1. is it my fault that this happened?
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This question demonstrates your willingness to put forth the effort necessary to make things work, rather than simply absolving yourself of responsibility and blaming the situation on your partner. Even if you don’t think you’re to blame, ask yourself this question and see if you can find a flaw in your own behavior. Because you are a human being, you have undoubtedly done something.

2. Is there anything that can be done to improve the situation?

Having asked yourself whether or not you were to blame, the next step is to figure out how to improve your relationship. Your next step is figuring out how to make your relationship better. It’s not enough to just think about it; you also need to put it into action.

3. What do I need to work on to get better?
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When people are in a relationship, they often don’t ask themselves this question. Knowing that a relationship does not exist between you and yourself; rather, it exists between you and another person, which means that both parties need to be prepared to work on their weaknesses. Don’t bring that bad habit into your relationship and leave it at that; instead, focus on improving yourself first. Be proactive in addressing your arousal issues, as well as your tendency to pass judgment on others. Don’t be afraid to change your bad habits.

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if e no work, move on