Hi nairalaners.

Straight to the point, I just got over a messy break up with my ex, so i decided to get back into the dating game. I downloaded tinder and within few hours i began to get alot of matches but the thing is the girls i keep meeting are not responding or will i say the chat are not interactive at all.

However, i felt as if i was the one with the problem that's because I'm an introvert and I am not really good at socializing or meeting new people. I won't describe my personality as charming. Although, I'm a very chill and cool guy. Nevertheless, a part of me still feel these girls are the ones with the issue.

Anyways, I decided to bring the last one i chatted with. So you guys can judge who exactly is the boring one and if there's any area you think i need to improve one, you can point it out. Thank you

Continue chatting now, if you get rabba for hand girls no go care maybe you are boring or not

This is where i became bored

Jamesbiodun:
Continue chatting now, if you get rabba for hand girls no go care maybe you are boring or not

They would still care .. You would just be the boring ATM..

How much is ashawo for your area?

Cus you are suffering from konjilisis ...


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Idonweak:
This is where i became bored

I can relate... I get bored quickly...

Even if everything is okay.. I start to lose focus...

You're alright...

care4you:
How much is ashawo for your area?

Cus you are suffering from konjilisis ...


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It's not always about sex

Datboredberri:
They would still care .. You would just be the boring ATM..

My ATM got no network for fake ass

Datboredberri:
It's not always about sex

Then what ?....as far as the nature's law still exist... Any relationship between male and female (not related). The end product is always sex (direct or indirect)....read my lips again SEX!!!



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https://www.nairaland.com/6996196/giveaway-2-winners-10-each/1#110412053

Up your game my fren! You cannot be using your lack of romanticism or word play as a cover up for being bored.

When y'all are on a date, someone like you go just the press phone anyhow. The ask questions like; "so do you prefer beans or rice?"

All I see there is just a boring sequence of "how are you" and "how was your night" from both of you. Aren't you guys creative? Invite yourselves to an online game or something...

Idonweak:
This is where i became bored

What exactly have you done on your own part? The girl even relax dey respond to all your "how was your night". If na me, I don end the chat since.

Get creative.
Ask her what's her plan for the day, then proceed from there.
Tell her that you're a good cook and how you've used like 17 Maggi to cook 3 cups of rice.
Then proceed to ask her if she cooks.
If she uploads any photo on her status, compliment her and proceed to tell her that she looks like a certain celebrity.
Ideas would come but if the chat doesn't get lively, japa

CountVersailles:

What exactly have you done on your own part? The girl even relax dey respond to all your "how was your night". If na me, I don end the chat since.

Can't you see that there's lack of interest from her part?

I mean aside from the usual "and you". She didn't even care to ask anything personal about me. The conversation was looking like an interview. Honestly, is this the way you converse too?

Brian47:
Get creative.
Ask her what's her plan for the day, then proceed from there.
Tell her that you're a good cook and how you've used like 17 Maggi to cook 3 cups of rice.
Then proceed to ask her if she cooks.
If she uploads any photo on her status, compliment her and proceed to tell her that she looks like a certain celebrity.
Ideas would come but if the chat doesn't get lively, japa

Thanks for tips bro

It's always nice when a woman is into you, everything you do is effortless.

Honestly, the way the world is now, no time for stress. Nothing should be forced. On to the next one.

Brian47:
Get creative.
Ask her what's her plan for the day, then proceed from there.
Tell her that you're a good cook and how you've used like 17 Maggi to cook 3 cups of rice.
Then proceed to ask her if she cooks.
If she uploads any photo on her status, compliment her and proceed to tell her that she looks like a certain celebrity.
Ideas would come but if the chat doesn't get lively, japa

Bad guy, you get correct line I swear

U dey blur her number for WhatsApp and living the one she gave u on Tinder visible werey....by the way going through your chat,and from the way the lady chats,i think she's cool with you unlike some we're u will ask dem how was thier day
All thier replies will be
'Fyn'
'Ok'
'Lol' and so on

It left for you to spice the conversation more with enticing topics

I would have love to give your more formats but all the formats i have on my phone is for iTunes card,Driver licence and SSN

This one na chat abi interview.

Stop interrogating ladies on Tinder, them no be Abba Kyari.

Spice it up bro. Tell her sweet stuff, don't just keep asking superfluous questions.

Tease her, whine her... If possible ask for a hangout if you live close by too. Spend small money {few drinks}.

Na when you see her physically that's when you can continue with the questions and more teasing

OscarJaden:
U dey blur her number for WhatsApp and living the one she gave u on Tinder visible werey....by the way going through your chat,and from the way the lady chats,i think she's cool with you unlike some we're u will ask dem how was thier day
All thier replies will be
'Fyn'
'Ok'
'Lol' and so on

It left for you to spice the conversation more with enticing topics

I would have love to give your more formats but all the formats i have on my phone is for iTunes card,Driver licence and SSN

Thanks bro