Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?


Who should we blame?

Before una blame, ask yourself, is there any content maker or skit maker in Nigeria, so- called comedians, that you can feel relaxed watching their content with your kids? Mr Marcaroni? Sydney? NastyBlaq? Even BrainJotter has given kids new slangs: “you no get yansh.”

They all promote sex! It's always been sex! Sex! Sex! And guess what? We find nothing wrong with it!

And so?
That's why children are experimenting! They watch everything you watch! In Nollywood, if it's not teaching the use of cult language, it's getting rich quickly, or sex! In music, it's sex and leaked tapes! They have all these at their disposal in a smartphone.

^{There's one movie..I think Selina Tested blabla...what's the usefulness of that movie in society? And to say it has millions watching it baffles me! The movie clearly promotes cultism!}

Both in Hollywood, it's either magic, being possessed by a superhero witchy trait, having a bad side, living a double life, shooting, or sex! And many children have watched some movies before you!

What else?!

Talking about Chrisland, let's not pretend we don't know these are happening around us. In many schools, porn and leaked tapes are in gigabytes on their phones. Our music is rotten. Celebrities with a loose sense of fashion. The world is breeding a new era of what you parents failed to prevent! And that's why when you talk of a girls-only school in Nigeria, you think of lesbianism. Because it's true! They do it at whim! A girls-only school in Nigeria has male staff members and some of them use them! You see lots of abortion pills and all that from secondarians! Secondarians!

Children are having sex even under your roof! Don't scream God forbid! It is! Some are part-time prostitutes! Yes, some are!

Back to Chrisland...
Just like every other schools in Nigeria, their best is not enough! The I-dont-care life of teachers is becoming unbecoming and that's why these events occur at whim! Stricter measures must be taken and members of the opposite sex should never be allowed in private areas! Even in public areas, there must be in groups!


Should Chrisland be locked down?

Why?

Inasmuch as Chrisland should be very careful while mixing both genders and putting more measures, it's also the responsibility of parents to train a child properly and guide what they consume morally.

Was it really coverup? Even if it was, Child porn should never be a breaking news! Chrisland took action by suspending the culprits! I understand Chrisland has been in some old mess of late but, haba, judge cases individually. Chrisland is sb’s business and schools have ethics. You wanted them to publish the news? News of child porn?

To stain the image of the school?
The parents?
The girl?

They tried to leverage those!
They tried to die the matter even though it was a serious one!

They tried to allow the matter die in the school!

Do you know the reputation of the little girl in the video now, and in the future after you folks linked and shared the video!
That's what Chrisland were protecting!

Do you know?

Omotola’s daughter is a product of Chrisland. Of course, we saw her wearing panties and bras recently. She's a role model. Tueh! What are the adults teaching the children? That big bombom is an asset! That breast is a green card! That sex is the redpill!

There are few reasonable people in the entertainment industry! Others promote sex!
But don't they say majority wins the vote?
Nude has been given a new name: Bikini. Posting adult content and rubbish is now called “cruise.” Walking naked is now called sexy.

The internet is saturated with diff formats of pornographers. If it's not useless Ruger singing “i want to fxxck your pu pu na,” it's that old layer Tiwa exposing her nude, or that agbero is jeans Oxlade.

But they'll come out and be shouting “lockdown Chrisland, lockdown Chrisland.”

Hanty, before they lockdown Chrisland, y'all should learn to put your panties inside clothes! Na y'all idiots dey spoil pikin.

The parents?
Make una train una children properly! You allow them consume enough pornography! Music, movies in the right proportion and content is good. Music and movies with any sexual activity is bad for them!

The parents of the girl should stop forcing the rape allegations, my opinion tho. The video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge. I know it's a big shame to them but white should never be painted black! Your daughter is a mess.

Most parents don't even know their tech devices have parental control. Yes, you can control their phones, the satellite and everything! Some countries force parental control policies. YouTube has YouTube for kids. DSTV and other satellites have parental control measures. Even an android phone! What excuse do you have now! You exposed them!

PS: I don't share child porn and I will never share any video so don't bother sending the mails. Thanks.

Small pikin of 10 years wey get android cannot learn anything from Naija celebrities. Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her!

The kids?
Shame on those kids!
Most kids too are too corrupt to be corrected!


Tbh, y'all—the parents, the kids, society—failed in making society conducive!

And to all those people here playing police against those who want to watch the Chrisland video and saying they are reporting them, if dem no watch am, how dem wan take judge? You watch your own come dey yarn okoto. Instead of being overly protective—typical of Nigerians only when a bad omen occues, kindly warn against sharing it since it's Child Porn! The video is everywhere!

Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!

The OP reasons like someone who has advanced in both age and maturity. May God continue to reward you with more wisdom.

When things like this happens, the entire society will usually cry for blood. Crucify them! Shut down the school! Jail the business owners! Without settling down to think things through.

While it may be the job of a school to train a child in both knowledge and character, it is not their responsibility to completely take over this role from the parents. Some of these unpleasant behaviours are mostly learnt from homes, sometimes even under the 'supervision' of the parents themselves.

You see a mother, because she wants her 'peace of mind', giving her 7yrs old daughter her phone to be watching YouTube without parental control. What do you expect? At least YouTube even tries to sensor some of these things. How about DSTV? That one has even gone beyond regular sexual content to abnormal forms like gay and lesbianism. Not to talk about extreme violence.

Society

I have always been scared of the impacts this evil society and generation are having on future generations and incidents like this unfortunate one keeps taking the fear to alarming levels. The family unit has completely broken down, parents now feel that it is the duty of the school to train their children on their behalf. They fail to realise that when the family unit has failed, children become exposed to dictates of the kind of evil society and generation we have now in Nigeria where everything, no matter how evil is possible. Thank God none of the kids was an adult, all the blame would have been on the adult, forgetting the parents who have failed in their responsibilities.

Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

When I was in Secondary school,one of the most stubborn boys got into problem with the school authority, the principal called his father,whi happened to be a high court Judge to report his son to him.
The father came to school with 3 of his other sons. This boy happens to be the last child of 5 boys but He was a pain in the ass, He was very big and muscular but when his brothers came,they dwarfed him. All of a sudden one his brothers head butted him and He fell to the ground like a paper, his uniform was soaked in blood within minutes, they tied him to a desk and our able Goliath who has lead us to so many war was crying like a baby, we were all shocked. The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak, our principal became afraid and started begging the father to take it easy, it was then they loosed him and dumped him behind their hilux and drove away.. we did not see our Goliath for 2 weeks but when He came back, He was sober and reserved.
No more trouble till He left school. Rumours had it that He was taken to the hospital and when He recovered his father locked him up.

One of the most popular statement written in my days in primary school toilet was " TOTO IS GOOD " we never saw who wrote it but we knew people were doing bad things in the toilet and we were not up to 10 years then.
Things like this has been happening and I can attribute it to bad parenting.

Kingpin1000:
One of the most popular statement written in my days in primary school toilet was " TOTO IS GOOD " we never saw who wrote it but we knew people were doing bad things in the toilet and we were not up to 10 years then.
Things like this has been happening and I can attribute it to bad parenting.

In mine, you'll also see all sorts of rubbishes including artistic representations. Even in secondary school, I could remember some of my colleagues were having sex on a daily. In junior sec, two classmates got pregnant!

And coupled with the fact that one corper was also smooching our teacher in the lab and have gotten caught countless times!

Just because of these, I remember what we knew then. Now I know that children hear and see things faster than the adults.


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Gbaam!

Kingpin1000:
When I was in Secondary school,one of the most stubborn boys got into problem with the school authority, the principal called his father,whi happened to be a high court Judge to report his son to him.
The father came to school with 3 of his other sons. This boy happens to be the last child of 5 boys but He was a pain in the ass, He was very big and muscular but when his brothers came,they dwarfed him. All of a sudden one his brothers head butted him and He fell to the ground like a paper, his uniform was soaked in blood within minutes, they tied him to a desk and our able Goliath who has lead us to so many war was crying like a baby, we were all shocked. The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak, our principal became afraid and started begging the father to take it easy, it was then they loosed him and dumped him behind their hilux and drove away.. we did not see our Goliath for 2 weeks but when He came back, He was sober and reserved.
No more trouble till He left school. Rumours had it that He was taken to the hospital and when He recovered his father locked him up.

That father is my mirror. That's the way to train a child!

I bet he'll be humble all his life! Children also hate embarrassment... especially beating them in public..amid their peers and people they oppress.


When I was teaching, a report came that a JSS2 boy allegedly pressed the cups of an SS2 girl. It was his guts for me. And psychology says before he could do that, the girl has submitted her respect to him or he bullies her.

I called him. A lil chat with him and I noticed he's this bully who may have joined a small cult nearby.

Unto say I no well as per military student who went to serve, I land am better slap and some resetting beating for trying to walk out on me, it followed a series of other punitive measures to humble him.

Behold, cultist come dey tuck in clothes in, dey wear tie. En mama come school, call me one side dey bless me.

Why blame parents or even the girl? Absolutely no basis.

chatinent:


In mine, you'll also see all sorts of rubbishes included artistic representations.

And coupled with the fact that one corper was also smooching our teacher in the lab and have gotten caught countless times!

Just because of these, I remember what we knew then. Now I know that children hear and see things faster than the adults.

People fail to remember this. They feel a 10 year old child is innocent and may not have such informations.
When Parents watch movies rated 16 in front of their wards.
Even those movies rated 13 are not even good for 13 year old, especially African and Asian children. We have a different culture from that of whites, the mind of a child is like a tabular razar, any information it takes in at that stage may be very had to erase except with severe punishment. The punishment is not to erase that information but to let the child know what the end product of his/her action will be.
I knew about sex from 7 years but never did it because I knew it was bad and the severe punishment that follows it.

Gentlerespect76:
Why blame parents or even the girl? Absolutely no basis.

That's because you don't want to judge subjectively. I blamed everyone for the role they played.

And for the girl, she's a wayward brat!

I don't mince words.

chatinent:


That father is my mirror. That's the way to train a child!

I bet he'll be humble all his life! Children also hate embarrassment... especially beating them in public..amid their peers and people they oppress.


When I was teaching, a report came that a JSS2 boy allegedly pressed the cups of an SS2 girl. It was his guts for me. And psychology says before he could do that, the girl has submitted her respect to him or he bullies her.

I called him. A lil chat with him and I noticed he's this bully who may have joined a small cult nearby.

Unto say I no well as per military student who went to serve, I land am better slap and some resetting beating for trying to walk out on me, it followed a series of other punitive measures to humble him.

Behold, cultist come dey tuck in clothes in, dey wear tie. En mama come school, call me one side dey bless me.

That's just it.. they need that resetting.

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

Spot on.

You'll also agree with me that more than morals are needed to instil good behaviour in a child. Teachers can only do their work in the day. What happened at night? What happened elsewhere? What happens on social media?

They see many things!

chatinent:


That's because you don't want to judge subjectively. I blamed everyone for the role they played.

And for the girl, she's a wayward brat!

I don't mince words.

Look, as a parent, once you send your child off to school, the absolute duty to safekeep and protect the child rests with the school. The parents are not to blame in anyway here because the incident happened far away in Dubai while the child was in custody of the school or through its superintendents (here teachers or other school workers). For the girl in question, it bleeds my heart that you are even thinking of blaming her, a mere child of 10. What's wrong with you? The child is incapable of knowing the implications of her actions at this age. Please stop talking about subjectivity here. I am a parent whose child is at least 5/6 years older than that child. For over 13 years of schooling I pick my children up from school; I know what I am saying.

Are you working in this school or there is else you know beside that on the public domain?

Look, as a parent, once you send your child off to school, the absolute duty to safekeep and protect the child rests with the school. The parents are not to blame in anyway here because the incident happened far away in Dubai while the child was in custody of the school or through its superintendents (here teachers or other school workers). For the girl in question, it bleeds my heart that you are even thinking of blaming her, a mere child of 10. What's wrong with you? The child is incapable of knowing the implications of her actions at this age. Please stop talking about subjectivity here. I am a parent whose child is at least 5/6 years older than that child. For over 13 years of schooling I pick my children up from school; I know what I am saying.

Kingpin1000:

People fail to remember this. They feel a 10 year old child is innocent and may not have such informations.
When Parents watch movies rated 16 in front of their wards.
Even those movies rated 13 are not even good for 13 year old, especially African and Asian children. We have a different culture from that of whites, the mind of a child is like a tabular razar, any information it takes in at that stage may be very had to erase except with severe punishment. The punishment is not to erase that information but to let the child know what the end product of his/her action will be.
I knew about sex from 7 years but never did it because I knew it was bad and the severe punishment that follows it.

Esp African movies. Rated-13 movies still have Chacha Ike wearing miniskirts and twerking! Gawd! Who did we offend in this country!

If you want know say children don spoil spoil finish, watch them when they want to go report when someone does sth “sexually” wrong or what they feel it is. Just observe how the doer will be begging!

Many don spoil! And humans are naturally adventurous to experience things they fantasize about.

Gentlerespect76:

Look, as a parent, once you send your child off to school, the absolute duty to safekeep and protect the child rests with the school. The parents are not to blame in anyway here because the incident happened far away in Dubai while the child was in custody of the school or through its superintendents (here teachers or other school workers). For the girl in question, it bleeds my heart that you are even thinking of blaming her, a mere child of 10. What's wrong with you? The child is incapable of knowing the implications of her actions at this age. Please stop talking about subjectivity here. I am a parent whose child is at least 5/6 years older than that child. For over 13 years of schooling I pick my children up from school; I know what I am saying.

I'm not sure you are living in the twenty-first century sha. You sound very 20’s.

chatinent:


Spot on.

You'll also agree with me that more than morals are needed to instil good behaviour in a child. Teachers can only do their work in the day. What happened at night? What happened elsewhere? What happens on social media?

They see many things!

You'll also agree with me that, students spend more time at school more than at home.

I know to an extend parents are also to be blamed But then you should also consider the fact that they spend over 400k per term, to ensure the school discipline their children properly... I mean the services are not for free. They paid for it.

And students spends more time in school. So why can't they discipline them

chatinent:

I'm not sure you are living in the twenty-first century sha. You sound very 20’s.

What will I say to you now?

The first blame goes to the parents.
The family being the first form of education and morality failed completely, I don’t care where the kids were influenced, growing up, there were things I CAN never think through or consider doing because I’ll always think first what my parents will say, their voices will always restrain some actions.

When you as a family instill some teachings and morality, most of the times, the child is guided by those consciousness to do the right things atleast at the growing up stage.

The teachers should have the bulk of the blame for poor supervision and care.
How do you leave kids of such age without supervision and negligence!

For the video, that was no rape as both actors can not be said to be of statutory age.
They should be punished severely as their age deem and placed on rehabilitation, not just the toe of them but every other kids in that video.

Chai as I see the video shame catch me

I nor fit naked for where by friends dey

But see a small pikin, riding away carelessly

They even dey do different styles

No shame , no nothing

Nor be today she Don dey climb boy

The parents of the boys and girls should hide their face in shame.....they failed


The school failed for now enforcing separations of the kids but it's most likely the girl may have sneaked into the room of the boys

I guess we have to wait for the schools official statement . Need to know how a minor was left on her own to be able to do what you said she did. Did she sneak out in the middle of the night ? Was she coerced or invited? Could the school have done more to protect the children in a foreign land ? Need to know if the school supervision failed the children too and the steps the school took after the incident and at what point the school learnt about the incident and what they did about it . These are the gaps that need to be investigated. The boys and the girl are the victims anyway you spin it. Parenting and the school most especially are culpable based on the little info available

As regards watching the video, I have not and will not watch the video. Also you watching it and distributing it may be breaking the law ; cybercrimes act of 2015.

Please, how can you even add the girl and blame in the same sentence?

That girl has been damaged by someone else and the parents weren't observant enough.

This is a pure case of failed parenting and to some extent, negligence in the part of the school authorities. Other than that, you have no case against the minors, except you want to flog them cane.

Parental failure has destroyed so many destinies in Nigeria! Months old babies are been abused and killed everyday in day care facilities all in the name of hustling. Shame on you failed parent.

Enough blames to go round. Her parents & the school should take the greater blames.

What of the boy and his parent? One gender cannot bear the weight of sanitizing the society, you know. Regardless of how we police the girl child, nothing will change if we keep ignoring the boy child. Judging by what I see on NL, it's obvious boys have got the mindset it's praiseworthy to do these things. If both genders are equally held accountable and educated, they'd always be one to caution the other. But this laissez-faire treatment you give the male child puts a lot of pressure on your daughters.

That said, I believe proper sex education for both genders is the only solution. Even if you're a monitoring spirit, you have a limit cause you can't just isolate your child from other kids. Even in the US where teens have boyfriends, a good deal of them don't go to town as seen in the viral video. That's the benefit of engaging kids instead of just flogging them all the time. Let them in on the realities of life and they'll appreciate thier limits.