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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 8:33pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 8:40pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: Dude is just insufferable! He claims I'm angry and hyperventilating, yet he has taken this issue personal since yesterday, running amok and fighting everyone! The guy needs help, this ain't ordinary. He's having a mental breakdown. Womenfolk remain his greatest nightmare!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Exedyne: 10:23pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Marriage isn't always a bed of roses. It could be a nightmare from hell too. Children aren't always blessings from God. There's children who've caused their parents nothing but pain from the get go. People don't realize the magnitude of responsibility on a person when he or she becomes a parent. That child is your responsibility for life. Children and marriage complicate lives a lot. As a single person my life is pretty complicated already. I will manage to get married, but I'm not having kids. I've seen too much to fall into that illusion of "children are a blessing from God" 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 4:44pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
apatheticme: A man correcting you does not make him a "bully"; it makes him a man. You need that in your life. I am sure you are not used to that since your husband is weak and you dominate him. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 4:47pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Exedyne: When you are married to women who argue senselessly and nag like apatheticme, then I am sure it would be a nightmare from Satan's home. Don't do it! Stay single and enjoy your life! |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:26pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
AntiBshit: You are reeeetarded!!! Is this a second account? |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by BigBashiru: 4:13am On Apr 05, 2022 |
richie240: That sex isn't legitimate cos the time they wanna marry they no longer fresh |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by BigBashiru: 4:20am On Apr 05, 2022 |
holicupp: Don't forget the only reason she's getting married is cos she's on the verge of expiration |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by holicupp(m): 11:06am On Apr 05, 2022 |
BigBashiru: BigBashiru: og u bad o..... |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by gforce5: 10:17am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Bro, it is not delusional for men to try and be financially successful before getting married. Even though money is not everything, it is a very important ingredient in any relationship/marriage. So many marriages have collapsed simply because the man couldn't provide for his family. I have seen with my own eyes the stress married men go through simply because they couldn't settle one bill or another on time. Who has time for that? It's only those who live in the rural areas or parts of the North that can say that money isn't important. If you live in the south especially big cities like Lagos, Port Harcourt, Enugu, Ibadan or Asaba, you will realize the importance of finance in marriage. MrBrownJay1: |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by gforce5: 10:41am On Apr 06, 2022 |
The main reason why so many men in this country are single is because of the state of the economy. The present state of the economy is not favoring many young men. As a single man, it's difficult to have savings because of the rising cost of living. Which sane man wants to put himself in perdition in the name of marriage? Our parents generation enjoyed free education, low cost of living, massive job opportunities and affordable housing. What are young men of today benefiting from Nigeria? Nothing. In this part of the world, men are expected to pay for everything. In fact, many men are expected not only to take care of their immediate family but their extended family and their wife's family. Why won't many men prefer to stay single under those conditions. Most women in this country don't want to build with a man. They keep harping about 'hypergamy'. The concept of relationships and marriage in this part of the world has been destroyed by materialism. Love doesn't exist in this part of the world. Marriage is just a poverty alleviation scheme for many. Nigerian women are looking for a messiah to rescue them from poverty. Since a lot of men have realized that women are only interested in their pockets, they go through extreme lengths to make that money and treat women, even their own wives, as nothing more than sexual objects. It is what is. |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:54am On Apr 07, 2022 |
gforce5: - you dont have to be financially successful to get married. - you dont have to be financially successful to have a family. - you dont need to provide more than what YOU need (and so does your wife) to have a family and/or get married - if you cant provide for your own life necessities (food shelter etc) then getting married is not your problem, YOUR MISPLACED PRIORITIES OF LIFE is the problem - the stress you have as a "single" man (not being able to settle a bill), will be exactly the same as a married man. the difference is that now you will have a gainfully employed spouse to help you deal with the stress/bills etc - any person (whether male or female) need money to live in cities like Lagos, Port Harcourt, Enugu, Ibadan or Asaba.... nobody lives there for free. so as two people decide to get married, they join forces AND their finances, in order to be financially stronger together, and have a family together. gone are the days where one man is footing all the bills while his unemployed useless wife does absolutely nothing (but be an expert in Telemundo). today, ANY man who wants to go get married should look for a gainfully employed intelligent woman to marry, and not some liability who does not bring shiit to the table. if a man's ego is too big to seek for such woman, then let that fool shut the fukc up and suffer in silence with his useless good for nothing wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Exedyne: 8:39pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Gamesmart: I tell you. Marrying the wrong woman can drive one mad. I remember my ex...... everything na fight 1 Like |
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