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What's Happening To The Masculine Authority In The Society? by Haynnie: 11:37pm On Apr 19, 2022 |
In the video interview of the mother of the girl, she said when she was initially summoned by the teachers to report her daughter kissing a boy and that her phone be taken away to prevent such again, one of the teachers told her that "she should not tell her husband (the girls father), that it is not everything women discusses or discloses to their husband". The teacher who said that is a woman. The same way we had some women parade this space, telling women it is not a must to inform, discuss, disclose or take permission from their husband over anything. They also got a nod from some men too. The goal is to strip institutions - family/home, community, schools, even churches, of masculinity because a society where there is absent or lacking true masculine frame and energy, anything goes. No order, no hierarchy, no boundaries, no control. In the homes today, we now have loads of absconded/absent fathers, present but not actively involved fathers, figure head fathers, fathers who cannot uphold the home, who lack masculine frame, energy and authority, and who cannot command respect, call the shots and be in charge/control, etc. The man instilling respect, fear and sanity in the home is labelled an abuser because firmness and discipline has been interpreted as abuse. Go to most schools today, before you would count one male teacher, you would have counted three or more female teachers. Even the male teachers are almost like an additional female teacher. No difference, No frame, Zero authority. There is no balance, no discipline, no male figure as a model. Is it in the community? At least we still managed to grow up with older men who instilled fear and respect with their presence and when erring. Not anymore today. I watched a video of this 15yr old boy, two other boys and two girls, all about same age, who went to book a room in a hotel. The man who was recording was just screaming "security" like a woman as the young girls damned him and sashayed away confidently. Masculinity is being shamed and labelled toxic, so that responsibility, accountability, consequences can be evaded. Paraphrasing Jordan Peterson's words, "you think strong masculine men are dangerous? Then wait till you see what weak men are capable of.'' #Copied |
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