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Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by gibsonwales(m): 1:42pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
To avoid stories/situation that could/will damage your internal organs ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by mikeljack(m): 1:46pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900:For me o Rent and apartment for your cousin Not trust for grown up blood brother and wife not to talk of cousin Its better to cheat outside oo Because truly anybody that one to cheat will surely do it but it isn't suppose to be with a family member Get her relative to stay with her till you re back |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by fascia(m): 1:46pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Unpopular opinion ,you shouldn't give a Bleep if your wife is cheating or not ,the thought shouldn't even come to your mind ,what anybody is doing with their body should be inconsequential to you,even if they are your wife .it shouldn't bother you. Human emotions will.make one crazy ,one has to deal with insecurity,fear,jealousy ,hurt ,uncertainty ,all the likes .The best way to live is to be logical through out . We should understand we are humans and we are flawed and if someone hasn't given you any reason not to trust them ,the best thing to to is to trust them and not conjure up any negative scenario as you are doing . You think your wife do not have fears too about you cheating abroad ,you think she doesn't not have her own insecurity and jealousy too .. You both know you both are trying and are committed to each other ,that should be enough. I fell the bone of contention is you , not your wive or your cousin .it is you . Never allow anything or anyone to Rob you of your peace ,stay logical . 1 Like |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by ALFADOS(m): 2:15pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
No love lost, No love found |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Inosky: 2:15pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900: Your cousin should leave the house to a self contain period to avoid story that touches the heart. How much do you trust your wife still matters too. You should know if she has the tendency to cheat on you within a short space of time. If she's someone who slays especially in clothes and fashion and loves sex too much, they she will definitely cheat on you. In that case, you can get her some dildos to use while you're away. Otherwise, there's no need to worry. I have stayed many years without sex and a good and God-fearing wife can as well if she really loves you. But don't put your cousin in same house with her while you're away in another country, that will be higher temptation! |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Spherical77(m): 2:17pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
shekonz:Who are the people? The rich and mighty don't worship abroad the way you guys do. They base right here in Nigeria but do visit when necessary |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Highhhio(m): 2:19pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Is not advisable |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by tonididdy(m): 2:20pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900: Lad I have same setup as yours... I mean everything except for the cousin part. I sometimes imagine the loneliness my partner goes through while I'm away. Luckingly for me she has younger female siblings that come around. In your case, she needs someone in the house with her. It's a duplex u know, big, empty and lonely. Imagine the cold nights. My advice: don't think about the negatives ( it's the PRICE TO PAY FOR WORKING FAR AWAY FROM HOME)... If I were you I would call my cousin and ask him not to try anything stupid, I mean str8UP bluntly. If he's offended by it, he will move out on his own. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by wale0911: 2:23pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
frozen70: You are right, but it is also a wise thing to take a step to avoid issues. The presence of the cousin over a long period of time with the wife alone can be tempting to even a very dedicated and decent wife. Thou shalt not be tempted. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by alizma: 2:32pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900:I beg you for one thing, please raise money for him to get one room self contained somewhere pending when things go according to his plan. If your wife is going to cheat on you, don't be the one to provide her with the man to cheat with. Throw away emotions, be realistic and practical in handling this issue. A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by alizma: 2:39pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
simplesearch:If only sexual urge act according to instructions. My friend, it doesn't work that way, from helping her to carry baby, hand fit touch breast at night and the rest will be history, especially now that we are heading for the raining season. Who get ear make e hear. No matter how well trained a goat is, keep yam with such goat when it is hungry is called "invitation to treat". |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Pacesetter2021: 2:39pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Open you mouth loud enough to be heard and tell your cousin to pls find somewhere to live. It's very simple. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by 360command: 2:44pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900:it depends on the circumstances. I think you go leaving them together. If your wife has been playing some tricks in the past or if you know your wife to have too many male friends, I think it is best you let your cousin go.. Now, on the other hand, you need to understand your cousin and I want to believe your related family would not want to think of such. You good, a woman who wants to cheat will cheat irrespective if you have a cousin around. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Unrated900(m): 2:45pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
We4all: Go away we aren’t talking about trust here A Sensitive man would act like the op. All this child boy like u would just seat near Your android phone and start gabbernishing shit. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by frozen70(f): 3:00pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
wale0911: Exactly ❗ |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by We4all: 3:08pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Unrated900: Agbaya, marriage isn’t for kids. If you can’t trust your wife with a relative, then use your fish brain and don’t get married. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by We4all: 3:15pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
iramure: A man should trust his wife. If he marries a woman that cannot be trusted, then that’s his problem. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by We4all: 3:18pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Unrated900: A sensitive man is a man with low self esteem. He is probably scared cos the cousin is hotter. He should have a cousin like Aki or Pawpaw and let’s see if he won’t travel to China for 10 years without his wife. By the way Agbaya, if you know who is behind this moniker, you would beg to befriend me. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by papichuloo42(m): 3:20pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Don't be silly. What will be will be. If you can ever imagine running a low key parole in UK with any looseguarded gal na so e be for all man. Pls trust with all your heart and pray this will never happen. But if e happen remember you are capable of cheating on her and life will eventually go on. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by sandra50(f): 3:20pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Do not please..if you can help him get a self contain do but don't leave them together..in as much as I don't cheat in a relationship and can never do so in marriage,one can still get attracted to someone especially when the person is not having sex..if I'm married and find someone attractive I will just remove myself from that location but in this case there is nothing your wife can do.. because of what is happening in the world now do not let them..can your wife leave her cousin with you and travel to the UK? cj1900: |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by iramure(m): 3:25pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
We4all:ok, I don hear. Trust my foot! |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by ajl: 3:38pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
My advice won't be long. If there is a possibility of something that you don't want to happen will happen, then do not create or allow circumstances that will facilitate it to happen. Human beings are human beings. It's only "angels" that will not have the tempting thought run through their mind once or more in crazy situation. Even if each have the will power to suppress the thought. What if one person can suppress it but the other person can't? |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by ajl: 3:40pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
We4all: You craze no be small.... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Munzy14(m): 3:44pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900:Lol...You will regret it soon or later.. Your wife is safer if the opposite gender staying with her is from her side.. Just like you are safer with your sister around than your wife's sister..To avoid seduction. Nature must fill the vacuum..So sorry if you don't make a move.. If I am not around, I can't keep my wife with a cousin bro no mata what..we are humans..Women can easily get carried away. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by koning: 3:50pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
frozen70: You are unbeliveably naive. For most women cheating is a question of opportunity and strong temptation. If you leave a catholic nun alone in a house with a man for 1 year, something might and would happen. You will be shocked to know what goes on behind people's closed doors. For the Op, no matter how decent you think your wife is, DO NOT LEAVE HIM ALONE IN THE SAME HOUSE WITH YOUR COUSIN FOR A LONG TIME. Like most Nigerians claim, the "Devil" will work on them. Either you get him another accommodation or you bring in another man or woman into the house. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by flokii: 3:53pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
@OP Call your cousin, sit him down and tell him he has to move cos you ain't comfortable leaving your wife with another man under the same roof while you are away in the UK.. he should understand and if he doesn't, let him fvck off. you've tried enough for his grown ass. Highest you'll do is help him with some change to go rent a room apartment elsewhere. If you do mistake and leave your wife with a 30yrs+ man, he'll fvck her even more than you do weekly.. the best thing is for everyone to respect themselves and I mean you, your wife and the cousin bro. Ire o! |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by showafrica(m): 4:03pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
diplomat058: You are right. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by flokii: 4:06pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
koning: I year kwa.. just 2-3 days in a house together is enough time for male and female to knack. It's even more risky for a married woman that has been enjoying constant knacks from her husband to be left alone with another male while the husband is far away in UK.. just the hunger for sex alone will make one thing lead to the other and like play it'll happen between them and continue for as long as possible. Maybe when he returns, he'll meet twins or triplets from the wife and cousin's collabo ![]() |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by koning: 4:12pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
flokii: To make matters worse, they both do not go to work. They will both be lounging around the house in boxers and nightgown till midday. The guy can not sleep in UK if he allows his cousin to stay. He will go nuts. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by okoroemeka(m): 5:12pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900:find another accommodation for that your cousin, majority of cheating incidents happens with close friends family friends,cousins,in-laws,etc,these are people you will trust and leave your house for,it is very easy for women to cheat with people they know very well than strangers, believe me it is not a good idea to have a matured man in same house with a woman that have not touched a dick for 6 months,the presence of the man alone will add to her konji misery. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Bbbw: 5:32pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Oh |
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