A woman divorced her husband and married his best man
after he declared his love for her in his congratulatory speech
at her wedding.

Desiree White, 32, from Illinois, and her ex-husband got
married in 2010 and their mutual friend, Bryant White, was the
best man.

Desiree had been friends with Bryant since high school and
they formed a friendship as a trio.

However, during Desiree's wedding reception, while giving the
best man speech, Bryant declared in front of the couple and
wedding guests that he "had always loved her".


Bryant giving a speech at Desiree's first wedding

Bryant also said during his speech that he knew "she had to
be his" from the moment he met her, while his best friend and
her new husband sat next to him.

Desiree overlooked Bryants declaration and her wedding
reception continued.

However, just a year later she broke up with her husband.
Bryant kissed her while comforting her and told her of his
feelings for her.

Desiree and Bryant then got married in 2012 and have now
welcomed four sons.



The mother-of-four said she has never been happier despite
the "very big mess" she has had to overcome.

Desiree said: "Bryant and I met each other in class at high
school. I had a boyfriend at the time and because of that, I
really wasn't going to talk to other people.

"We were just friends and one day when I brought a photo of
my boyfriend. He said 'oh my god, I know him - he's in my
lunch period'.

"I had been talking about Bryant to my boyfriend saying I
loved this kid in my class who was so funny.

"After that, I suggested we hang out. From then on, we all
became friends.

"Bryant and my ex-husband became best friends and because
they were guys, they did a lot together. They did everything
together."

The three students became best friends and Desiree claims
she even set Bryant up on dates as he had been unlucky in
love.

She claims she never had any feelings for him while with her
first husband.

Desiree recounts that Bryant had too many drinks on her
wedding day and was drunk when he proclaimed his love for
her.

Desiree said: "I set Bryant up so many times. I've been on
double dates with him and I always tell people I wouldn't
have ever dated the person he was then.

"He had a lot of growing up to do. I didn't really look at him in
that way.

"I got married. On the day, Bryant was really drunk.

"On the wedding day, I walked into the living room, right when
I was done getting ready with my wedding dress on and my
hair done. Bryant came into my parent's house and froze and
stared at me.

"I said 'hey, what's up?'. He said I looked beautiful. I'd never
had a moment of him looking at me like that.

"I thought he was being nice because it was my wedding day.

"We went to the wedding and he was really drunk. I told him
he still needed to do his best man's speech.

"When he went up to do it, he said, 'I remember the first
moment I saw Desiree, I loved her. I fell in love with her. I
knew she had to be mine. I thought she was the most
beautiful person I've ever seen in my life'.

"He said 'she's the best person I've ever met. I've never met
anyone like her. Then I found out she already had a boyfriend
and I thought I needed to find out a way to get her, but then I
met her ex and we became friends'.

"He then just said 'love you both - congratulations'.

"It ended there. I remember when he first started my ears were
ringing. I'm really introvert. I was in front of all these people
and I didn't know what was happening.

"I don't think I thought anything of it. I was in my own head.

Everyone was kind of laughing and then it got quiet."

Desiree and Bryant found themselves on the dancefloor
together later that night and he asked why she had never
given him a chance.


Desiree at her first wedding

Desiree said: "I remember that night me and Bryant had one
last dance before the wedding night was over. We danced
with the best man and the maid of honour.

"He said 'why didn't you ever give me a chance? I would have
always taken care of you'. I asked him what he meant and he
said 'nothing. I love you, I love [your ex]'. Then he got quiet.

"I went upstairs and I remember sitting in my dress in the
hotel room confused. I wondered if I was misinterpreting what
vibe he was giving off and just didn't talk about it again.

"I'm sure it was because he was really drunk and lonely. I
knew up to this point that he had girlfriends that weren't
working out and he was kind of the third wheel."

Desiree's marriage didn't work and she got divorced from her
ex-husband in 2011.

Bryant then offered her emotional support, kissed her, and
vowed to always be there for her.



Desiree said: "We were married for less than a year. He was
living a totally different lifestyle.



Desiree and Bryant get married

"Bryant and I stayed friends throughout it all. When we broke
up and divorced, I went through a depression and was really
secluded myself. I just didn't want to make an effort for
anything.

"I remember my mum was actually calling Bryant and saying I
wasn't eating or doing anything and that she was really
worried.

"He'd ask me to eat with him or hang out and watch a show.
He was trying to be there for me.



"When me and my ex were going through the divorce, I wanted
to move out of the apartment but I couldn't afford to leave so
we just stayed in separate rooms.

"I had to finish the semester in this apartment with him then
Bryant and I just kissed one day when we were hanging out.
"It was out of nowhere. When he kissed me, I didn't stop it
then I kissed him back.



"I was shocked that it was a good kiss. It felt good and
natural.

"He looked up, smiled at me and I just said 'you just kissed
me'. He smiled and asked if he could do it again."

They were married within a year of dating and are now
parents to four sons.



Desiree said her 20-year-old self would never have guessed
that she would end up with Bryant.

https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/sex-relationships/relationships/my-husband-best-man-first-26580548

lengthly.. but congrats to them

Some will say don't trust Nigerian men others will say don't trust Nigerian women!

This thing is everywhere!!!


Not my business sef... Just want to sell this engine oil I have.. I need a buyer abeg before I start to dey chop grass

Fucking each other on a low....Congratulations on making it Public

Pathetic!

Oluwa, daarigi wa

I’m the end the guys managed to pass the pussy to themselves

Who lost?

Marriage would have been lots of fun if spouses could be leased or bought over.

God knows I've never attended a wedding without wishing to have a taste of the bride neither have I been introduced to any of my friend's wives whom I didn't desire to shag.

Betrayals everywhere...


Just as Buhari betrayed BMCs and Tinubu is about to betray his urchins

NwaAmaikpe:





Marriage would have been lots of fun if spouses could be leased or bought over.

God knows I've never attended a wedding without wishing to have a taste of the bride neither have I been introduced to any of my friend's wives whom I didn't desire to shag.

I trust you on that...

NwaAmaikpe:





Marriage would have been lots of fun if spouses could be leased or bought over.

God knows I've never attended a wedding without wishing to have a taste of the bride neither have I been introduced to any of my friend's wives whom I didn't desire to shag.

Oboyyehh. . .

Let me not say what's on my mind

Na your kele I go marry o

NwaAmaikpe:





Marriage would have been lots of fun if spouses could be leased or bought over.

God knows I've never attended a wedding without wishing to have a taste of the bride neither have I been introduced to any of my friend's wives whom I didn't desire to shag.

Thisss maan

Love triangles are complicated mess, many unanswered questions in this story, but that is their mess I am only here to read comments.

What do we call this? I doubt if I will ever do such... Their is nothing like bestie talkess of making one ur best man.

Is like license to knacking with reckless abandon.