Jayzx:

No reply as usual. But I have told her already that I would never bother her again and she should grab whay that means

Don't waste your time with her.

Go for other girls, a girl will decline or accept immediately, if she doesn't want to seem cheap. She might accept the next day or maximum a week's time.

But declining is always instant when they don't want you.

Best thing to do is to stop talking to her about it, don't fight her but reduce the attention. She's a time waster, go for other girls!

Karleb:


Don't waste your time with her.

Go for other girls, a girl will decline or accept immediately, if she doesn't want to seem cheap. She might accept the next day or maximum a week's time.

But declining is always instant when they don't want you.
Thank you boss
Best thing to do is to stop talking to her about it, don't fight her but reduce the attention. She's a time waster, go for other girls!

Thank you boss, I have already told her that yesterday would be the last day I would discuss that with her

Jayzx:

Thank you boss, I have already told her that yesterday would be the last day I would discuss that with her

Good.

Stop telling the enemy your next move, it makes you predictable.

Karleb:


Good.

Stop telling the enemy your next move, it makes you predictable.

Lol. She is not an enemy now

Jayzx:

Lol. She is not an enemy now

Truth is, the lady does not have your best interest at heart.

Anyways, try to leave unannounced next time. That's the core of the message.

Jayzx:
I don't want to be put in friend zone or be a Simp because I don't think it should actually take such a long time .
Please guys I would like to know if I made the wrong decision

Friend zone, do you guys still believe that?

Good decision to let her go, waiting till March! What's that? Is not like you're applying for an overseas travel to wait that long...

Jayzx:
There is this girl I have been asking out since November, she is educated and working. She actually said she would give me reply by March ,when I asked her again she said she need more time. I think it should not take as long if she is really interested so I made the decision that she should tell me her mind tonight or I stop bothering her about the issue. I don't want to be put in friend zone or be a Simp because I don't think it should actually take such a long time .
Please guys I would like to know if I made the wrong decision

In my experience
Any asking out that’s more than 3 months is usually nonsense
They usually end up saying no.
So have plenty options abeg
But the best relationship you will ever have is dating someone you are comfortable with Atleast friends for like 2 months with constant communication

I still don't understand why I should make money and then be begging a girl to come and spend it and she will tell me to wait for a month before giving me answer.

Mind you, I believe in relationship but it should be about two mature adults who understand, like and respect each other and it should start as friendship

ITbomb:
I still don't understand why I should make money and then be begging a girl to come and spend it and she will tell me to wait for a month before giving me answer.

Mind you, I believe in relationship but it should be about two mature adults who understand, like and respect each other and it should start as friendship

Well, I understand you, but one needs to be careful of being "friendzoned" or you have never r heard from a girl that would at the end tell you that we can never be in relationship I prefer keeping you as a good friend while you will always be at the losing end.

I have already made my decision.Evrb if she accept, it is a trap, there is no going back

Jayzx:

Well, I understand you, but one needs to be careful of being "friendzoned" or you have never r heard from a girl that would at the end tell you that we can never be in relationship I prefer keeping you as a good friend while you will always be at the losing end.

That's why I define my stand after max 3 weeks, if you say no, I move. If you still insist on coming close to me after saying no, then touching will start, if you are not comfortable, you move

ITbomb:

That's why I define my stand after max 3 weeks, if you say no, I move. If you still insist on coming close to me after saying no, then touching will start, if you are not comfortable, you move

Lol. That is true though

Update! She messaged on what'sapp some minutes ago and I picked she was requesting I tell her how to on flashlight on video call. She doesn't want and she does not want to let go. Girls can be dubious. I kept my answers with her very short and blunt

Well, she is gone finally. I summoned courage, wrote some heart touching messages, then block her. Now seems my strength is returning. If she is meant for me she would find a means to apologise and if not we meuve. Sometimes it is very necessary as a man to uphold our ego

Jayzx:
Well, she is gone finally. I summoned courage, wrote some heart touching messages, then block her. Now seems my strength is returning. If she is meant for me she would find a means to apologise and if not we meuve. Sometimes it is very necessary as a man to uphold our ego

Has she reply you?

stand on your words n be a man......

Jayzx:
Well, she is gone finally. I summoned courage, wrote some heart touching messages, then block her. Now seems my strength is returning. If she is meant for me she would find a means to apologise and if not we meuve. Sometimes it is very necessary as a man to uphold our ego

Oga I will tell you what people here haven't told you.
YOU ARE A HUGE SIMP.
you are such a disgusting, irritating, weak and effeminate simp.
Aren't you ashamed of yourself?
Girl tell you make you wiay for over four months you dey dey wait.

The funny thing is, this is July and you probably have not found another girl . Even if you have, you're probably simping for her.

You exude too much feminine energy.
Even after all the advice given to you here, you still went ahead to pen down what you call an emotional message to her before blocking her.

This shows you're such a weak and effeminate man.

Guy go check out the Redpill thread on Nairaland and start reading from page 1. That will be the only hope for you to ever quit your weak mindset.

You are still a simp and judging by your responses, you will still be easily preyed on and manipulated by other girls in the future.

You lack frame, you lack confidence, you lack an abundance mindset, you are sexually starved, you cannot control your libido, you yearn for female validation and above all, you lack common sense.

Redemption is far away from you, pathetic simp.