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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Truvelisback(m): 6:16pm On Feb 20, 2022
Candidlady:




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U see as i dey look u abi ? Na to bite u nai remain.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by MAVICK2000(m): 6:22pm On Feb 20, 2022
Wetin u still dey do for ur papa house u better find ur level anyways u can make it clear to her about dashing u money everytin get time
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Innobee99(m): 6:37pm On Feb 20, 2022
tommy589:


You are the only one here that sees the op for who he is. At 28 yrs in 2015 and thought he was still young to collect 1k,now that he is ok he thinks it is beneath him to collect money from her senior
If the Aunty give OP Benz make he reject am na, unto say he's old enough to buy his own Benz

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by faithfull18(f): 6:46pm On Feb 20, 2022
Tell her you are now a big boy and the money is too small for your age, she should increase it.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Mom007(f): 6:55pm On Feb 20, 2022
Next time u are going to see her, buy Her a gift that's worth much more than that to appreciate her as action speaks louder than words. She will begin to look at you different and it will naturally stop. She is a good woman. She is doing it out of love, not to spite you.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by President2001(m): 6:57pm On Feb 20, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?
You're ungrateful at your age you have still not understand life is a pity if she didn't give you will you kill her, don't worry you will soon be in her shoe

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by iguita: 6:59pm On Feb 20, 2022
When next you visit her, go with 10k and give to her children. This used to happen to me. My brothers and I will visit Thia aunt and she will give us 100 naira. Thia was around 1999. One day, I went there with 1k. She gave us 100 naira and I gave her son 1k.
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Seaseason07: 7:18pm On Feb 20, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?
Well, I got a aunty like that, she always give us money each time she come around and I always take it though to me I always take it with laugh inside me like; Seriously? Me wey dey dash out 3k. Well I always take it but the day she came around and saw my car, that was when she stopped giving me but still giving to others.
So bro! She still see it that you need help maybe you're still looking for work or something. If you really wanna stop her without telling her so as not to get offended, borrow a car from your friend when you knkw she is coming, show car the car say that's what God just do. Trust me she won't give you any money when she is leaving that's all but I see nothing bad in taking her money since you didn't ask, she is doing it willingly.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by yungest(m): 7:19pm On Feb 20, 2022
Candidlady:
sad



Money that you pocket .... Only to come here to start seeking advice...



She sees you as broke.... Up your game....



You prolly look like you need that 1k that's why the poor lady keeps giving you...


Urgent 2k piller


Tueh god forbid


And this one too go call himself man...


MANure that's what you are

You are stupid
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Bryan88(m): 7:25pm On Feb 20, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?
this has notin to do with being matured, broke or rich bro...once had an aunt like that b4 she died. She was also givin us money like that even when boys turned men anytime she visits till she died...Family na family bro...no reason am.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Ybaby: 7:27pm On Feb 20, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

Thank her for that money and do what the rich do .... return the favour.

Any of the below will do

Send her an hamper
Send her lace
Buy her jumia gift card
On her birthday send her money cake etc by surprise company

I love that you donot want to chop a woman money but she is your aunty so you may be a man now but you are her boy
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Crenzywilliams(m): 7:34pm On Feb 20, 2022
Guy, there's nothing wrong in collecting it from here plus am sure she knows u are not a baby and she knows u are not hungry or broke, that's her way of caring for and supporting u. Collect and appreciate it man.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by skukimania(f): 7:39pm On Feb 20, 2022
lilvicky68:
Just tell her to increase it that the 1k is too small for you..


cheesy
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Clinghton: 7:57pm On Feb 20, 2022
Maybe avoid her if she's around.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Advancedman(m): 8:28pm On Feb 20, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

At 28 you dey collect continue.
Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Emdebby2: 9:54pm On Feb 20, 2022
If you don't want the money, don't reject it but you can still give to the poor.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Nobody: 10:04pm On Feb 20, 2022
This life truly no dey balanced at all in fact all these injustice too much God why cry
Some people dey find who go give them that 1k 2k for their daily bread and someone is here rejecting it with confidence.

A great fool is always ungrateful.
No ever make mistake reject those kind gestures even if you won't use it there's a lot of hungry people on the street who'd pray for you if you gift them the cash.
I think you need to step down from your high horse Op.
Don't no amount of money too much or too small to take.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by batb: 10:09pm On Feb 20, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?
If I were, I will collect it until she is not giving it anymore! 1k na 1k! I won't bother myself about her motives. Even with my millions, 0 naira will not buy recharge card, 1k will!

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 20, 2022
nickyj19:
let me forward my account number since you feel you should be the one given not receiving undecided
some people dey even 5n who go give them 1k them no see rubbish
The guy dey very ungrateful shikena undecided
The fact say him post this rubbish here shows how pride is eating him up from the inside.... anyways when the god's want to kill a man they first make mad.
I no wan know how much I go get for acct wen I go dey reject money for this life God no go let me see am.
What's bad if he collects the money and say thank you then give it out instead he's asking the woman what should he use it for.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by NoToPile: 10:19pm On Feb 20, 2022
Our parents and aunts will never ever see a grown man as an adult, at the back of their mind you are still that little girl they carried, bathed for. So it's not a big deal. I am even surprised you see it as a problem OP.

The old people will share what they have, I have been given 2 pieces of gala before by an elderly person, we went to greet him and he shared gala plus tfare to all of us he was an elderly inlaw. We collected with joy.

Op there's some pride in your post, and you feel demeaned by the amount she gave you, if she gave you 50k you won't feel this way, its not healthy to have this type of
mentality.

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Aaaoo: 10:20pm On Feb 20, 2022
Hmmm
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by nickyj19: 10:46pm On Feb 20, 2022
Remag666:

The guy dey very ungrateful shikena undecided
The fact say him post this rubbish here shows how pride is eating him up from the inside.... anyways when the god's want to kill a man they first make mad.
I no wan know how much I go get for acct wen I go dey reject money for this life God no go let me see am.
What's bad if he collects the money and say thank you then give it out instead he's asking the woman what should he use it for.
from op post you will knw e as pride self, ungrateful OP undecided

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by GboyegaD(m): 11:03pm On Feb 20, 2022
NewSoul:

You don't blame him sir that's how society projects how the success of men his age should be. Have a house, a car, a wife and at least a child and you are seen as a fulfilled man in life.

You most times must have seen when people want to describe a man of over 35 that is a failure. You'll hear something like "at his age he has no achievements, wife and children" as if wife and children are achievements. That's how society is designed to measure your success as a man.

As wealthy as Don jazzy is some People that can never measure up to him feel they are better and he is unfulfilled because he has no wife and children

Mariangeles:


I think he’s at that pressure phase. Like most guys who are yet to “make it”, that is why he’s reading more meaning into the nice gestures.

The pressure is what I don't understand. I get it that the society has expectations but people should learn to live above it. I have always told myself I am what I want to be and walk at my pace.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by DJInfluence: 12:37am On Feb 21, 2022
Use the money, add some of yours to it and get her something really nice and expensive. Something that will shake her balance. That's the best way to show your appreciation. You don't have to reject her money or feel bad.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by cho25bc(f): 6:38am On Feb 21, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

Have you ever bought anything for her in return for her kind gesture? If your answer is no, then dont blame her for still giving you money. It's left for you to prove to her that you are now a MAN by giving her nothing less than 10k or more in return or use the money to buy a gift for her.

If you dont give her anything, then dont complain if she still sees you as being broke.

The woman is naturally generous and she cant help it. It's in her blood. You cant take that away from her. She's just doing her thing and doesnt necessarily mean any harm.

Buy the gift for her now and wait for her to visit, then present the package to her even before she dips her hand in her purse to give you urgent 1k. Then you can politely reject her money by telling her jokingly. "Aunty mi, you have tried. It is now my time to start giving you something. Relax and let me also pamper you as you have been pampering me since I was a child." She'll gladly get the message.

By the way, why dont you visit her? Why is she always the one visiting?
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by brain54(m): 9:23am On Feb 21, 2022
Candidlady:
sad



Money that you pocket .... Only to come here to start seeking advice...



She sees you as broke.... Up your game....



You prolly look like you need that 1k that's why the poor lady keeps giving you...


Urgent 2k piller


Tueh god forbid


And this one too go call himself man...


MANure that's what you are
You used to have sense before...I wonder what happened.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Oracleamehdin(m): 9:54am On Feb 21, 2022
This man of God is making sense here!!! Watch and subscribe


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_q5Hh9Rie6w

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Ochelyko1: 10:00am On Feb 21, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

My brother don't reject it keep on taking the money from her, some people are like dat not because they see u hungry or broke but that is their life style. They love given even if the person has more than them.

Received it in appreciation to God Almighty a time will come when she will not be Given you again but you will now be the one given her.

Learn from her and live the kind of life she is living a life of Given.
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Candidlady: 11:29am On Feb 21, 2022
brain54:

You used to have sense before...I wonder what happened.


Misplaced it......


Kindly help me find it
Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by Alabaintprice(m): 1:28pm On Feb 21, 2022
Candidlady:




Lmao


How do you know idont hate my fad...



°°° just so you know igot male friends who are sweet and we by the pool gettng stoned.... If they weren't intelligent... No way iwould allow Mr kabiru allow em access to my abode°°°

Then you're just a bloody liar. You like men. Admit it and get done with this rubbish pretensious life of yours.

Stop coming online to spew rubbish when you certainly know you can't do without them.

Modafucka

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Re: How Can I Reject This Money From My Aunt by brain54(m): 2:18pm On Feb 21, 2022
Candidlady:



Misplaced it......


Kindly help me find it
Ask illicit...he might help.


Seriously though whatever you are taking is altering you. Stay away from drugs.
Friendly advice.

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