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Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 8:52pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Dmacqh:If you love someone, you don't mind doing for them even if they won't see do the same for you. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by jeff1607(m): 8:53pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
ChimasGirl: Why would one break up because of something that isn't life threatening? |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:54pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
ablejesus26: Ermmmm, sorry, sir. But you're selling sharwamas and pizzas and waist trainers and -- what else? Are those African foods and products? 3 Likes |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Dmacqh(m): 8:54pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: There’s nothing like love . It’s interest ( sex involved ) and kindness ( no sex involved ) . |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 8:57pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Dmacqh:What you describe there in bold is instead the chemical and hormone driven attraction that many of you confuse with love. Love is more mental than all that illogical nonsense that drives moves of you. It does exist, only it is less animal than many are used to. 1 Like |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 8:58pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:ROFLMAO 1 Like |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Cutehector(m): 9:00pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Nuttella:you understand. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by koyyess: 9:03pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
ChimasGirl: IVF is my answer. Let me not talk about adoption. Let me add that people marry for different reasons other than love. It doesn't exist in many marriages. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 9:05pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
koyyess:IVF does not apply for all women. So in the case it is not an option, you are saying you will give up on love, right?? |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
illicit:Wawu |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by erico2k2(m): 9:07pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
ChimasGirl:2022?? wow , life has moved 4ward, there is loads of ways of having kids |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by koyyess: 9:08pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I have answered this with my edited original post. Usually, it is when problems like this occur, couples realize they never loved each other in the first place. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by rickpat(m): 9:10pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Elmander1983:just pass bro,instead spilling emotions 1 Like |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 9:10pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
erico2k2:In Njgeria alone,there are an estimated 8.4 Million orphans in need of a home. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Dmacqh(m): 9:11pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: We all know humans are moved sight , words and actions . Something ( interest ), must bring people together . It maybe physical appearance, status,vibes, desire , money , etc . And yes , humans can be humane ( kindness ). They way they can care for animals , plants etc. That’s why , I tell people instead of wailing for love , know how and where to position for love . |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 9:15pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Dmacqh:1. All you listed there, even animals are moved by. Have you ever, maybe, observed the mating call of birds like the peacock or other animals? Materialism has absolutely nothing to do with love... 2. When people say, "love transcends all...", understand what means and you realize you have yet to infact address the subject itself. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Panda7: 9:15pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
why u no use the emotion adopt child. that will make una move on. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by TheRealestGuy(m): 9:19pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
This situation happened with my cousin. She got married about 10 years ago and couldn't conceive. The husband patiently waited on God and was at the point where frustration made him start considering having a child outside wedlock when God came through and she finally conceived. She had a baby boy at the end. Moral.of my story? Sometimes these things happen and in the world of today medical intervention can solve such challenges. Also it could be a spiritual trial for the couple which if overcome will make them an even stronger unit. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Dmacqh(m): 9:25pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Love is a feeling of affection . It maybe intense or not . You can’t see someone at first and immediately develop such intense feeling of affection. There must be a reason before it develop. That reason is the interest . Barring the love that exist between mothers and babies , others are built on interest . Especially when the chief beneficiary sees how his/her interest is protected , we confuse it for love . |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Bamzyriches451: 9:26pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Damn! Hell NO, am Gon dump her sorry ass ASAP. Can't settle for less |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Bbbw: 9:28pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 9:31pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Dmacqh:1. Love is not a feeling.... instead it is more or less a decision. What you call feeling is a high you experience as a result of a rush of brain chemicals and hormones through your body. 2. There is no such thing as unconditional love. Even the love between a mother and her baby is not an exception. This love is based on a decision/agreement that is not ruled by chemicals but more by a mental contract of sorts. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Dmacqh(m): 9:41pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: What you described above is like unwritten law of nature . What is love ? Love is an agreement ? That means love is a contract ? Based on mutual acceptance and respect ? Love is interest and kindness . And you’ve not answered my first questions ? |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Dmacqh(m): 9:45pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Really ? Even Jesus died because of his interest in mankind. To save our souls and bring us back to God . |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 9:47pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Dmacqh:1. Unwritten law of nature? 2. Love is that which transcends the chemicals and hormones. Love is not always based on what you call mutual acceptance, and it goes beyond interest and kindness but is a commitment to serving another, selflessly even. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Kobojunkie: 9:50pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Dmacqh:Jesus Christ died because of His interest in mankind? When you dig into the details of that "interest" of His in what you call mankind, and you consider the conditions He in turn laid down for those who will come to Him, you will see clearly what I mean by love being conditional. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Dmacqh(m): 9:54pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Serving another , selflessly even ? Lol To what end ? What happen when the served , errs ? What’s the end or by product of your love ( serving another , selflessly even ) ? There’s interest. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Dmacqh(m): 9:55pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Why did Jesus died for mankind ? |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by holicupp(m): 9:56pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Labadi69: Marriage is not an achievement mbok |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Exedyne: 9:58pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
For me, God has answered my prayer. I'd be open to meeting a good woman who can't have children. I don't want children. I can't add another layer of complexity to an already complex situation. |
Re: Love Of Your Life Can't Have Children. Deal Breaker? by Munzy14(m): 10:03pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
ArmaniUhuru:As in eeeh Hypocrisy. |
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