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Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by MrSamsung(m): 10:59pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
timefarm: I wasn't available. Late to your mention. Why do you ask where I am from? |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by Nobody: 11:38pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Boogyman557:I like this guy 1 Like |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by Orgasmgiver123(m): 11:40pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Kimiso: Na this thing make be kick buhari for blokus 1968 oh Damn... nasty... I’m out of here |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by Okoroawusa: 11:54pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
SenecaTheYonger:I disagree with you |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by MisterRuk(m): 12:18am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Talking from experience Being "nice" will not get you a girl. If you think a girl will just fall in love with you for only being nice and caring then you'll be disappointed. If it was so, many women would not be suffering from domestic violence in their marriages. For showing nice gestures you might get an "awww" from her and maybe a hug (rarely). She may smile and laugh at your jokes (women are better at playing nice) but don't expect her to fall for you, be your girlfriend, talk less of even having sex with you. She would put you in the friendzone position or make you her emotional pillow to cry on. Please have a good heart and be altruistic but don't do it with the intention of pleasing some girl. It would look cute but it won't be enough to attract her because no masculine energy is being radiated. In my university days I used to simp for girls, I would be nice and do favours for them, act gentle, listen and understand them but they always ended up dating guys who don't even perform these qualities. These got me baffled that I had to Google "why do girls prefer bad boys". 1 Like |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by timefarm(m): 3:48am On Apr 14, 2022 |
MrSamsung:I just wish to know. Your response indicates you are not from Nigeria. |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by MrSamsung(m): 3:56am On Apr 14, 2022 |
timefarm: I am an Ibibio |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by Cousin9999: 4:40am On Apr 14, 2022 |
This is utter nonsense. |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by Nobody: 6:31am On Apr 14, 2022 |
There are exceptions to everything. Covert narcissists come off as good guys too. |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by SenecaTheYonger: 6:56am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Okoroawusa: Ok |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by Kwinesther: 7:21am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Kylekent59:I'm in Nigeria and my love for good guys no be here. |
Re: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by TheGoodJoe(m): 1:49pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
MisterRuk: There is a big misconception here. It goes as far as the dating community. Look at what you posted here critcically. You were doing your best to please women, hoping they adored you for it. The truth is, did you meet a woman you genuinely adored, and asked her out for a relationship? That is the key. If you meet a woman you like, you approach her and get to know her. Then ask her out and she turns you down, you bounce. She is not the one for you. Instead, you met a girl you like, then no form of showing interest in her, then go on and on doing nice things for her. This is you, putting yourself in the friendzone. You are telling her that you just want to please her, when genuinely, you want more from her. So the problem is not the good guy thing. The problem is that you never showed interest. This goes into a relationship. For women and men. If you are doing the pleasing and you are not getting a reward from it, bounce. If not you will spend time in the relationship and get hurt in the end, out of being overwhelmed. |
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