When you and your spouse decide to marry, it can feel like you're on a fast track to the big day.

It's tempting to get wrapped up in wedding preparation and have your entire relationship center around wedding arrangements and decisions.

Regardless of whether your wedding is months or years away, it's critical to use this time to plan not only a beautiful wedding, but also a long and happy marriage.

Here are 11 crucial activities that wedding and marriage experts recommend couples do together before they get married to deepen and strengthen their bond—and make the transition into married life even smoother and breezier.

Then grab your soon-to-be spouse and begin crossing items off the list.


1. Their approach to correction.

Marriage will necessitate a great deal of unlearning and relearning. Marriage will be difficult if the person is not teachable.

2. Recognize and respect one another's values.
It's critical to talk and discuss your own values and beliefs, such as religion, family dynamics and rituals, and politics, long before making that promise to spend the rest of your lives together.

3. Their reactions when you talk about God.
If the person avoids talking about God, they will not raise the Godly family you are praying for with you.

If the one who instituted marriage is removed from the equation, no marriage can enjoy the blessings that come with it.

4. Their behavior when they do not get what they want.

A problematic spouse is someone who cannot take setbacks or who expects everything to go their way all of the time.


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