Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by marsup: 9:27am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Why can't the spiritual people, who told you she has been charmed, give you a solution? |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Emperor88(m): 9:28am On Mar 14, 2022 |
vivalavida: My own is that you used your hard earned money to open a business for a woman u have not married. Can never be me. Don't you people learn from the mistake of other people? If I haven't paid for ur dowry, u are not receiving major finance from me. If e vex u, go knack ur head for wall. 90% of Nigerians are senseless...O.P is in the top ten. You Opened shop for someone u are not married to. You prayed about it and your imaginary god showed you that she was charmed but your imaginary god did not give you sense. |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Ochelyko1: 9:28am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: Good morning nairaland families.
I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.
Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.
There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.
But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.
But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.
I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.
Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also. Bro you speak about prayer! Prayer can undo any charm. So I will advice u keep on praying for her. Don't confront the guy physically ooo but do that spiritually. Pray like you have never prayed before. Pray as if your life depends on it. Pray to set your bride to be free from every power of the enemies so my brother pray!!!! |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Fadafada231(m): 9:29am On Mar 14, 2022 |
OloshoMan: So if she eventually comes back, you'll accept her overused kpekus with open arms? Better move on and focus on yourself As in eh I just wonder, some men are strong seriously. |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Alamsvcc: 9:30am On Mar 14, 2022 |
[quote author=Candidlady post=111015538]You slapped her ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°° The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!! Modified : men will always brag bout that thing they have done for a lady!!? Read the story you'd understand what imeant!! °°°°ihave learnt never to collect zilch from any dude.. God forbid no be me una go use shine °°°° you connected her to a business and rented a shop for her gave you the right to SLIGHTY SLAP her @NapoleonHill Thanks!! Experiences could really turn people into something else.. Thanks again It is people like you that has nothing to offer a man except sex that will open your sawered dirty mouth to talk rubbish ...... This is why some men that discovers this attitude of ingratitude in their ladies on time will always prefer not expose them to financial freedom opportunities until they eventually settle down as husband and wife. Common! Stand up and condem this evil deed by your fellow gender and stop defending impunity in form of ingratitude.Else you will latter realize that what goes around comes around. Because he comes to equity must come with clean hands.... |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Candidlady: 9:30am On Mar 14, 2022 |
kenwilk:
I think you have to read this story again. There is something u are missing. Please bring to light the SOMETHING you think iam missing |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Charx122: 9:30am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: Good morning nairaland families.
I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.
Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.
There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.
But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.
But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.
I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.
Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also. One thing is ok to move on ... How could she be so neive to get charmed So if you were married this is how she would have been easly been manipulated another man harvesting from were he didn't invest. Since you found out she's been hypnotized have you seen her or made effort to dissolve this hypnosis.. I would advise you to get to the bottom of this since you have been together For 8years and you still love her if is really something beyond your capability is best You stand down.. |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by teemy(m): 9:31am On Mar 14, 2022 |
@Heartbroken05, The charm in this case is the two "Gentle" slaps.
Habits only grow when married. Since you've dished out the initial taste, you will only keep improving on it. A red flag that happily, the girl heeded to. Trying to blame it on someone else is just trying to justify yourself. This relationship is as good as ended. Commence a new one and take heed not to make that mistake again. Cheers |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Jaylord12(m): 9:31am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: my sister, No one is perfect, I know I over react by slapping her but I regretted already and have for forgiveness. About the seer, you may not believe but I make sure I went to different religious leader and all said everything correctly. I was told to pray for her or tell someone who she listen to to open back her senses. They all said she is currently being charmed and decieved. They said she loves me but she has been put in a state of confusion currently. Her brother and sister has talked to her. They told me she is so adamant right now, and I should just calm down for her now. My candid advice is to pray for her and let go of her.i don't know why u guys so much dwell on prophecy, we were told in 1 Corinthians 13:8;Charity never faileth. But whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. Go know God for yourself...men can be deceitful....I think you pushed her to the arms for the other guy the moment you slapped her |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Dabbey: 9:32am On Mar 14, 2022 |
This is a crap..she doesn't charmed...she might not genuinely love you...moreover, you have seen the sign..the worst is yet to come....please walk away....However, you crossed the line..there is no justification of your action and no excuse...Real men dont beat a woman... |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Oyiboman69: 9:33am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: my sister, No one is perfect, I know I over react by slapping her but I regretted already and have for forgiveness. About the seer, you may not believe but I make sure I went to different religious leader and all said everything correctly. I was told to pray for her or tell someone who she listen to to open back her senses. They all said she is currently being charmed and decieved. They said she loves me but she has been put in a state of confusion currently. Her brother and sister has talked to her. They told me she is so adamant right now, and I should just calm down for her now. you slapped her and so?...didn't you apologize?, why involving your family members because you slap your girlfrien?.don't you know that that is see finish?. Mr man your relationship has ended even before you slapped her and you're just noticing it and blaming yourself for that slap which has absolutely nothing to do in that situation. I'll advice you use your remaining strength to move on and save yourself some dignity over this situation that you're not in anyway at fault.... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Fadafada231(m): 9:33am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: ok thanks. I already accepted my blame for that. I have vowed to never to do again with any woman. Guy count ur loss and move on, how some ppl reason disconcert me at times. Someone who another guy have digged so hard and u re claiming she is charmed. Everything is intentional and deliberate. Move on because if u marry that gal the guy will still Bleep her. Okafors law is real weather charm or not. Move on, move on, move on chai ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Jaymoney5000(m): 9:33am On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by dettolgel: 9:33am On Mar 14, 2022 |
I am glad that the girl left you.
One you are a beater, you are not even married to her you have started dishing light beating what would happen when you finally pay bride price?
Secondly, you depend on spiritualist to solve a problem that is as clear as day light. Isn't that evidence that you don't have a mind of your own ana would make a terrible husband? |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by stephenonyx(m): 9:35am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Candidlady: You slapped her ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°
The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast
And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!!
Modified : men will always brag bout that thing they have done for a lady!!? Read the story you'd understand what imeant!! °°°°ihave learnt never to collect zilch from any dude.. God forbid no be me una go use shine °°°°
you connected her to a business and rented a shop for her gave you the right to SLIGHTY SLAP her
@NapoleonHill Thanks!! Experiences could really turn people into something else.. Thanks again
Can you please shut the Bleep up The guy said she apologized and your taking it this deep. Swear in your life that you have not hurt someone b4 |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by dannex4adx(m): 9:35am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: Good morning nairaland families.
I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.
Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.
There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.
But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.
But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.
I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.
Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also. Bro, if you love yourself leave her and move on. This is a battle you can not win. |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Suspects: 9:37am On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by segcymoor(m): 9:38am On Mar 14, 2022 |
bigpicture001: Don't do anything good to a gf... Till she became a wife... Gf'z only need few cash and plenty dick Street wise... |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Candidlady: 9:38am On Mar 14, 2022 |
stephenonyx:
Can you please shut the Bleep up The guy said she apologized and your taking it this deep. Swear in your life that you have not hurt someone b4 Ihavent sir Ihave never in my life SLIGHTLY SLAPPED someone before |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by tellwisdom: 9:39am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Candidlady: You slapped her ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°
The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast
Wetin u go do?? Onuoha |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by tellwisdom: 9:43am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: my sister, No one is perfect, I know I over react by slapping her but I regretted already and have for forgiveness. About the seer, you may not believe but I make sure I went to different religious leader and all said everything correctly. I was told to pray for her or tell someone who she listen to to open back her senses. They all said she is currently being charmed and decieved. They said she loves me but she has been put in a state of confusion currently. Her brother and sister has talked to her. They told me she is so adamant right now, and I should just calm down for her now. Mumu boi..u went to see a spiritualist because of a woman? And you haven’t gone spiritual to know why you are poor or are a mumu man?? Onye iberibe jati jati.
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Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Starzo: 9:44am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Candidlady: You slapped her ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°
The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast
And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!!
Modified : men will always brag bout that thing they have done for a lady!!? Read the story you'd understand what imeant!! °°°°ihave learnt never to collect zilch from any dude.. God forbid no be me una go use shine °°°°
you connected her to a business and rented a shop for her gave you the right to SLIGHTY SLAP her
@NapoleonHill Thanks!! Experiences could really turn people into something else.. Thanks again
shut up!...na people like una dey collect serious beating pass from boyfriends. After una don make mouth for outside finish una go behave like fowl wey Dem baff with cold water inside house. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by ike007(m): 9:44am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Charmed indeed.. Oga you hit her. She got scared. And ran into the arms of the guy that used to knack her...oops sorry. Makes her laugh.
You caused it |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by bepositive11: 9:45am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: yes, I know I bleeped up for slapping her, this same guy cause the provokeness and devil used me. But immediately I regret my actions and begged her. This is the first time I did this to her, have apologize and promise my self it won't ever repeat again. The devil didn't use you. You used your own hand to slap her. Please take responsibility for your actions |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by NairaMaster1(m): 9:47am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Candidlady: You slapped her ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°
The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast
And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!!
Modified : men will always brag bout that thing they have done for a lady!!? Read the story you'd understand what imeant!! °°°°ihave learnt never to collect zilch from any dude.. God forbid no be me una go use shine °°°°
you connected her to a business and rented a shop for her gave you the right to SLIGHTY SLAP her
@NapoleonHill Thanks!! Experiences could really turn people into something else.. Thanks again
Eyaaa! You are s stunch feminist. |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by ACE1010: 9:49am On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by sajmark(m): 9:50am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: Good morning nairaland families.
I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.
Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.
There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.
But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.
But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.
I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.
Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also. Don't save her, she doesn't want to be saved. Move on with your life bro, you cannot negotiate genuine desire. Never ever try convincing a woman to like you. You think you love her until you go out and meet another woman then you will realise how quickly love can be transferred from one person to another. She is actually doing you a great favour, you wouldn't have been happy in the marriage. The attached picture illustrates what you are doing right now, stop.
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Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by ImaIma1(f): 9:51am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: yes, I know I bleeped up for slapping her, this same guy cause the provokeness and devil used me. But immediately I regret my actions and begged her. This is the first time I did this to her, have apologize and promise my self it won't ever repeat again. Unfortunately, you can fall into the same temptation again. In fact, it is most likely that you will. Which lady wants to be chopping beating? Especially when she has seen signs already. About the other guy, it might not be any charm but just that the guy was there to "make her laugh" and forget the beating you gave her. The prophets are probably telling you what you want to hear. And quit visiting "spiritual houses" or you will find what you are looking for. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Suspects: 9:52am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Ficient:
That thing inside your head is brain but if you are thinking like this I'm afraid maybe it's pepsodent toothpaste that is there violence noise spotted ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Stevenbright(m): 9:53am On Mar 14, 2022 |
No body charmed her. She know what she is doing. Just move on. |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by Amotekun777: 9:56am On Mar 14, 2022 |
emerazz: OP your head no correct at all I swr...
One ungrateful girl dey cheat on you, you begin waka go meet spiritual people nobe craze be DAT?..
Wat wer u expecting the spiritualists scammers to tell you??.. Definitely dey must tell you what will make you come back to them na, that's how they get food on dia table, the next tin deyll tell you now is how much ull bring to break the charm ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png)
You're just simping rn but I don't blame you sha na mumu love still dey your eye..
The earlier you collect your shop back from her and give someone else to manage while you get d returns the beta for you in this harsh economy.. Rub.bish..
Dey dia dey listen to scammers make anoda man dey chop your sweat.. Datz why Somtimz I don't blame the redpillers when they go too extreme with their teachings... Baba, ur head too correct, I swear. OP na Fool! ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Re: My Fiancee Just Broke My Heart by VenumX: 9:57am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Heartbroken05: Good morning nairaland families.
I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.
Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.
There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.
But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.
But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.
I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.
Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also. It's not charm.. Na the slap wey you give am and I know you are verbally abusive too. Her eye don clear now. She don dey see road. |