teebaba78:

just tell her you HIV positive

Flashaldrin:

Pls 190, dnt bother contributing.

sent me to take his place and here's what i have to say. . .first i think by force you into sex you mean R4pe ?( ain't you lucky) why don't you bleep her as a mutual friend like killing two birds with a stone . . .plus you sound like a virgin how old are you 34,37 or 41+. . .

teebaba78:

just tell her you HIV positive

9dynasty:

well 190 sent me to take his place and here's what i have to say. . .first i think by force you into sex you mean R4pe ?( ain't you lucky) why don't you bleep her as a mutual friend like killing two birds with a stone . . .plus you sound like a virgin how old are you 34,37 or 41+. . .

Flashaldrin:

if u can read then u shld knw i dnt want sex.
Nd yes i am. I just turned 52.

[size=16pt]52[/size] my oh my i'm sorry sir. . wait oh that girl's has a plan she want's to ruin you. . .do you hold any financial office like strauss khan

9dynasty:

[size=16pt]52[/size] my oh my i'm sorry sir. . wait oh that girl's has a plan she want's to ruin you. . .do you hold any financial office like strauss khan

Flashaldrin:

@coco, goldieluks, tyson55;
easier said, But tanks.

Flashaldrin:

lol, i aint no strauss kahn. I'm a medical student. And she's not that really strong on sex, just wants a relationship.

52 and a medical student which time you go come take practice 88years old. . .seriously i think you should get a girlfriend and she should be aware of it or you could tell her you don't have any feeling for her like maybe you're G4y. . .just saying

iice:

Tell her

Coco29:



seriously why do you think it is easier said than done? KING if telling a friend that you do not want to participate in a relationship is so hard, how do you expect to get what you want from  life?  Are you going to do what everyone says with out having your own opinion about it, I was just like you, then one day I said FK IT my life is mine to control.  Granted there may be more to this story but it should be your dominant intent to be happy and good to you ALWAYS

9dynasty:

52 and a medical student which time you go come take practice 88years old. . .just saying

Mynd_44:

Just admit it you are either man-lover or impotent.

M M M:

op
how old re u

Dont tell me u re a jew man.

Dats what we call CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH.

Guy pls i beg u dont miss dat punny.

bizmogule:

1. Do not lead her on

2. Don't give her an impression of love when you like her

3. Be careful the kind of text messages you send to her; reply to her messages in a simple manner

4. When she talks about relationship make her understand exactly the way it is on your mind, let her know you like her but not as to love here. Entering a relationship might only make her hate you. I am sure you don't want to lose the friendship

That being said brother the ball is on your court. Go sort it out.

sexkillz:

@Poster First of all You say She might force you into Sex, then you turn around and say she is not that strong into Sex. WTF am i supposed to believe? If i'm to believe the second part then all i'll say is that this is a girl that really loves you, But because of the African man mentality that says that Men must make the first move u are Slacking. What if she's not into you because of Sex? What if She really Loves You? But then How will you ever find out? When she turns Attention Somewhere else, u'll still run here and start another thread; " She Loved Me But i Was too Blind To see. . . SMH

Cuddlemii:


Shut up MMM

The guy is smooth, Me likey this kind of man. Cocky as hell. Choosy as well. Intelligent, you can tell. Potentials, he'll never fell.

Cuddlemii:


Shut up MMM

The guy is smooth, Me likey this kind of man. Cocky as hell. Choosy as well. Intelligent, you can tell. Potentials, he'll never fell.

Flashaldrin:

[b]as in, for nw what she is askin 4 is a relationship, but i feel/knw that afta dat she will b askin 4 sex because our conversation often borders on dat.[/b]I'm not sayin she doesnt truly love me, that i dont want to enta a relationship is not cos she's open abt it, its that i'v tried but i cnt reciprocate d feelings. Nd i dont see a future in a r/ship wia i wnt love or appreciate her.

I Quite Understand the bolded part wella. I know how you feel. . . Entering an intimate Relationship with someone you dont intend to marry is like taking Brandy. . . Sweet for Mouth but the after effects. . . . .  Two things,  1. I want you to honestly write out 10 the qualities you'll ever need in a wife in a sheet of paper, then Ask your self How many of these Qualities the lady in question has. Then I also want you to write down 10 of her good Qualities in a Sheet of paper, Then Her bad Qualities in another sheet of paper. . . If out of 10 things you are looking for in a wife she has 6, and if the number of her Good Qualities outweighs her bad qualities, My Brother Plz Enter the relationship and let her Know YOUR STAND ON SEX. . . YOU NO BE SMALL PICKIN! SHE CANT FORCE YOU!  2. If She Failed the Above Exam Woefully, then it's time to END your Friendship.  Take her to a quiet place wey una neva go before, then pour out your Heart and Mind. HONESTLY tell her why u have to END the friendship and dont start start making Foolish Excuses up. Be determined not to call her nor text her Again, cos believe you me, YOU WILL MISS HER LIKE CRAAZZY!  Again, I should trust you to do this in a matured way! YOU NO BE SMALL PICKIN! AND SHE CANT FORCE YOU TO LOVE HER. . .     But If you'd rather use and Dump her Like Some fellow forumites have been suggesting. . . . You'll Neva Be a Happy Man. May God Help You Make You decision, 

M M M:

190 come here now,

we need 2 convince dis guy 2 know d advantage of such ladies,

and why u should not let her pass u by.

@ op
just try date her 4 a week and fu-ck and u will be happy.

kobikwelu:

i bet u the poster would fall in love with another woman whey no send am,

happens to 9 out of 10 guys,

Flashaldrin:

wow!! Cuddlemii! Me likey your poem well well. D rhymes are smooth. Addin it 2 my collection right away! Did u jst mak it up or u got it off somewhere??
Btw thanks alot!