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I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 10:41am On Mar 17, 2022
Good day, Fellas. My introvertism is really strange. I rarely mingle with people in a social gathering. I like being alone most times. I hate gossips, busybodies and backbittings, unnecessary laughter or noise. Whenever i see 3 or more people gathering and chatting together, i won't join them. If it's possible for me to take another route for them not to see me or notice me, i would do so but if i noticed that there is no other route except passing where they are, i would greet them and go. I.e how far? Good evening. I don walka be that. But if u are one,two sitting together, i might join u. Anything like three, four or more people, i don walka be. If i am in the house and 3 or 4 people i don't feel like relating to are passing by, i could remain in the house until they pass by b4 i will come out. I rarely make friends and can be very selective making friends. I rarely talk, so quiet but I chose to talk when i want to. I'm loner too.

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Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 10:25pm On Mar 18, 2022
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Theama(m): 11:07pm On Mar 18, 2022
sad

Not that strange-ish

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Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Bloggersp: 7:55am On Mar 19, 2022
A time will come when you will need to go out in search for daily bread (except you're a programmer), you better start being social now, it will help in the future, I'm like you but not as sensitive
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Nobody: 8:11am On Mar 19, 2022
Truvelisback:

I'm not an introvert... I love people... In a crowd, I'm comfortable... With a few people, I'm shy...

I avoid my neighbours... If I'm strolling and i see them, I would take another route too... Even if it's longer...

I'm not a loner... I have many friends... I don't even know most of their names but I'm lonely cause there are many things I can't discuss with them... So they aren't really my friends...
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Sheddy5(m): 8:16am On Mar 19, 2022
Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. My introvertism is really strange. I rarely mingle with people in a social gathering. I like being alone most times. I hate gossips, busybodies and backbittings, unnecessary laughter or noise. Whenever i see 3 or more people gathering and chatting together, i won't join them. If it's possible for me to take another route for them not to see me or notice me, i would do so but if i noticed that there is no other route except passing where they are, i would greet them and go. I.e how far? Good evening. I don walka be that. But if u are one,two sitting together, i might join u. Anything like three, four or more people, i don walka be. If i am in the house and 3 or 4 people i don't feel like relating to are passing by, i could remain in the house until they pass by b4 i will come out. I rarely make friends and can be very selective making friends. I rarely talk, so quiet but I chose to talk when i want to. I'm loner too.
same with me.
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 9:18am On Mar 19, 2022
Datboredberry:
I'm not an introvert... I love people... In a crowd, I'm comfortable... With a few people, I'm shy...

I avoid my neighbours... If I'm strolling and i see them, I would take another route too... Even if it's longer...

I'm not a loner... I have many friends... I don't even know most of their names but I'm lonely cause there are many things I can't discuss with them... So they aren't really my friends...
I'm opposite. I'm not comfortable being in a crowd where they are gisting and laughing or a place where gossip is going on. Any company that exceeds 2 people, i won't be there except they are people i feel comfortable staying around with or people i feel i can trust. And when it comes to friendship or making friends, age means nothing to me. Even if i am far older than u are, it means nothing to me as long as the Respect is there.
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by sheanzy(m): 9:49am On Mar 19, 2022
Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. My introvertism is really strange. I rarely mingle with people in a social gathering. I like being alone most times. I hate gossips, busybodies and backbittings, unnecessary laughter or noise. Whenever i see 3 or more people gathering and chatting together, i won't join them. If it's possible for me to take another route for them not to see me or notice me, i would do so but if i noticed that there is no other route except passing where they are, i would greet them and go. I.e how far? Good evening. I don walka be that. But if u are one,two sitting together, i might join u. Anything like three, four or more people, i don walka be. If i am in the house and 3 or 4 people i don't feel like relating to are passing by, i could remain in the house until they pass by b4 i will come out. I rarely make friends and can be very selective making friends. I rarely talk, so quiet but I chose to talk when i want to. I'm loner too.
weakling
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Candidlady: 9:55am On Mar 19, 2022
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sheanzy:
weakling
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Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 10:00am On Mar 19, 2022
sheanzy:
weakling
From ur own pant of view.
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 10:54am On Mar 19, 2022
Bloggersp:
A time will come when you will need to go out in search for daily bread (except you're a programmer), you better start being social now, it will help in the future, I'm like you but not as sensitive
I'm social but not that social. I.e open teeth dey chat with people like that. I'm that, good morning, good afternoon or good evening kind of guy. I'm working too but i am very careful when it comes to making friends or associating with people. I always avoid being too familiar with people except people i feel comfortable to be around with.
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by sheanzy(m): 10:54am On Mar 19, 2022
Truvelisback:
From ur own pant of view.
you can't talk back at me if you see me in real life
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 10:56am On Mar 19, 2022
sheanzy:
you can't talk back at me if you see me in real life
Are u monster or what?
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by sheanzy(m): 11:07am On Mar 19, 2022
Truvelisback:
Are u monster or what?
cos you are an introvert
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 11:19am On Mar 19, 2022
sheanzy:
cos you are an introvert
That i am an introvert doesn't mean i am not tough. I'm very tough and stubborn. I'm just the type that just want to stay out of trouble. I no like make person dey hear my voice all the time.
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by BunbleBee: 11:23am On Mar 19, 2022
Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. My introvertism is really strange. I rarely mingle with people in a social gathering. I like being alone most times. I hate gossips, busybodies and backbittings, unnecessary laughter or noise. Whenever i see 3 or more people gathering and chatting together, i won't join them. If it's possible for me to take another route for them not to see me or notice me, i would do so but if i noticed that there is no other route except passing where they are, i would greet them and go. I.e how far? Good evening. I don walka be that. But if u are one,two sitting together, i might join u. Anything like three, four or more people, i don walka be. If i am in the house and 3 or 4 people i don't feel like relating to are passing by, i could remain in the house until they pass by b4 i will come out. I rarely make friends and can be very selective making friends. I rarely talk, so quiet but I chose to talk when i want to. I'm loner too.
That's extreme and it's bad. Too much is bad. A time will come when you'll have to open up. No one person can do it alone in life. You'll have to start mingling and relating with people.

If you work in an office, you will have relate wit your colleagues and managers. If you own a business, you'll have to interact , mingle with your customers and promote your business (except you don't want to make money).

See ehn, I am an introvert too and the only upside is, it's helps you mind your business and stay out of trouble. Other than that, you have alot to lose as an [b]extreme[\b] introvert. I have lost out on life-changing opportunities just because "I loved my space" & couldn't network with people that matter.

Though, I have worked (and still working) on it and yes I'm doing fine at my job. Now, If I'm alone, I'm fine. If I'm in a gathering of people discussing, I'm still fine.

So start working on it. You can't help yourself alone in this world. Heavens help people through other people. So loosen up and learn to mingle and socialize( not everybody oo).

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Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 11:44am On Mar 19, 2022
BunbleBee:
That's extreme and it's bad. Too much is bad. A time will come when you'll have to open up. No one person can do it alone in life. You'll have to start mingling and relating with people.

If you work in an office, you will have relate wit your colleagues and managers. If you own a business, you'll have to interact , mingle with your customers and promote your business (except you don't want to make money).

See ehn, I am an introvert too and the only upside is, it's helps you mind your business and stay out of trouble. Other than that, you have alot to lose as an [b]extreme[\b] introvert. I have lost out on life-changing opportunities just because "I loved my space" & couldn't network with people that matter.

Though, I have worked (and still working) on it and yes I'm doing fine at my job. Now, If I'm alone, I'm fine. If I'm in a gathering of people discussing, I'm still fine.

So start working on it. You can't help yourself alone in this world. Heavens help people through other people. So loosen up and learn to mingle and socialize( not everybody oo).


I do mingle and relate with people but not frequently.
Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by February30(m): 12:01pm On Mar 19, 2022
Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. My introvertism is really strange. I rarely mingle with people in a social gathering. I like being alone most times. I hate gossips, busybodies and backbittings, unnecessary laughter or noise. Whenever i see 3 or more people gathering and chatting together, i won't join them. If it's possible for me to take another route for them not to see me or notice me, i would do so but if i noticed that there is no other route except passing where they are, i would greet them and go. I.e how far? Good evening. I don walka be that. But if u are one,two sitting together, i might join u. Anything like three, four or more people, i don walka be. If i am in the house and 3 or 4 people i don't feel like relating to are passing by, i could remain in the house until they pass by b4 i will come out. I rarely make friends and can be very selective making friends. I rarely talk, so quiet but I chose to talk when i want to. I'm loner too.


bro I was worse, and


I got married,

I needed more funds,

I needed to mingle,

I needed to socialize,

I needed to hide my real feelings.

I started acting extroverted.


Shalom bro.

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Re: I'm an introvert(a strict one) by Truvelisback(m): 12:09pm On Mar 19, 2022
February30:



bro I was worse, and


I got married,

I needed more funds,

I needed to mingle,

I needed to socialize,

I needed to hide my real feelings.

I started acting extroverted.


Shalom bro.
I do act extrovert too. people(outsiders) i know couldn't detect that i am an introvert except my love ones or people who are very close to me.

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