The young lady had believed all her life that her father was a terrible man according to tales fed into her mind by her mother.

After losing her fiance over refusal to meet her dad, the lady put up the courage to meet with her father to confront him for abandoning herself and her mother.

The truth exhumed, however, left her shattered when she realized that she was fed lies all her life.

Read the full narration below …

“What’s the hardest punishment I can give my mum?

I mum destroyed my life. She left my dad 18 years ago while I was still 10years. She told me a lot of bad things about my dad. How wicked he is to her and to me. How he abandoned me. That she’s the one single handedly took care of me. That my daddy divorced her because of a side chick. I grew up hating my dad and I avoided my dad.



I’m the only child of my dad. My dad never remarried but my mum has cohabited with 4different men. She started arranging men for me from 14years and told me that since my dad isn’t sending us money, I need to sell my body, save up and train my self in school.

Ceetee, a lot happened to me. My fiancé broke up with me because he tried reconciling my dad and I but I refused. When we wanted to get married, I insisted that he must go to my mothers side and pay my things. He said he can never do that. Not when my dad is still alive. We broke up because of dad. I never give my dad an Opportunity to talk to me because of the hatred I had for him.

I just found out that my mum lied. I went to my dad and he told me the whole truth. My mum was dating my dads tenant and got pregnant. My dad gave the man quick notice to pack and my mum followed him. My dad showed me his statement of account.

He created that particular account for me and he has consistently sent 50,000 every month for my upkeep. My mum will use it and still claim my dad isn’t sending money. I’ve gone back to my dad but I’m still angry. Ceetee, what’s the best way to punish my mum.”

You wanna punish your mamana ko ?


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Ungrateful kids erwhere

Dear OP, you’ve got no reason to punish your mum cos the punishment won’t correct the wrong she had done.
Just leave her to her maker and forgive her Cos you can never replace your mother.

This is just why I just dey look at Tonto Dikeh and her bitterness towards the father of her son. When the boy grows up, Tonto may regret this her attitude

Manipulative women are everywhere and the best advice I can give this lady is for her to return to her father and build a new future with him . In fact, that would be the best form of revenge for the wicked mother who lied and denied her of her father's presence and love.

Since I came to this world , I've seen a lot of women tell all manners of lies to their children all in a bid to paint their husbands bad in the eyes of those innocent children who know nothing .

I agree that some men were bad and unfaithful...but when you think of the sacrifice , pains and hardships those men had to pass through just to bring home food and shelter, you will shed tears for our fathers and their efforts.

Ghost the irresponsible animal

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WTF MAN!

Every wise child knows that a mother is the last person to pick on.

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Just forgive her and reconcile with your dad

Nothing much.

Couldn't even read that post. I love my mom too much to even think in that direction. Na how to bless her be my constantly I dey on.. she's my Angel

Candidlady:
You wanna punish your mamana ko ?


Get dynamogyn cypril gold(syrup) lamine aka devil's breathe mix all in a juice or Pepsi


Iam not a bad person iam just dishing out advice


Ungrateful kids erwhere

See how the thread confused you. Blame the man let me see.

All the evening newspapers after reading the thread all look confused like a 15th century explorer who just lost his navigational coordinates

A child needs both the father and the mother to grow healthy: physically, mentally, psychologically et Al....

Some women in a bid to punish their hubby ((or to hide their infidelity, in this case)) will end up destroying the mental wellbeing of their children whom they claim to love so much ...

If I were in your shoes, I would forgive her, not because she deserves forgiveness, but because I deserve to be free of such burden ...

I would then have absolutely nothing to do with her from there on, I'll use what little time I have left and build a relationship with my father ...

JaneYave:
Every wise child knows that a mother is the last person to pick on.

You are Mad,yes,no,no,no,no,no,you are possessed.A father is the last person to pick on,if you don't think that way? You are a bastard,bestia del campo

That's easy -
Go get your fiance back - Plan the wedding and after the wedding tell your mum. You'll never get to see the grandkids for the lies you told me.

I listen to a radio program yesterday, same storyline , I can't remember the name of the radio station, many people called in to air their views.
My own advice, no need to punish your mum in anyway, you are an adult now, this is there your maturity counts.
You can still maintain your relationship with your mother not withstanding, this is were you have to use wisdom to deal with both parents so that the past will no more affect the future.
Let the past goes by, you are even lucky the father is still alive to recount his own side of the story.
Hope for a better future.

Tommy4samco:
The young lady had believed all her life that her father was a terrible man according to tales fed into her mind by her mother.

After losing her fiance over refusal to meet her dad, the lady put up the courage to meet with her father to confront him for abandoning herself and her mother.

The truth exhumed, however, left her shattered when she realized that she was fed lies all her life.

Read the full narration below …

“What’s the hardest punishment I can give my mum?

I mum destroyed my life. She left my dad 18 years ago while I was still 10years. She told me a lot of bad things about my dad. How wicked he is to her and to me. How he abandoned me. That she’s the one single handedly took care of me. That my daddy divorced her because of a side chick. I grew up hating my dad and I avoided my dad.



I’m the only child of my dad. My dad never remarried but my mum has cohabited with 4different men. She started arranging men for me from 14years and told me that since my dad isn’t sending us money, I need to sell my body, save up and train my self in school.

Ceetee, a lot happened to me. My fiancé broke up with me because he tried reconciling my dad and I but I refused. When we wanted to get married, I insisted that he must go to my mothers side and pay my things. He said he can never do that. Not when my dad is still alive. We broke up because of dad. I never give my dad an Opportunity to talk to me because of the hatred I had for him.

I just found out that my mum lied. I went to my dad and he told me the whole truth. My mum was dating my dads tenant and got pregnant. My dad gave the man quick notice to pack and my mum followed him. My dad showed me his statement of account.

He created that particular account for me and he has consistently sent 50,000 every month for my upkeep. My mum will use it and still claim my dad isn’t sending money. I’ve gone back to my dad but I’m still angry. Ceetee, what’s the best way to punish my mum.”

Just look at how the mum destroyed this girl's life.
Some women ehn... They deserved to be sentence to death by injection for the kind of emotional atrocities they commit.
My advice is to cut the bastard off from your life. She's a mistake of a mom.
Also, make sure you really beg and ask your dad for forgiveness ok.
Imagine what the man went through all those years.
Also, advice your dad to DNA test on you cos you might not be his kid too. That una former tenant fit be your papa.