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Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by lalasticlala(m): 9:32am On Feb 21, 2022 |
A married couple living in separate NYC apartments say it's done wonders for their relationship. https://www.insider.com/couple-live-apart-new-york-city-say-it-helped-marriage-2022-2
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Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Mariangeles(f): 9:40am On Feb 21, 2022 |
This is like being married and single at the same time. Best of both worlds. This is by far better than open relationship or whatever they call it. 7 Likes |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Mindlog: 9:44am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Well, it sails their marital boat. |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by YinkaOlusesi16(m): 9:47am On Feb 21, 2022 |
There is no wonders in that kind of relationship, they are defrauding each other & creating room for the third party. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by ObiOkpor(m): 9:47am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Sure they can.. They have to build nothing but TRUST! |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Double0h7(f): 9:49am On Feb 21, 2022 |
To each their own... I couldn't spend a night away from my husband. I wish I had my own room sometimes because I hate fighting for the covers and space on the bed... 4 Likes |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by luemz(m): 9:49am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Like someone stated above, it's just like being married yet living single... I don't think I'd want that for my spouse and I. If kids are involved, where would they stay? who would they live with? If it's not circumstances beyond my control for example, being transferred by my job or hers, or career pursuit, I would not want that. Especially not with how mushy and clingy I could be sometimes 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by ObiOkpor(m): 9:49am On Feb 21, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi16:But if they guy is based in yankee, and the lady in Nigeria, no be defrauding be that Abi? |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by BlackXabbath(m): 9:58am On Feb 21, 2022 |
This will surely work for someone like me, I value trust and understanding the more. Love is a mirage. |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by pocohantas(f): 9:58am On Feb 21, 2022 |
I donāt see what is shocking here. I love foreigners because they are true to themselves and own their demons. A lot of couples in Nigeria are living apart. Physically they are together, but emotionally, spiritually, sexually and financially, they are apart. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Acidosis(m): 10:20am On Feb 21, 2022 |
A typical boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Not a big deal. |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by iamyemiakins(m): 10:51am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Beware of entanglements 1 Like
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Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Nobody: 11:43am On Feb 21, 2022 |
. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Candidlady: 11:51am On Feb 21, 2022 |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by thorpido(m): 12:14pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
Married but living single.I guess they don't have kids yet.How they manage with kids? |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by thorpido(m): 12:31pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:I hope it's temporary.It's more complicated though when the kids come and they move in together. |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Nobody: 12:33pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
It can never work with African men, they sha must cheat 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by bigjackass: 1:29pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
This and open marriage is the best. Most married people can't stand each other after some time. No matter the Cinderella love they started with |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Seun(m): 8:24pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
What do you think of separate bedrooms? Your children will know when you want to play. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by sisisioge: 8:28pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
No....I no do. But for this couple, the arrangement is mimicking a temporal separation where the couples are still romantically involved. It will help them grow fonder of each other. Couples on the verge of divorce who still want to stay together usually benefit alot from arrangements like this. |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by GIANTPLUSHUB: 9:08pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
Lemme learn |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Brooke60(f): 9:53pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
Seun:Separate bedrooms is kind of better than this. At least, they are under the same roof 1 Like |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by elantraceey(f): 10:06pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
Not for me. I'm too clingy for this. |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Jhenny(f): 10:06pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
Play as in ? . I and my future husband will definitely have separate bedrooms. I don't like people all up in my face all the time. The marraige will bore me faster if we slept together everyday. And as for play time, the children won't know when you live in a large house. I know many old couples who don't share the same bedroom. With time, the kids will get used to it. And as for the topic, I love the idea actually. I usually wonder how married people still love each other sleeping, waking and doing things together everyday. Not me, wish the above is possible with Nigerian men, e for make sense sha Seun: |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Acidosis(m): 10:57pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
Jhenny: With the right mindset, it won't. Do you ever get bored from bathing with water? Are there times you feel like using palm oil, sand, or acid instead of what you're used to - water? It is act of commitment and service that drive marriage not love. Love is not the reason couples share the same bed for 40 years. Nobody has ever died from sleeping apart so love has nothing to do with couples' decisions to eat together, share the same bed, or go out together. It is simply the act of service, commitment, and faithfulness/loyalty for one another. Moreover, boredom is a normal phenomenon. The boredom our education, movies, internet, etc., could not solve, marriage won't solve. Let's stop seeing marriage as a magical fix to man's innate-, self- or environmental-inflicted problems. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by socialmediaman: 6:58am On Feb 22, 2022 |
Living apart can save some marriages but It also increases cost of living. Lease, furniture etc |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by BlackXabbath(m): 8:04am On Feb 22, 2022 |
Seun:Their problem. |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Olam09(m): 9:42am On Feb 22, 2022 |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Winneygirl(f): 9:45am On Feb 22, 2022 |
Choice. There is really no rule book to life. You create what you want. You find someone who wants the same things you want. |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Seun(m): 1:29pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
BlackXabbath:It's actually healthy for them to know. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Married Couple Living Apart Work? by Pascopele: 2:33pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
No |
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