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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by od501: 12:33am On Mar 22, 2022 |
chatinent: So...Alpha males lidis still exist? Chop knuckles jaree.. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by ejieddy: 12:42am On Mar 22, 2022 |
1) Buy in bulk. A bag of Rice is btwn 22,000 and 26,000. Buy Yam, garri, beans and spaghetti, indomie. At least the staples. From what you give her, i believe you can afford to. Don't forget Vegetable oil and Red oil, 30 litres can suffice. This can last you for three months if not more. 2) You need beverages. Milo, Milk, sugar, butter etc. 3) Budget for filling of gas, 12.5kg @ 7,500. Can take you a month or more. Have a 3kg reserve. 4) Budget 7,000 for soup and stew every week. 4,000 for beef/chicken and the remaining for pepper, tomato and ingredients. 5) Be involved in the kitchen matters. Not by lording it over her, but visit the kitchen from time to time. See what's happening, play with her there. Jokingly call her attention to any waste and if anything is about to be finished. You'll finally be able to know what's obtainable in the market. 6) The truth is, the market is not smiling. Went with my wife to market with 30,000. What we came back with was a bagco bag and half. It's ridiculous out there bro. So just get involved, to avoid complaining, so you will see how she's using the money and maybe you'll appreciate her more or she'll learn to manage more. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Trojan8(m): 12:45am On Mar 22, 2022 |
DKM123: Are you sure that you read the story? The fact that you are rich does not mean everybody is like you. A man giving his wife 1k per day for transportation to her place of work, that's at least 25k in a month. She's not contributing a dime from her salary, yet complains that 50k monthly for feeding is too small. Is that not madness? The fact that you are also supporting this shows the kind of society we have today. If the man dies tomorrow, she would explain who's going to be dishing out 80k monthly for her. Note: I am not saying 50k is too much, but she has a job. Why can't she augment that 50k with say 20k from her salary? Meanwhile she has her own family member in same house. Would she have been happy if she was the one bringing the money while her husband's relative is in same house? We need to learn how to be empathic abeg. It's not easy to make money. Modified: This one na men hater, so I expect a senseless response. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by uvie66: 12:46am On Mar 22, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:the thing weak me.... weytin e dey chop, you can still get akpu and egusi soup for 800 cad |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Slimdaddy27(m): 12:56am On Mar 22, 2022 |
I am so sorry to say these .. Why is it difficult for most people to read before saying rubbish? The OP said the wife is working for crying out loud,she is working,we all know things are difficult,so the man should kill himself? What is the wife doing with her salary? Where is the support system in marriage? We should learn to manage ,they are some men who does not have a job with family of 5 ..no noise no abuse because there is what we call understanding in marriage...marry ur friend or better still marry who understands you Marriage this days dey fear man |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Lastmankc(m): 1:15am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:Not reading might kill you one day 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Rinoxy: 1:16am On Mar 22, 2022 |
rajiedreez:Reasonable submission, I wonder why most of the commenters here are talking like they don't know that millions of men earn 50k or less. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Thinktwicemybro: 1:19am On Mar 22, 2022 |
shantti:Of course it can but what I mean 6k per market day, which is every 4 days. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Blackdisciple(m): 1:28am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Hmmmm.... What if you start doing the upkeep yourself since 50k is small for her even as you do give her 1k for TP everyday to work. And she's working ooo..... Bros na God go help your ehhh... |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Rinoxy: 1:30am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Opus85: Another sensible and realistic comment. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Rinoxy: 1:38am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Trojan8: Thanks for responding. I was gonna do that. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by DKM123: 1:38am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Trojan8: I was gonna reply you like I would to a reasonable human while reading your mention but I got to the ending part and realised you are actually a St*pid idiotic ewu! You are one of those nairaland women haters that I am specifically here for. Why wouldn't you support wickedness that your own mother cannot bear. All sorts of insults has been poured on the woman because she says the money is not enough and it's tickling your scrotum, abi? What is the OP coming to nairaland to wail for? Are this crop of men here going to help his marriage? Shebi the man is the head of the house according to you morons. Come and head now, you want her to use her salary. If someone suggest that the man start going to the market and doing the cooking, moronic imbeciles like you will scream Blue murder. Is this how you people want to do your "Alfa mail"? Abi na Alfa mail for only wickedness? That head, you morafvukas must head it by fire by force. Did I mention that you are an idio*tic imbe*cilic mor*on? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by AutoRedux: 1:54am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: Bro she dey work. And he still gives her tfare. Bros where your eyeballs dey? Abi dem no dey functions again? Or abi you no read the story. You are the second to comment. That alone shows you ran off to comment before digesting what the guy wrote. Bro? You dey hear me so? Abeg go back and read the story again. But this time around read am line by line. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by jolyment: 1:58am On Mar 22, 2022 |
[quote author=BluntNigerian post=111235843] What type of food have you been feeding yourself with, that you consume more than N50,000 every week . I join you to ask |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by AutoRedux: 2:05am On Mar 22, 2022 |
efficiencie: That stupid guy you quoted never read the post. He just commented for commenting sake. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by AutoRedux: 2:11am On Mar 22, 2022 |
on4a: See nonsense wey you dey talk. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by ariesbull: 2:18am On Mar 22, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:Omo your stupidity is amazing... So for 50k rive, beans etc no dey Well, I no fit talk shaaa |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kobojunkie: 2:27am On Mar 22, 2022 |
grandstar:I doubt that very much since the man says he has been handing her the the amount since 2019. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by yusluvad(m): 3:11am On Mar 22, 2022 |
chatinent:You no dey miss target... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by yusluvad(m): 3:12am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Mercychen:Oga follow this woman advice... |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Pain(m): 3:18am On Mar 22, 2022 |
It's not an argument of whether 50K is enough or not. It's about cutting your coat according to your size. In some homes 50K is snack money 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Roseey0(f): 3:48am On Mar 22, 2022 |
50k sounds big until you enter market o. It's not just enough to say manage it, help her manage it as the man of the house. I say this because, I know what it feels like to be given so much, but you have a partner that is demanding. Mine for instance will want to run Generator all night like say fuel cost hasn't changed. He wants to eat 3 different meals in a day and you can't give him a meal he ate the previous day, that means you can't cook in bulk and you will have to buy new things everyday. He wants to order sendemendes from time to time claiming its not an everyday thing. If I complain its expensive, he will say I am boring. I should losen up.Las las, money go dey deplete. When you ask for more he will say why didn't you manage what was given. Trust me, if she give you that 50k to run the house for just 1month , e no go last 1week for your hand. Either you guys cut your expenses as a family all together or you increase allowee 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Didi2d(m): 4:10am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Thinktwicemybro: Baba read well before you comment na! The OP said his wife is a working class woman. A good job at that |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Uyoukowise: 4:46am On Mar 22, 2022 |
[quote author=obyikye post=111247032]50,000 divide by 30days = 1,667naira Then 4 people will eat 3 times daily = 4*3=12 1,667/12= 138.9 per meal. IN FOOD THIS YOUR CALCULATION DON'T WORK,THE MONEY WAS GIVING ONCE NOT DAILY. Crayfish Meat Tomotoes Beans Yams Potatoes Onions Pepper Soup condiments Pap Bread Seasoning Indomie Eggs. Samo/Garri/Fufu Salt. Spaghetti.YOUR WIFE MUST BE YOUR MANAGER,THIS LIST CAN NOT WORK,THE BABY IS NOT EATING MUCH FOR NOW AND THE FEEDING OF 9 YEAR OLD IS 25% OF WHAT OP AND IS WIFE WILL EAT. OP WIFE IS MANIPULATIVE NO LOVE,ASK OP THE LAST TIME HE HAD SEX WITH IS WIFE. SHE WILL NOT DO THE COOKING AND OP DON'T KNOW HOW TO COOK. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Veeryeasy(m): 5:15am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Goldbw122: Did you even read this thread to the end? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Obason22(m): 5:20am On Mar 22, 2022 |
Marriage is for matured men not for children, the reason I said this is cos in marriage as a man u have to take some strong decision at a time to save ur marriage, but if u allow ur woman to drive u like timper, one day she drives u like dangote. Remember when u die she continues her life. If it's one of my finger is trying to cost me death, I rather cut it off. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Veeryeasy(m): 5:21am On Mar 22, 2022 |
BluntNigerian: ![]() ![]() |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by olaniyi900: 5:22am On Mar 22, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:Increase the money to 70k and stop giving her transportation to are work, this means you are still spending the same thing. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Megabig: 5:25am On Mar 22, 2022 |
degamonn:I was shocked, I can’t marry someone who can’t contribute financially as well. It’s not possible |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Offpoint1: 5:38am On Mar 22, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:Probably all those nonsense cuisines |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Subonbon(m): 5:46am On Mar 22, 2022 |
chatinent:hahahaha..... Military bro!! 1 Like 1 Share |
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