The passing of popular gospel singer, Osinachi Nwachukwu, has caused uproar on social media and offline. Aside from dying in her prime, many people were devastated after hearing that the “Ekwueme” crooner was a victim of domestic violence.

Let’s take a look at some reasons people stay in abusive relationships and marriages, and solutions to this menace.

Financial insecurity
Some people stay in abusive relationships and marriages because of financial and emotional insecurity. An individual that is dependent on another for financial provisions will likely not leave his or her partner. In this situation, the solution is to be in charge of your life emotionally and financially. Do not allow your worth to be dictated by your partner.

Children
For some partners, it is the children in the marriage that keeps them there. These people do not want the children to feel the effect of their parents’ separation. Hence, they endure abuse. You have to stay alive and healthy to be there for your children. If it is your wish for a settlement, do it from afar.

The society
The society has made many people stay in abusive marriages over the years. “What will people say” is one statement that has halted dreams and reduced the voices of many people. The society does not need to dictate to you how you should live your life, especially when it is a life threatening situation. Be intentional about what you want. The society will be alright in the end...

https://newsroundtheclock.com/5-observations-on-domestic-violence/

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