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One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by SugarGirl44(f): 9:33am On Apr 14, 2022 |
One of the major reasons why women endure bad marriages is because of what the society would say. Who is that society? It is your fellow women mostly, they tell you to endure with a bad man and pray for him to change, they mock youk, stylishly remind you of your pain and shame you for taking a self centered decision if you dare leave. The screnshorts below is a typical example of how women have been abused and they're so used to it that they are not even aware, and therefore have made it a norm, to the point that they would even make series of excuses for the men that are tormenting them. I think the rise in child molestatiin is on the increase for this purpose, because the men perpetuating these acts know that most of their wives are weak and foolish, and they'll cover up their heinous acts. Just imagine responses that are coming out of the mouths of these women.
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Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Foodqueen(f): 9:40am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Funny thing, is that all those advises are from women too To the topic... Another thing is "who will believe me". We too de judgemental. But the truth is alot of people don't really care. Infact many are happy you have such problem. |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Coded081(m): 9:53am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Because they are enemies to themselves They will never tell themselves the truth 3 Likes |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Richy4(m): 9:55am On Apr 14, 2022 |
I have mixed emotions reading this...I don't know if I should be shocked at the way they were downplaying rape in the name of saving marriage, or get angry for saying they should punish a 15yr old minor, or laugh at the way they were boldly displaying ignorance in the name of giving advice. That Okechukwu Precious is really evil... Send your daughter away and maintain marriage indeed . 2 Likes |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Shedrack777: 10:02am On Apr 14, 2022 |
if to say op and 1st commenter go date me ehn? enjoyment overload. imagine the combo: sugargirl and foodqueen. chai. omo |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by kurupt1: 10:07am On Apr 14, 2022 |
How can women leave the marriage when they know they are enjoying the man's sweat and money. The truth of the matter is that men endure terrible things in marriage than women but women are the first to play victim 4 Likes |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Daniel7543: 10:13am On Apr 14, 2022 |
I'm a proud woman beater,.. say whatever you wanna say, I don't give a damn fvck. Some women are so stubborn, they're always quick to insult their husbands. They're run their mouths anyhow. Don't try that bullshit with me o, I'm not a gentleman at all o. If a woman cross her boundary, I go beat 20 years out of her life. She dey Mad. 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by faithfull18(f): 10:16am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Daniel7543:Let me help you quote this before you delete. 5 Likes |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Daniel7543: 10:23am On Apr 14, 2022 |
faithfull18:I'm not gonna delete any shit. "It is what it is" Whether you be my wife or girlfriend.. If you run your mouth anyhow you go collect woto woto. Me I no get joy. I go beat you anyhow. |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Ifyjos(f): 10:41am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Its Fools That Do Things To Please People. If Your Still Living In This World And Care What People Will Say Or How They Will See You. Then Your Living For Them. 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by faithfull18(f): 10:46am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Daniel7543:Stay unmarried. Marriage or relationship isn't for you, simple. 2 Likes |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by CandyOps(m): 10:56am On Apr 14, 2022 |
kurupt1: To buy you chilled bottle of Life Larger beer with catfish pepper soup dey hungry me. Where she wan run to? When na the man be her meal ticket. Not endorsing violence o but then door is open for you to leave. If na oyibo country, na the man go leave house for the woman because their women have influenced their male lawmakers to pass it into law 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Pinklygul: 11:01am On Apr 14, 2022 |
CandyOps: Really? So on whose sweat was osinachi's family living on? 5 Likes |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by HYDEEE: 11:11am On Apr 14, 2022 |
I think it is due to validation and feel among syndrome that some women bear shit like that. If you don't live your life to please others who don't give a fĂșck about you you will treat shit exactly the way it is meant to be treated. Also some women are so broke they can't even afford 500 to japa from their abusers to their parents house. When we dey ask "what do you bring to the table?" e get why.
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Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Karleb(m): 11:32am On Apr 14, 2022 |
HYDEEE: Many of them will shout they are the table. I don't really understand how they don't know how foolish that sounds. Most men don't care about the marital status of any woman. It's this same women that will single shame a divorcee, tell them to endure a wife beater and also encourage them to get married without a job, skill or even a degree. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by HYDEEE: 12:33pm On Apr 14, 2022 |
Karleb:They are the table where the man dumps all his earnings. 1 Like
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Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Ummuahmad(f): 10:58pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Shedrack777:another monkey don escape from zoo come nairaland 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Victordarey02: 11:12pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
This bad violence in a family leads to community violence and result to Various hazards. God will protect us 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Mindlog: 11:44pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Daniel7543: Mr proud woman beater, it is your type that would slide into catatonic stupo once they see Anthony Joshua approaching. 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Shedrack777: 9:02am On Apr 18, 2022 |
Ummuahmad:when did your dad escaped from zoo? |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by SugarGirl44(f): 1:23pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
Shedrack777: Lolzz....just seeing this. So that's the only thing on your mind. |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
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Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by emmanuelbrown26: 6:03pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
Bcs they don't hv where to go to also they are d genesis of domestic violence. |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Shedrack777: 8:17pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
SugarGirl44:not the only thing though. but it's me thinking what's impossible (like what i cannot have) 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by SugarGirl44(f): 9:03pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
Shedrack777: Feel free to think dear. |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Shedrack777: 10:08pm On Jun 22, 2022 |
SugarGirl44:i stop thinking about it the moment i finish typin it. one woman is enough worry, how much more two (2) 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by efficiencie(m): 10:32am On Jun 23, 2022 |
SugarGirl44: The real question is why do most of you ladies end up marrying fools provided that these fools have money, house, car and can meet your stupid needs? Why? Most of you ladies are responsible for retaining masculine foolishness in the gene pool. If you keep accepting the proposals of fools you will keep perpetuating their genes in the next generation of boys. This is why we increasingly keep having fools among men and why these fools (who make up most of the society) defend all manner of marial anomaly. You ladies are complicit. 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by obaaderemi: 1:23pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
SugarGirl44:I can't believe what I read on that screenshot. What is marriage if you can't trust the other partner? How do people live in the same house with a cheating partner or even a partner that cheated and still call such an idiot husband/wife? AND your daughter? |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Helpout12345: 2:14pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Nobody should endure domestic violence and verbal abuse 1 Like |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Helpout12345: 2:24pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
And to the advise on screenshots. The man misbehaved for sure. However, it's the woman involved that knows her family situation better. This is a very deep-thought family issue and go beyond what you use adrenaline, testosterone or progesterone to make a quick decision on. Seems like they have other children together as well. Based on other children shared by both the husband and the wife, the economic condition of the woman and many other factors, the right advise might not be what the OP is expecting, "like call the police", "lock the man up", "leave the marriage" etc. |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Mindlog: 2:37pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Helpout12345: So what happens to the 15 year old defiled by the pedophilic step-father? 2 Likes |
Re: One Of The Reasons Why Women Endure Domestic Violence by Helpout12345: 3:51pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
Mindlog: Happens in terms of what? Accommodation or what? |
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