RightToReject:
You're the one at fault because you weren't frank, and whether your lack of frankness stemmed from insincerity or nativity is irrelevant. The presentation of a frank person in your stead ought to have been something like: I'm John, live within. Actually, your face looks familiar; it seems like I'd closely known you, but I've tried hard and failed to pinpoint where and how exactly. Did you attend AB school around so so year?

Definiteness of purpose without articulation and competence can't bring conception to fruition in any just endeavour.

also true

But am a straight forward individual

I just didn't want to lead her on into any deep conversation.

My purpose wasn't to "know" her

Just to clear my head of uncertainty

I see ur point,but my approach shouldn't be what would make her think otherwise

Southernigbo:
she must have been praying n expecting u to toast her, only for the opportunity to show and u didn't! please go back and fulfill her wish

Nah...I dont think so
Lols...i dont assume that

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InTheCloudySky:
Okay, I believe you. But it doesn't change the fact that this is how most men are and you behaved in the same manner.

You have no control over how/what people think, what they say, nor how they react to you. You don't know what experiences she has had or if she simply has a bad attitude. She should've been nicer, but again, the only control you have are of your own thoughts and actions.

From her two Nos, she's not the same person; you mistook her for someone else.

Ya exactly

At least I can put it to rest that its not her

olympianares:
I just needed to clear my uncertainty abt her being a look alike or actually the same person I knew 13yrs back

From your post you handled the situation perfectly well.