That peace of mind you need may not exist in a relationship or marriage

The peace of mind you are looking for may not exist in a relationship or marriage and may actually be found in your self as a single man / woman.

This is especially true for those who have been married before and the marriage did not work out and now think that they need another man or woman in their life to be complete.

This may not be true as you are more likely to find peace of mind in your solitude / singleness than in a new partner especially in today's world where what you see is not always what you get in a world of deceit and make believe.

So, if you find yourself single again after a relationship breakdown, don't put pressure on yourself to find another partner as the more you search the more elusive a GOOD partner becomes.

In the words of the Cameo song - Back And Forth -
Even when you think you've met a special kind of person, sometimes that person turns out to be not what they portrayed to you as they only showed you what they wanted you to see. And before you know it, the relationship always seems to go belly up and you keep going back and forth in an endless pursuit of a partner.

The truth is, you just can't win in Love even if you Sacrifice everything and money 'cos Love has no guarantee's and it will ALWAYS be like that.

I think what Cameo was saying in their song was that most good partners come to us when we are not even searching for them.