Ugmama:



Chai what!!!! I have met Chinyere twice in lagos. She worked in ECOBANK before traveling abroad.

Nawao... People are wicked!!!

semanose:
So sad.

If you know how insecure some men can be expecially when the woman has it it going for her.

A friend of mine who worked so hard to build a primary school, run an inter country educational business and owns two houses is being victimized by her husband.

The man feels so Insecure at the way she hustles.

He left for his family home 6 months ago and his back to her now.

These days I don't know what else to say to her other than:

"Watch your back"

She's is trying hard to make the marriage work because of the kids.

The man is not happy that's she's successful.

He keeps looking for new ways to make her miserable. But family and friends are tired of the whole stuff.

Stories like the one in this thread make me worry...

anewchapter:
I am a gorilla suffering from a chimpanzeeic strain of alopecia

koning:





That "BUT" you are taking lightly would have kept this woman and many more like her alive. If you are married and have 4 kids with your husband, why would you not discuss what names should be on your property documents with your husband. Why be sneaky and secretive about that. Maybe they would have agreed to put their son's name on it.

No one supports killing another person, but women, please, you may not be able to control your husband's actions and reactions, but you can control your own.

There's no way the husband will attempt to kill the mother of his 4 kids if the wife took time to discuss issues with her husband. At least reach a compromise. All these 'open eye" way of thinking sends them to early grave. Of what use is the property to her now?.

betshopagent:
what in d world wud make her buy a property in her name without d husband knowledge?

Karlovych:
Hmm, Igbos again!!

Yam-legged marriages have struck once more, RIP to the woman.

EuDavies:
He was my friend, we still spoke the day it happened. I never knew that will be the last time we will talk. He had a lovely 1 year old boy and a beautiful, kind hearted wife. Rest in Peace Ifeanyi. You will always hold a special place in my heart.

koning:

That "BUT" you are taking lightly would have kept this woman and many more like her alive. If you are married and have 4 kids with your husband, why would you not discuss what names should be on your property documents with your husband. Why be sneaky and secretive about that. Maybe they would have agreed to put their son's name on it.

No one supports killing another person, but women, please, you may not be able to control your husband's actions and reactions, but you can control your own.

There's no way the husband will attempt to kill the mother of his 4 kids if the wife took time to discuss issues with her husband. At least reach a compromise. All these 'open eye" way of thinking sends them to early grave. Of what use is the property to her now?.

dep07:

I haven't been myself since i heard this news.
Benjamin , you see your life. What on earth could have pushed you to do this? How could you?
If you were tired of the marriage, you should have just walked away. Why why why
Please he isn't a lazy guy,He is a chartered accountant,has a consulting firm in Lagos. He actually refused to join the family in UK .
He is doing well for himself in Lagos.
He was to go visit them this Easter.

koning:





That "BUT" you are taking lightly would have kept this woman and many more like her alive. If you are married and have 4 kids with your husband, why would you not discuss what names should be on your property documents with your husband. Why be sneaky and secretive about that. Maybe they would have agreed to put their son's name on it.

No one supports killing another person, but women, please, you may not be able to control your husband's actions and reactions, but you can control your own.

There's no way the husband will attempt to kill the mother of his 4 kids if the wife took time to discuss issues with her husband. At least reach a compromise. All these 'open eye" way of thinking sends them to early grave. Of what use is the property to her now?.

texazzpete:


If a man opens a thread here on Nairaland to ask advice if he should put his wife's name on a property he's about to buy, I'm willing to bet that you and most guys here would tell him not to put her name there.

Now suddenly it is Haram for a woman to do the same.

This is a woman who has been separated from her husband for years because he tried to kill her. Why would you think she would put his name on a property he contributed nothing towards the purchase?

Some of you are mad

MrMoney55:
people just talk here because the haven't heard from the man now if i may ask after thou shall not have any other God before me which other sin does God hate its thou shall not covet pastors will not explain this to you now let me explain it so that you can understand maybe why the man acted that way.remember psalm is the longest book in the bible and if you read ur bible very well what sin did he commit?contentiousness and did God forgave him?no God was angry that he stopped David from building his temple right? now do you know how it feels if someone cheats you out of ur hard earned sweat? lets not pretend here we all can kill for that reason alone except God help us that man isn't a mad man he couldn't handle being betrayed by his own wife or former wife simple so be fair in ur dealings to avoid things like this because covetousness is an unforgivable sin even in the bible so lets wait for the man version of the story simple

Dimanene:





Hello, your comment stinks! It's cool when a man have a property in his name or son's name, without the wife's names. But an atrocity when a woman does same.
Bunch of hypocrites! Ain't gonna reply any response from you though *spits*

integrity16:
Why is she in Nigeria?? She should've remained there naw after all the death threats??

I'm sure she chest-beated herself into entering Nigeria like the man cannot do shit to her after send her death threats. What a foolish way to die.

koning:





The wife has the control botton. She had the remote control on her hands.

Drop the f.ucking land documents with him and go back to Scotland to be with your kids. He will be the one calling you after 3 months with questions like "Honey, what should we do with that land".

I know what i'm talking about. I just hope all these Feminists running their mouths here will not make the same mistake Chinyere made.

YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR SIDE. YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER WHAT THE OTHER MIGHT DO OR HOW THEY WILL RESPOND.

Pierocash:
This is highly condemnable,and callous. I hope the law catches up with him.


But however, Nigerian women shouldn't see abroad as Uhuru for them. Once they get there ,they change and turn to monsters tormenting their husbands using the useless law over there as shield and buckler . And some men have different ways they react to betrayals and treachery which is the Hallmark of Naija women.

I don't have enough rest in peace right now, the last one I imported is already used for the victims of Kaduna train attack,and dollar is somehow expensive now,I would have imported one rest in peace for her

koning:





The wife has the control botton. She had the remote control on her hands.

Drop the f.ucking land documents with him and go back to Scotland to be with your kids. He will be the one calling you after 3 months with questions like "Honey, what should we do with that land".

I know what i'm talking about. I just hope all these Feminists running their mouths here will not make the same mistake Chinyere made.

YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR SIDE. YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER WHAT THE OTHER MIGHT DO OR HOW THEY WILL RESPOND.

afroxyz:


Do you know if the man worked hard to send his wife abroad and at a time in need the woman refused to return the favour? Before you open your mouth before your Brian try to think what would push a man to want to murder his wife.

Mindlog:


Her thread instantly flashed through my mind!

bigpicture001:


Do married woman just travel abroad like that..?
.u just don't want to say money enntered her head.. and sh started being the. Man