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Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by MYDEBBY(m): 2:58pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Dear Nairalanders, I have done all I could do to please my wife and make her happy in this life but she seems not to have feelings and love for me anymore. Her parents have made it clear to her to stay put in the marriage, the priest in the church has also advised her but she seems to be influenced by friend and maybe other factors unknown to me. She separated from me sometimes but later came back on her own with our kids. I thought she has had a change of heart to make the marriage work but all I am seeing is attitude tof hers that tries to frustrate my efforts towards making the marriage work and make me unhappy. Know I have decided to let her go back to her parents at least for some time to help me have my sanity, although before now I have told her parents we will be visiting for easter so I will use the opportunity to let her spend some time in her parents house, but am surprised her mother called recently to inform me she (mother) will be visiting. At this juncture, what do I do? Do I still send or take her to her parents at least for my sanity to be restored because she seems to be doing anything that will displeased me ( no communication, no intimacy for months, not keeping the house tidy no moral support to and from my work place, disrespectful, insults and pompousity). Or do I wait for her mother to visit first because these issues mentioned have been recurring and i dont know what her mother can do at this time. Already when i entered my wifes room, she had already packed her belongings and our daughters belonging in readiness to leave because I had already told her she will need to go home for some time. Please what best advise can I get here so I wont make a mistake I will regret,thanks. |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by madridguy(m): 3:04pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
You don too love this your wife. You beg her to marry you and now you are also begging her to stay with you. How long will you continue to beg her? Moral of the story, don't ever beg anyone to marry you. My suggestion, marry another wife. 4 Likes |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Ceenachi: 3:04pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
My opinion: Don't ever beg anyone to marry you I pray not to meet this kinda woman in my life that's why I don't date girls with lot of friend |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Nobody: 3:04pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
I don’t even know what to say but this is a one sided story,you were good, responsible and all that and your wife still fell out of love for you? Obviously there’s something you are not telling us. 3 Likes |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Romanoff(f): 3:08pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
It takes two to make a marriage work. Amos 3:3 rightly said it. Wait for her mum to come, explain all you're going through in the marriage to her. If after her mum leaves, things don't improve, odd advise a formal separation. |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by MYDEBBY(m): 3:12pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Iyaebe: The only thing I did wrong like shouting at her misbehaviours which she did not display prior to our marriage and not wanting her to be keeping singles who are not responsible as friends. That's all. What other wrong. Pls believe me that this might be spiritual or negative influence from secret friends. I need to have my sanity pls. |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Suspect1: 3:14pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Iyaebe:noise maker! Always finding a way to side her fellow gender. 2 Likes
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Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Nobody: 3:20pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
MYDEBBY:Just try to look for ways around it,children from broken homes suffer a lot,consider this and do your best to restore your marriage 1 Like |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Kobojunkie: 3:48pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
MYDEBBY:You should have started by explaining the details of the grudge your wife is really holding against you. Your OP does not attempt to offer a balanced take on the problem you describe making it had to offer a tailored suggestion. If you don't even know, I suggest you seek professional marriage counseling as a couple- not priests or relatives - in order to help you both get on the same page as far as where things went wrong , and also understanding best way you both can move forward. You need to understand the problem before you can properly resolve it. Throwing makeshift ideas as solution does not cut it even in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Kobojunkie: 3:52pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
MYDEBBY:Behaviors like what? And about her friend's, is this your wife your child or what abeg? 3 Likes |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Beremx(f): 3:54pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Her mother shouldn’t come yet. Fix a meeting with both your family and hers.. Your family and hers and iron out the issues bothering the matter. It is well |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by zubimete(f): 5:20pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
My dear she will learn her lesson the hard way, Stay away from foolish friends they have nothing good to offer. One advice for you, during her stay there avoid calling her. Always cal MIL or FIL to speak with your girls. Her brain go reset very soon |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by ThatPetiteChic: 6:37pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Op, what about your first wife because I am pretty sure this is the second lady you impregnated while doing a program in her school. By the way, your relationship/marriage to her is on a deceitful foundation. I am not supporting her ooo but I have to be harsh and honest with you, such relationships don't last. 1 Like |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Foodqueen(f): 10:01pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Have you run out of lies Look for another girl and start afresh. |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by frozen70(f): 10:20pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
MYDEBBY: You don't need to wait till her mother comes Once the child is on Easter vacation, take her to her parents and tell her parents that will appreciate her to remain with them that all the characters she has been exhibitimg shows that she is feed up with the marriage Just make sure that you leave her there and go your way Then tell her never to come back home with out your consent and approval That alone will reset things for everyone |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Chisave: 9:37am On Apr 01, 2022 |
MYDEBBY: But bros, in 2019, people advised you against forcing someone that doesn't want you to marriage. Can you now see the issues you are facing 1 Like |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Rubbiish(m): 9:58am On Apr 01, 2022 |
Don't u have shame?? Below was your post in the year 2019, 4 years after u are still lamenting? U forced this girl into marrying u. U can't force someone into marriage & expect them to be happy MYDEBBY: A nairalander gave u the advice below & u ignored it. What is happening now? U people never learn. olabrinks: |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Saintmary(f): 10:23am On Apr 01, 2022 |
MYDEBBY: All I see is an idle husband. You have too much free time on your hands. 1 Like |
Re: Now I Want To Seperate From Her But...... by Nobody: 4:04pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
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