| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by DarkJeddi(m): 5:45pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Fahdiga:
You try. kudos. May your children lift you 8ft above the ground and leave you to fall yakata in future in Jesus name amen May your children marry the type of woman the OP calls mother in Jesus name.. Say Amen..  |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by opera1(m): 5:47pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg I had your mom type as a neighbor few years ago so I can relate. Your number one mistake was exchanging words with your mom as this will usually ignite her anger and you too. You should have leave the house immediately without responding to her. Way out: Go back to the house, beg your dad to forgive you for beating his wife and ask him to help you beg your mom. Beg your mom for forgiveness and never say a word other than "please, it's devil's work, forgive me" . After the begging, leave the house and call her occasionally to greet her. May God soften her heart and heal you too. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Fahdiga(m): 5:50pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
TheNiceGuy:
Fahdiga, brainless and unreasonable?
It's not surprising when someone is still eating mummy thank you Shatap. Your children will lift you 30ft and above in future 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by TheNiceGuy(m): 5:54pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
For eating mummy thank you after graduation?  Fahdiga:
Shatap. Your children will lift you 30ft and above in future 
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| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by rollywise(m): 5:55pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Ok. Don't make it much of a big deal else you won't forgive yourself even if she has forgiven you. Even the bible says parents must not provoke their children to anger. First of all go to God and ask for mercy. Then go to her, if possible kneel and beg her to the point she forgives you. Once she does, bros do all you can to limit your time with her. It's not only your house in that area that has light. If you want to look after your brother then let him spend more time with you in your place. Ensure your mum sees you once in a blue moon. That way she'll value the little time you spend together. And work on your temper, not because of your mother but for your prospective wife and other provocative women you'll come across in your works of life. You won't keep slapping each one that pushes your anger to that point your mother did. But overall, you are a real man. You'll only get better 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Your mother has a troublesome and wicked spirit, these kind of people will provoke you to your elastic limit and if you are not led by the spirit of God, you will overreact, go and apologise to her kneeling down and also learn to control your emotions.
The worst thing that can happen to you is if you let your emotions take control of you, always put your emotions under control.
Please learn to control your emotions cause the devil will always use people to tempt you. 2 Likes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Stanleyq: 6:05pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg 4 ME, i have seen no error in your typing. but i advise u to go and apologize to her. she is your mum by all means. whenever she carries bad thing in mind against u and did not forgive u till she dies ..i fear it may affect u. talking with experience from one of my cousins 2 Likes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Herculex03(m): 6:08pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Truth is your mama is not my good person most of them are not though
No one will agree because everyone sees a mother as an angelic creature
My advice is for you to take some time off maybe some months,then return with an apology. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by SweetDipBenny(m): 6:09pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg I know ur family. That ur mamma na real trouble maker. U better come back before another person go slap her join 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by ChoCho54(f): 6:11pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
elmagnifico411:
A big fat lie! His future kids would do no such thing if he doesn't drive them crazy like his mom did to him. He's regretting his actions already, let's help him heal. There's a part in the bible that advise parents about being careful with their kids. The two of them needs forgiveness, not just him alone. I pray God will heal his mother. Thanks for this. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Backlaw406(m): 6:14pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
baby124:
You are deranged for slapping your own mother. Or don’t you realize yet that you have a big mental problem? You are instead asking me that question? You and your mother are deranged. Since you are both fighting like untrained animals in the street. Next time give your father a big blow and break his teeth. Your parents deserve it for raising a mad animal like you. lol, you people got badmouth sha, walahi I can't stop laughing with this. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by ChoCho54(f): 6:16pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
gone to my place since it happened Apologize to your dad, your mum and siblings and yourself. If mum continues to be caustic, I'll advise you stay completely away from her now and concentrate on finding your feet... time heals all wounds. But don't loose yourself over this incident Move on and past it already. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Moz22: 6:22pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Acidbath:
Sincerely ask for your mother's forgiveness...then avoid the house for a while. Even when you go back every now and then, avoid any banter with her.
Your dad likes her like that...that's why he is still married to her. really doesn't have a choice 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by olibeans: 6:26pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg Guy go and hang yourself 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by PeachtreeReside(f): 6:27pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Iyaebe:
Hmmmm,you need to seriously beg for her forgiveness else your future kids will hit you too and it becomes a thing in the family, you should have simply left the scene rather than exchanging words with her but she pushed you to it which is bad on her side but she’s your mom and has some edge over you.Learn to keep some distance from people who can easily trigger you be it parents and whatever.Go and redeem this messy situation and never allow such to happen again,also ask God to forgive you after your mom has finally forgiven you.Good luck Eyes rolling...puhleaze. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by M3A16(m): 6:31pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
It is a pity that you have got to deal with a parent of such attitude but our parents become our cross the moment we are able to identify purpose of living regardless of their lapses or faults.... You have done the abomination my bro, quickly find a way to seek for her genuine forgiveness and thereafter turn to your creator for the same. Note: there is no shame here oooo, you have made a deadly mistake and you have been sharply able to recognize that, kindly do this needful ASAP.
May we all be guided and forgiven
My heart is with you bro 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nma75: 6:33pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
I understand how you feel. Just go on your knees and ask God to forgive you first. Also ask God to visit your mom on your behalf so that when you approach her, she will listen and forgive you. But please, never ever try that again. Pray for God's Grace to always over come her trouble. Make sure she forgives you. You can involve anyone close to her to achieve peace. 2 Likes |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Backlaw406(m): 6:34pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Iyaebe:
How old are you?please learn to listen to the voice of the elders as it will do you plenty good.Its possible this hitting isn’t just starting with him but he can break that yoke by refusing to thread that path,and if it’s starting with him then he should do everything possible to stop it now,you children of these days knows nothing about life and it’s rules.Anyways you’ll grow up and when you do you’ll begin to understand things better.Have a nice day my child and stay out of trouble lol. If I may ask, how old is Iyaebe? |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by sphinixs2: 6:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg like you rightly said...there's no excuse for what you did. you are already remorseful so no need crying over spilt milk. seek your mother's forgiveness; no one is perfect. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
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| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by BalticGold: 6:54pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
We have a man in my place who use to beat his father, one of his son grew up to beat him. His son's sons are now beating their own father.
Pls make peace with your mother. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Perfectbeing(m): 6:57pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
There's this woman in the next compound. Like this woman screams at her children 24/7.. And the youngest child is in Senior secondary. Like she's so so annoying that I hope her kids won't actually beat her up one day.. Any small thing she don throway insults.. She insults both the children and their dad. I actually don't think the man stays with them anymore. No man can stay with that woman..
This woman will start screaming as early as 4 am till as late as 11 pm in the night. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Nobody: 7:00pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
TheNiceGuy:
Fahdiga, brainless and unreasonable?
It's not surprising when someone is still eating mummy thank you |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by SILVERLINES: 7:01pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg comrade I feel ur pains and at this point I won't condemn u or ur mother but all I know from the story u put on here is that ur mother is a good woman all she wants is the best for you and the entire family, but most times mothers thinks handing family and children in a very tough manner will yield positive result to what they want. I will advise you to go back to your mother, fall on her knees and seek for her forgiveness wholeheartedly. apologize to your father and ask for his forgiveness too 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by peacemara54(m): 7:02pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
It shouldn't have happen in the first place. Nothing, no matter how extreme should make you hit your mother.
First thing to do , is to give your life to Jesus.
It's very important. Only Jesus can save from curses, any curses whatsoever. Be it maternal, generation and so on. He will give you perfect security.
If you have Jesus in you, it's impossible to encounter this type of trouble.
Confess your sins, and call Jesus into your life.
Be worried and concerned. Don't sleep with your two eyes open.
Reason:
Your mother is likely to be a wicked type.
Women who are wicked, don't forgive easily.
Believe me, your mum will deal with you.
She may be silent and pretend as if she has forgiven even after begging and pleading for forgiveness.
If she happens to be the kind with venom or possessed, you are in a serious trouble. That is why you need Jesus. He will forgive you all sins not only that of your mother.
The moment you ask him to be your lord and savior. He will also protect you from any kind of revenge.
Your mum.. could tie your destiny...
Or deal with your marital life.
What about your unborn children...
I tell you, on of the greatest enemy you can ever had is when your mum becomes one. She has all your spiritual life documents at hand.
If you follow this steps, I assure you, you will be free, you and your generation. 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by peacemara54(m): 7:03pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
It shouldn't have happen in the first place. Nothing, no matter how extreme, should make you hit your mother.
First thing to do , is to give your life to Jesus.
It's very important. Only Jesus can save from curses, any curses whatsoever. Be it maternal, generation and so on. He will give you perfect security.
If you have Jesus in you, it's impossible to encounter this type of trouble.
Confess your sins, and call Jesus into your life.
Be worried and concerned. Don't sleep with your two eyes open.
Reason:
Your mother is likely to be a wicked type.
Women who are wicked, don't forgive easily.
Believe me, your mum will deal with you.
She may be silent and pretend as if she has forgiven even after begging and pleading for forgiveness.
If she happens to be the kind with venom or possessed, you are in a serious trouble. That is why you need Jesus. He will forgive you all sins not only that of your mother.
The moment you ask him to be your lord and savior. He will also protect you from any kind of revenge.
Your mum.. could tie your destiny...
Or deal with your marital life.
What about your unborn children...
I tell you, on of the greatest enemy you can ever had is when your mum becomes one. She has all your spiritual life documents at hand.
If you follow this steps, I assure you, you will be free, you and your generation. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by RedPilChurchBoy: 7:07pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
You hit your mother. You're a big f00l 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by gloriaolachi: 7:09pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
@ Op i understand totally wat the situation was like, you have taken in so much that you couldnt hold back anymore and its only human to feel awful, pls be kind to yourself and when the dust settles find a way to go back and apologie to her, she is your mom. Try not to let it repeat again. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Elibakon: 7:11pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Normalize cutting off toxic people from your life, including toxic family members. |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Gentlesoul2021(m): 7:11pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg Op I know right now this is just too much for u. I implore u to mobilize your church pastor and elders to go and beg your mom.. postrate to her and let her bless you if ever she said deteriorating words to you. Some of us at some point had a fight with either of our parents.. I could remember an old man words citing this verse in the Bible that parents should not provoke their children and on the other hand children shouldn’t disobey their parents. When I had a fight with my father the old man applaud me for my courage in letting him know how irresponsible he is but mind u he showed a great displeasure in me fighting him by returning punches with him.. My dad has been so irresponsible that he sucked my mom so dry where she served him upto 33yrs of her time in service. That woman will obtain loan for him for farming business, bought a car for him to start a transport business and even when they were courting she funded his 5years education in the university but he ended up going for a technical education nd took five years tuition fees from her. Luck still smile on him when he told my mom he’s interested in politics and she took him to her uncle who is a party leader and fortunately enough he served as a supervisor for health for four years nd went on to be nominated as the vice chairman in my state local government. During his service he was so promiscuous and never have regards nd take care of his wife if not my mom is also a civil servant things will have really look so bad. He’s a pompous man that when my mom uncle corrected him to allow his little sister(my mom) to be attending party meetings nd some stipends will b paid to her, he brushed it off, rather he was busy fixing his concubines in those positions. He started getting rude to the party leaders and those people conspire against him during the next vote despite all the effort he put by selling his cars which is the only asset he could acquire, no landed properties despite all the cries his wife made and he ended up losing nd ejected out. He came back to us nd my mom was the one footing nd running the family. It’s just so painful that all the loans this woman took for him he still has the gut to use it on other woman. There are times my mom will give him money for school fees to be paid nd he will ended up lavishing it. It got so bad that the only expenses he can pointed out was my fees when I was in nursery nd I do get so mad. During my university days, things were so hard that his authoritative and demanding mentality got me so irate that he didn’t pity his wife who’s sponsoring three children at university level and will still be fighting her wic made me got into the fight nd we ended in a scuffles. He said a lot of deteriorating words nd my mum returned it to his face but she was so down nd cried bitterly considering she’s nursing blood pressure. She mobilized our church pastor who came nd begged and he reserved all his deteriorating words coupled with blessings and till date I am just only looking at him. When I went for nysc I sent him some amount and life has go on. Retrace your steps we all have challenging circumstances and I hope u have pass the right messages to her and she will always behave her self. My dad who’s always authoritative has been put to his position and he now know his place… Pls do the needful. God bless you.!! 1 Like |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by BusinessPlan22: 7:12pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Iyaebe:
Hmmmm,you need to seriously beg for her forgiveness else your future kids will hit you too and it becomes a thing in the family, you should have simply left the scene rather than exchanging words with her but she pushed you to it which is bad on her side but she’s your mom and has some edge over you.Learn to keep some distance from people who can easily trigger you be it parents and whatever.Go and redeem this messy situation and never allow such to happen again,also ask God to forgive you after your mom has finally forgiven you.Good luck Leave story... Some mothers are wicked. Bro, ask God for forgiveness, ask her to forgive you. That's all |
| Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Muna400(f): 7:13pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
[quote author=Fahdiga post=111307912]You try. kudos. May your children lift you 8ft above the ground and leave you to fall yakata in future in Jesus name amen[what he did.. He did out anger and frustration... Pray to God not have a toxic parent.. It's absolutely de worst tin ever.. |
