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Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by RUKKYPRINCESS: 10:29am On Mar 07, 2022 |
It may be a case of SID (SUDDEN INFANT DEATH) Or maybe the child was forced fed on he choked I lost my son (6 mths) in similar circumstances 5yrs ago We later learnt that the nanny in my late son's school was force feeding him An autopsy revealed stuck food particles in his windpipe Let them take heart, God will console them 1 Like |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by americaninja1: 10:33am On Mar 07, 2022 |
cococandy:Which one would you chose paying bills or endangering the life of your kids.. Does this means She won’t survive if she stays out of the job for few months to raise the child . What if she got sack along the line won’t she survive? I have co-workers that gave birth , this is Lagos o, with the work stress and transportation hustle, those who could not stay out of job for too long improvised by inviting an elderly woman from their family to care for the baby, and was given 5hrs working hour for 6months. If u don’t have cordial relationship with anyone in your family pay for nanny. Nanny is even cheaper than crèche. Abi what’s now d essence of ur work bayi 1 Like |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Acidosis(m): 10:34am On Mar 07, 2022 |
NoToPile: The system is not the issue. Organizations make this information available during induction programmes. The economy isn't the issue either. Buhari has been president for 7 years - What we are facing today has already been predicted a long time ago. I believe that couples should be responsible enough to make provisions for these things. 6-12 months away from a job we love to do shouldn't cause any harm. |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Bekind123: 10:39am On Mar 07, 2022 |
osazsky:And the supposed siblings don't have their own life to live. Don't blame the woman, blame the labour system in Nigeria and the company. |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Advancedman(m): 10:44am On Mar 07, 2022 |
canada2022: Should there be blame at all? |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Teespice(f): 10:46am On Mar 07, 2022 |
I love the comments on this thread. It is exposing ndi Alfa mails one by one. It pays to be consistent and not having a double mouth. Strolls away 5 Likes |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Advancedman(m): 10:47am On Mar 07, 2022 |
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Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Bekind123: 10:47am On Mar 07, 2022 |
GloriousGbola:Are you for real? Renting out people's kids to street beggars, this is scaring! |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Oscillator: 10:48am On Mar 07, 2022 |
cococandy:girl spreads leg in heat or for cash or glitz, got pregnant for a random dude who denies the pregnancy or asked her to go abort it. She keeps it for religious purposes or to hook onto the dude who considers her a pastime. She eventually had the baby without any support and needs to hustle when baby's just 3 months. That story must be familiar to you. even if she had a deadbeat partner, it's still her fault. 3 months old baby in a crèche rests on the woman primarily. But I know you don't like taking responsibility even for your own menses, so it has to be a man's fault that you opened your legs for an absentee sperm donor and carried the child for 9 months and still have to abandon it at a creche at 3 months to hustle. These old Nairaland armchair blind feminist can't even smell their own anus. Now go and ease the guikt killing her now and tell her it's the father's fault. That's if she even know who the father is. 1 Like |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by jeff1993: 10:51am On Mar 07, 2022 |
mrmattolanrewaju:..... Sent sir |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Omini247: 10:51am On Mar 07, 2022 |
The blame is 3months old baby never ready come outside. |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by CHoccolaTE: 10:53am On Mar 07, 2022 |
Nigerian men are just confused and foolish he-goats. Everything is the woman's fault in you people's dumb brains. If she stays at home to care for her child while you provide then she is a liability. If she goes to work to provide then she is a wicked feminist that wants to rub shoulders with men. Brainless oafs. These are the fools married women have to deal with everyday. 4 Likes |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by CHoccolaTE: 10:56am On Mar 07, 2022 |
elantraceey: Elantraceey It seems you are very savvy in the world of online work. Do you care to start a thread or whatsapp group to help women become more enlightened on some online jobs they can do while taking care of their small babies. You could be saving a child's life by providing this information. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by GeniusBob: 11:16am On Mar 07, 2022 |
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Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by cooljude(m): 11:17am On Mar 07, 2022 |
Itsrm: OK o. The underlying fact still remains that a 3 Month old baby should not be in a creche. |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Osilama1: 11:21am On Mar 07, 2022 |
Marcofranz:just shut up rather than this unfortunate comment... Why can't you also blame the father too since yours is to blame without empathy... The baby could have died at home self... So if the woman has work she shouldn't work cos she has a baby... Haba 2 Likes |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Osilama1: 11:25am On Mar 07, 2022 |
eipreel:they don't reason well... It's high time men or father's get paternity leave like women... For instance a woman goes her own the man can choose to go for his later to or both goes to see to their kids at home... Besides we don't even know what killed the child self... That child could still have died at home with the mum... Again those saying the woman shouldn't work are sick... 1 Like |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Osilama1: 11:33am On Mar 07, 2022 |
thesicilian:and the penis that created the baby should do what... Abi people like okonjo iweala, Hilary Clinton,Dora akunyili, etc no get children as career women? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by ImaIma1(f): 11:35am On Mar 07, 2022 |
thesicilian: Unfortunately, that's the case for many. Even 2 months old stay in creches. Maternity leave is 3 montjs and some women have to go on leave before the 3 months. That already reduces the time she'll stay with the baby. I heard private schools give just 4 weeks mat leave. Where do you now leave your baby especially when you need the job. Mum or MIL usually stay for one month and go back to theor lives except in some cases. Plus a lot.of people prefer dropping the babies in a crèche rather than keeping with a nanny at home that could run away with the baby. There has to be some kind of intervention for working mums. No woman wants to leave their little babies at that time. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by ImaIma1(f): 11:38am On Mar 07, 2022 |
descarado: Do you have this in your office? How many offices have those? 1 Like |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by aklion: 11:40am On Mar 07, 2022 |
I swear down you as wife for explain to me how on earth you carry my 3months old baby go keep for creche... Nobody fault but the woman who drop such tender baby at creche... Well maybe e get those wey de do so. But me never you try it. |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by ImaIma1(f): 11:45am On Mar 07, 2022 |
showafrica: You are still the ones that will ask what she is bringing to the table. How are you sure that she's the one that pushed for a job? Have you thought of the fact that they might need the money to support her husband? Why are some of you guys so bias towards women, so quick to label them the fault bearer. And what is wrong in being a career mum? There's nothing wrong with crèches. It has saved families since time immemorial. Do you know if you were kept in a crèche? Most of you unmarried ones are the ones throwing shades like everyone's situation is a perfect one. Get married and run all yours by textbook. 3 Likes |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by lagosrd: 11:54am On Mar 07, 2022 |
cococandy: Go and marry first before you talk to someone like me. My wife cannot be lazy like yours. |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Romanoff(f): 11:59am On Mar 07, 2022 |
pocohantas: I've given up o. 1 Like |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Marcofranz(m): 12:08pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
cococandy:You are not different from that unfortunate fellow. You both lack common sense. Ogun kee you too I’m so pained right now , that man should send that useless woman packing. |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Prophet777: 12:22pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Here are the facts you need to know about this unfortunate issue; Pls stop blaming the mother of the baby. The Nigeria system has failed the little innocent baby. The fact here remains that maternity leave here in Nigeria is just 3 months. After which you might be sacked. Imagine taking a just 3 months old baby to a creche? Ahhh!! Is that reasonable to any right thing person? That is not how the system works in an advanced countries. Then, the death of the baby must also be thoroughly investigated to avoid future reoccurrence. Finally, it should be a standard practice henceforth that every private schools operating kindergarten, creche etc should have a CCTV cameras in their various classes. 1 Like |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Prophet777: 12:23pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
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Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by elantraceey(f): 12:29pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE: I would do that soon but not right now. I'm already overwhelmed with a lot of things going on in my life and I can't start something and leave people hanging. Once I get things a little bit settled, I'll certainly do it. |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Alexaonfleek: 12:53pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
lagosrd:I hope in another thread you won't start calling stay at home women liability o 1 Like |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Alexaonfleek: 12:56pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
DKM123:I love how this thread exposed the hypocrisy of Nairaland men 3 Likes |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Aparche(f): 1:01pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
thesicilian: Life is not always black or white, most times there are a lot of grey areas. This situation may have nothing to do with her abandoning her baby to pursue a career. It's could be a case of survival. I have a cousin who left her job after she became pregnant, her husband had lost his job many years prior to this & was doing nothing. After she gave birth, that was when her suffering started... getting money to feed herself and her other children became a problem. She resorted to begging money to feed. Her husband could not hustle to provide for his family...he depended on this same woman. At a point, her other children stopped going to school 'cos no money to pay school fees. Starting a business was difficult 'cos she had a fragile baby + no money. I'm telling you all these because when a new mom takes her fragile baby to a creche just so she can go back to work...her survival, and that of her children may actually depend on it. Do not be quick to judge people when you have no idea what they're passing through. 6 Likes |
Re: Nursing Mother Loses Her 3-Month-Old Baby At A Crèche by Nobody: 1:09pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Romanoff: Stay at home mums are lazy and a liability honestly. Now to the matter at hand, the wife could have gotten someone to stay with her kid at home and paid the person monthly stipend. |
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