Can I see his face? Maybe he has a big dick... Your wife is loose. Fvck her up, disgrace her

yuping:
better rest, if you are not comfortable with your wife chatting with him, let her know instead of going so low you are a man act like one.
She can chat with anyone in this world but she choose that particular person that caused you pain is either she goes with the man or she let you go.

WHO IS THIS ARE YOU ALRIGHT

I'm sorry sir but you're a slowpoke, for taking such a a LovePeddler out of country. l won't waste my energy advising you on what to do. Just be prayerful there's nothing our God can't do

She tells him everything that happens in her life.Omo your wife is in love with this man ...and it seems it is money you used in getting your wife.

Ignore her or get a divorce.
SIMPLE!

LilMissFavvy:
Your wife loves chatting and companionship. The man is just her chat buddy. Your wife is not cheating on you. If you have not been spending time with your wife or making her happy, then improve on that.

Everything about women is,"Making her happy and giving her time"

Kaiiii..

No, the matter has not gotten to that level.

You didn't see anything suspicious in the chats so why not talk about the chatting how you are uncomfortable with it simple.

You even said he's ugly

woman nah nonsense abeg

His frame and big prik is the charm

JovialJune:
She is lonely and she needs attention, you are not giving her attention, do better


But let's wait for her side of the story or the truth.

nonsense

DoctorOlasDesk:




Has she done wrong? Yes, she has violated your emotional space sacred to you alone as a husband. Infact she has committed emotional infidelity by so getting her emotional needs outsource her primary and rightful source. But ending the marriage will be throwing away the baby with the bath water.

Divorce is usually the last option for couples when all approaches have failed to work.

It is time to reclaim what belongs to you by right, not chicken out of the context. It is rather time to be willful and purposeful in your agenda, not exit the boxing ring. No judge will grant divorce based on this. Trust me, divorce isn;t something easily gotten just like that.

These are my recommendations as an elder in this affair. One, you need guilt to make her repositioned to fit into her proper position. Have all the messages copied to your device and printed. Next item on the agenda is to show it to someone who can speak to her and she can listen to with keen attention, if it's her mother or pastor do so.

And then keep wait and wait for their actions and reactions as they would determine the next line of action


Lastly, when it's all agreed to bend to your will, make her call the guy in your presence, then take the phone and talk with him telling him that it should be the last time on earth he communicates with your wie as you don't grant him such access. This ends it

his wife cheated 4 years ago and he forgave. However she is still in contact with the guy. So the marriage is dead. This shows she has not changed and repented.

JovialJune:
She is lonely and she needs attention, you are not giving her attention, do better


But let's wait for her side of the story or the truth.

she needs attention? Would attention pay the bills? Or Op is to blame for his wife's action.

jesmond3945:
his wife cheated 4 years ago and he forgave. However she is still in contact with the guy. So the marriage is dead. This shows she has not changed and repented.

Divorce isn't something court grants like that. Did she cheat four years ago or she did the same thing?

LilMissFavvy:
Your wife loves chatting and companionship. The man is just her chat buddy. Your wife is not cheating on you. If you have not been spending time with your wife or making her happy, then improve on that.

classic. Women would always defend their gender even when the gender is satan.

ForcefullBULL:
Some years ago I caught my having affair with guy in his office. She claimed she was drawn to him because his company took her away from the finance issues we had in our marriage as detailed here. She claimed they did not have sex.
https://www.nairaland.com/4503364/wife-confessed-me

Now we’ve migrated to the US and we are doing fine. We are financially stable. I discovered my wife is still chatting with this guy. Tells him everything in her life, she also sends him her most beautiful pictures. She chats with him with her old Naija phone on WhatsApp. She always calls him intact she calls him more than he does. He chats with a commanding tone with her. She archived the chats. I stumbled on the Naija phone some weeks ago. She chats him when I’m not around. They talk about nothing sexual and the pictures were not nudes. But I found it inappropriate for my wife to be sending her pictures to a married man to digest. She hides the phone as it doesn’t contain her US number. I want to pretend as my wife to chat the guy.

I have decided I am going to leave the marriage. She’s planning to go Nigeria this summer. What do you think will happen when they see themselves . My wife has no qualms chatting with a married man whom she has kissed before. Another point is the guy is very ugly so I wonder what’s the catch here?

Please moderator. No front page.

you messed up by ending that the guy is ugly. It shows you are ugly as well for you to identify who is ugly. The problem here is your wife and not him. Is just a matter of time before she dumps you. Whatever decision you take is 100 percent supported. This shows your wife never conquered her demons and for her to hide their chat shows how deceitful she is. Infact you are living with a stranger.

DoctorOlasDesk:



Divorce isn't something court grants like that. Did she cheat four years ago or she did the same thing?

yes she cheated 4 years ago by kissing the guy while the guy sucked her breast and she is doing the same now with the same guy. Of course he can divorce her. But I don't support divorce myself.

jesmond3945:
yes she cheated 4 years ago by kissing the guy while the guy sucked her breast and she is doing the same now with the same guy. Of course he can divorce her. But I don't support divorce myself.

Saw her unclothedness, sucked her breast. He ought to have divorced four years ago then. The marriage ended then. She lost respect for him then and she's only in the entanglement for the benefits. He doesn't have a marriage. I can't stand cheating