thank you all for your wonderful responces, and their's still room for more ideas, believe and your own side of the story. but we really need to see to have a chat.but i'll go for the female ones first. i mean females from broken home.its going to be a ladies guess thing. so if you are interested you can follow me on facebook, twitter which is shatteredvows@ymail.com. guys you are not and will never be left out but you all know the saying. thank you all for the great responces.