1. You Don’t Know Where You Stand.

Love shouldn’t be hard. You’ll face challenges, for sure. But the process of falling in love should be an enjoyable one. And yes, sometimes you can be your own worst enemy (that’s a whole separate topic!) but the right person will work with you to make it easier.

You should know how this person feels and where you stand. It doesn’t need to be and certainly shouldn’t be, complicated.

If you don’t believe the things he’s saying because his actions don’t match his words, or he’s reluctant to express how he feels (either choosing not to open up or telling you he’s not sure) – then you’re better to give the relationship chance to breath and see if he comes back.

2. You find out he’s still hanging with his ex.

It’s healthy to be cordial with ex’s, but staying in touch with them, hanging out with them, buying presents for them, and spending important holidays with them…well, that’s another flag right there. The guy I was getting to know better did all the above, and worse, he posted pictures on social media NOT KNOWING that I knew that was his ex. HUGE flag for me, huge. I still talk with guys I’ve dated before, but he took it to a whole other level.

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