This life isn't balanced at all. To whom it may concern, your candid advise is nedded

I was dating a guy, when I got pregnant his parents forced him to deny the pregnancy then they sent him to the United States leaving me with the pregnancy. 2 months later, I met a guy who decided to be with me even though I was pregnant with someone else. He supported me right through birth. After giving birth, he enrolled me in a training center and paid for it all. It's been 5 years since we've been together. My whole family knows him, he plan: to gift me in 3 months. But the problem is my baby daddy is back, He has apologized to me and is ready to take me back with his child, I confess I'm still in love with him, he
might take me to the states with him, this is an opportunity for me, I want to go back with him but I'm afraid to hurt the other guy. How do I make him understand and also not to feel betrayed and hurt? It's true that he made a lot of sacrifices for me, but I must not be a hypocrite towards him, because in my heart he is not my kind.

Asin....... No be small matter.

Ok

I confess I'm still in love with him.

Many reasons you people get used.

He
might take me to the states with him, this is an opportunity for me

Dear pest, you do not deserve a good person.

This is the part where i fear that gender even though there are many good ones out there ...

You are already a confirmed hypocrite. You knew he was not your type but you allowed him to nurse your broken heart and fix your broken life.
Do what you must in the name of love since you know what your heart wants. However, be sure that you will someday wish you listened to your brain rather than your heart.

You can decide not to marry a guy you don't love but if you marry a guy that doesn't love you, it is worst, infact you will be making the biggest mistake of your life. For that guy to deny you and the baby at first he might not love you. What are you trying to do to yourself? His family doesn't like you and you want to marry him. Are you not suppose to even be a close friend to your mother-in-law to be?

Rosement:
You can decide not to marry a guy you don't love but if you marry a guy that doesn't love you, it is worst, infact you will be making the biggest mistake of your life. For that guy to deny you and the baby at first he might not love you. What are you trying to do to yourself? His family doesn't like you and you want to marry him. Are you not suppose to even be a close friend to your mother-in-law to be?

You better take this advice whoever is seeking for advice.

Let me add, advicee you must be an ingrate fellow, yes you're a big ingrate. So because of yanki, yoy want to leave the person who truly loves you even with your unwanted pregnancy and follow the person that abandoned you with his pregnancy. Something is definitely wrong with your head i swear. Your eyes go clear soon.

Taking this gender serious na big palaver,cos of yankee now you want to abandon who stood by you nawa o

mardis:


You better take this advice whoever is seeking for advice.

Let me add, advicee you must be an ingrate fellow, yes you're a big ingrate. So because of yanki, yoy want to leave the person who truly loves you even with your unwanted pregnancy and follow the person that abandoned you with his pregnancy. Something is definitely wrong with your head i swear. Your eyes go clear soon.

Why not read my comment properly before quoting me? I advised her not to go with the guy that abandoned her and her baby.

Rosement:

Why not read my comment properly before quoting me? I advised her not to go with the guy that abandoned her and her baby.

I am telling the person seeking for advice to take your advice na. And also decided to add mine.

mardis:


I am telling the person seeking for advice to take your advice na. And also decided to add mine.

Sorry, I misunderstood you.