have moved on to the next topic of discussion before I talk. There's one or two guys that make fun of me for that.

As for talent, I brought something I made to work, and the same guy that makes fun of me for being slow blatantly said it looked local and ugly. Even as I walked away he was still talking anyhow.

I pray people make beautiful babies, because its not beans to look bad o. It's like a one way ticket to hell for your girl child, because once she sees that she isn't valued, guys treat her like trash cuz they feel she isn't fine and therefore shouldn't be treated like a human being, she will have low self esteem and open leg for whoever comes. Not because she's a bad girl but guys will so treat her like trash for being unattractive. I don't wish that fate on anybody.

So, basically your female kid might turn out to be a hoee with no dignity cuz guys will treat her like she's the last option in this life and she better svck a dick when they deem it fit to even dash her. It's a very miserable life. Try not to let your kid live that life. If she's not fine buy her fine clothes and let her style her hair elaborately. Don't get her ugly glasses. But take a shot at procreating with a fine person, even if there's a possibility that the child will still not be fine.

So if some GUYS at work have classified me: Fine she no fine, she dey slow in reasoning, she no get talent, she no dey creative... And they treat me with disrespect for this...what hope? How do I feel about myself? Especially if they treat me bad for this?

Funny enough my dad married my mom, a beautiful woman that three men were chasing at his office for marriage, and he was the one that got her. She was fine o. Her friends mom cried when she saw my mother, a young woman at the time, asking God why her daughter wasn't fine, fair and tall like my mom. I bet my dad thought I'd inherit my mom's looks. But I turned out to look more like him. I have his big feet and dark skin. I look more like a female version of him.

So guys, you being dark and not really fine, then you marry a fair fine lady, doesn't mean your kid will turn out pretty.
Hey dear, don't let all those bad words get to you okay

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 7:48am On Feb 20, 2022
FanOfMyself:

Hey dear, don't let all those bad words get to you okay

Thanks, I won't.

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Jeon(f): 7:50am On Feb 20, 2022
VocalViolet:
Thanks.

Some people compliment me. I don't know whether to believe it because for the most part....

I've been treated like shit for looking average. Or ugly. Very bad, especially where I work, as there's a very extremely smart and beautiful younger woman. One day I came to work and she didn't and my boss only had me to compliment. The word 'cute', he had to force it from his mouth. It was hard for him to say. Or so I think.

I have people who treat me like shit cuz I think for at least thirty minutes before I speak. My colleagues would have moved on to the next topic of discussion before I talk. There's one or two guys that make fun of me for that.

As for talent, I brought something I made to work, and the same guy that makes fun of me for being slow blatantly said it looked local and ugly. Even as I walked away he was still talking anyhow.

I pray people make beautiful babies, because its not beans to look bad o. It's like a one way ticket to hell for your girl child, because once she sees that she isn't valued, guys treat her like trash cuz they feel she isn't fine and therefore shouldn't be treated like a human being, she will have low self esteem and open leg for whoever comes. Not because she's a bad girl but guys will so treat her like trash for being unattractive. I don't wish that fate on anybody.

So, basically your female kid might turn out to be a hoee with no dignity cuz guys will treat her like she's the last option in this life and she better svck a dick when they deem it fit to even dash her. It's a very miserable life. Try not to let your kid live that life. If she's not fine buy her fine clothes and let her style her hair elaborately. Don't get her ugly glasses. But take a shot at procreating with a fine person, even if there's a possibility that the child will still not be fine.

So if some GUYS at work have classified me: Fine she no fine, she dey slow in reasoning, she no get talent, she no dey creative... And they treat me with disrespect for this...what hope? How do I feel about myself? Especially if they treat me bad for this?

Funny enough my dad married my mom, a beautiful woman that three men were chasing at his office for marriage, and he was the one that got her. She was fine o. Her friends mom cried when she saw my mother, a young woman at the time, asking God why her daughter wasn't fine, fair and tall like my mom. I bet my dad thought I'd inherit my mom's looks. But I turned out to look more like him. I have his big feet and dark skin. I look more like a female version of him.

So guys, you being dark and not really fine, then you marry a fair fine lady, doesn't mean your kid will turn out pretty.



crycry

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Missionaire: 7:56am On Feb 20, 2022
You can date someone who likes the same thing you do; music, genre of books, movies, travel, food...etc...

Nothing connects us more than common interests... Especially in a relationship...


I like this... Lovely, very lovely.
Well done and Good morning.

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 8:57am On Feb 20, 2022
VocalViolet:
Thanks.

Some people compliment me. I don't know whether to believe it because for the most part....

I've been treated like shit for looking average. Or ugly. Very bad, especially where I work, as there's a very extremely smart and beautiful younger woman. One day I came to work and she didn't and my boss only had me to compliment. The word 'cute', he had to force it from his mouth. It was hard for him to say. Or so I think.

I have people who treat me like shit cuz I think for at least thirty minutes before I speak. My colleagues would have moved on to the next topic of discussion before I talk. There's one or two guys that make fun of me for that.

As for talent, I brought something I made to work, and the same guy that makes fun of me for being slow blatantly said it looked local and ugly. Even as I walked away he was still talking anyhow.

I pray people make beautiful babies, because its not beans to look bad o. It's like a one way ticket to hell for your girl child, because once she sees that she isn't valued, guys treat her like trash cuz they feel she isn't fine and therefore shouldn't be treated like a human being, she will have low self esteem and open leg for whoever comes. Not because she's a bad girl but guys will so treat her like trash for being unattractive. I don't wish that fate on anybody.

So, basically your female kid might turn out to be a hoee with no dignity cuz guys will treat her like she's the last option in this life and she better svck a dick when they deem it fit to even dash her. It's a very miserable life. Try not to let your kid live that life. If she's not fine buy her fine clothes and let her style her hair elaborately. Don't get her ugly glasses. But take a shot at procreating with a fine person, even if there's a possibility that the child will still not be fine.

So if some GUYS at work have classified me: Fine she no fine, she dey slow in reasoning, she no get talent, she no dey creative... And they treat me with disrespect for this...what hope? How do I feel about myself? Especially if they treat me bad for this?

Funny enough my dad married my mom, a beautiful woman that three men were chasing at his office for marriage, and he was the one that got her. She was fine o. Her friends mom cried when she saw my mother, a young woman at the time, asking God why her daughter wasn't fine, fair and tall like my mom. I bet my dad thought I'd inherit my mom's looks. But I turned out to look more like him. I have his big feet and dark skin. I look more like a female version of him.

So guys, you being dark and not really fine, then you marry a fair fine lady, doesn't mean your kid will turn out pretty.
Dark is extremely beautiful... You mustn't think that it's not...

You would be less appreciated by your fellow blacks... But these are people who have been mentality colonised... So they aren't worth sh**...

I'm sorry... For all you had to go through... It's not fair...

Don't think less of yourself... If I see you offline, may think you're beautiful... Many would... smiley

And you wrote this... You couldn't be slow... Some people take their time... That doesn't mean anything... I talk really really fast, even my mom hates it... It's just a trait... smiley

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 8:58am On Feb 20, 2022
Missionaire:

You can date someone who likes the same thing you do; music, genre of books, movies, travel, food...etc...

Nothing connects us more than common interests... Especially in a relationship...


I like this... Lovely, very lovely.
Well done and Good morning.
Thanks! Good morning
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Uniquisite: 9:08am On Feb 20, 2022
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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Uniquisite: 9:12am On Feb 20, 2022
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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 9:27am On Feb 20, 2022
Datboredberri:
Dark is extremely beautiful... You mustn't think that it's not...

You would be less appreciated by your fellow blacks... But these are people who have been mentality colonised... So they aren't worth sh**...

I'm sorry... For all you had to go through... It's not fair...

Don't think less of yourself... If I see you offline, may think you're beautiful... Many would... smiley

And you wrote this... You couldn't be slow... Some people take their time... That doesn't mean anything... I talk really really fast, even my mom hates it... It's just a trait... smiley

Thanks for your kind and comforting words.

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 10:15am On Feb 20, 2022
VocalViolet:


Thanks for your kind and comforting words.
Hey, I followed your diary... ❤

I love it! You seem like an amazing person! Someone I would truly like... smiley

I can relate... Thanks for sharing!

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:47am On Feb 20, 2022
Uniquisite:


Bros, if you dey look for light skinned and intelligent lady,,, you go waka gan ooo

Hahahaha go to big offices in Victoria island and you will see such specs of ladies. Beautiful and light skinned. Probably graduated with a first class or a high 2 1 and earns 7 figures a month in naira. They are plenty but only for high value men like our politicians and high earning fraudsters lipsrsealed

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by drnoel: 10:57am On Feb 20, 2022
Datboredberri:
Why would I be? I'm not

The question is irrelevant. OP shared her view, her sexual orientation is her concern not ours unless she desires to share it
Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by Nobody: 11:32am On Feb 20, 2022
Datboredberri:
Hey, I followed your diary... ❤

I love it! You seem like an amazing person! Someone I would truly like... smiley

I can relate... Thanks for sharing!

Thank you for reading too. wink

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by MufasaLion: 11:35am On Feb 20, 2022
What caught my attention was Steven Hawkins. He was a great scientist and breathe science till he died.

May he rest in Space!

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Re: Unattractive Nairalanders, There's Still Hope: Personal Experience. by MufasaLion: 11:36am On Feb 20, 2022
Uniquisite:


Bros, if you dey look for light skinned and intelligent lady,,, you go waka gan ooo

I know many beauty with brains. It all depends on your circle and you.

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