I have a gf and we intend to get married by the end of the year.

We have dated for three years now.
I work and by that I leave the house very early in the morning and return late.

She has a shop as well.

Now the issue is that she stays with me most times and we eat dinner at my place everyday. I provide the money for the cooking and I have no issues doing that.
She has a younger sister who also comes to the house most evenings for dinner.

So after dinner there is always plenty of dishes and when I leave the house in the morning I always come home to meet those dishes unwashed.
Sometimes these plates stay two to three days before she clears them.

I have complained and talked to her in the most amicable ways I could. Still nothing has changed.

I have equally told her to instruct her sis to do the dishes when she feels she can't meet up with her shop in the morning...yet nothing.

Yesterday I went all out on her and this resulted in her keeping malice with me. She woke up this morning and not even a good morning greetings from her. She has been frowning her face since yesterday.
According to her I am supposed to help out with the dishes sometimes. Pls how can I wash plates that my gf and her sister used in eating at my house.

Wonderful. Your story should read "The man who Narrowly Escaped an Unhappy Marriage". He that has ears, let him hear!

Be washing plate ko its ur duty.Marry her quickly (wife material)

You can clearly see the handwriting on the wall. So use your 6 before one gender like that will use it for you.

This feminist agitation by ladies is really messing up the world.

Clonelord:
She has been frowning her face since yesterday.
According to her I am supposed to help out with the dishes sometimes.

No disrespects but something is wrong with your GF.

Trust me, u don't want to spend the rest of your life with this kind of girl, because it will get worst when you finally wed her.

That her sister will definitely cause alot of trouble for you.

I suggest you start looking for a better option elsewhere.

Clonelord:
I have a gf and we intend to get married by the end of the year.

We have dated for three years now.
I work and by that I leave the house very early in the morning and return late.

She has a shop as well.

Now the issue is that she stays with me most times and we eat dinner at my place everyday. I provide the money for the cooking and I have no issues doing that.
She has a younger sister who also comes to the house most evenings for dinner.

So after dinner there is always plenty of dishes and when I leave the house in the morning I always come home to meet those dishes unwashed.
Sometimes these plates stay two to three days before she clears them.

I have complained and talked to her in the most amicable ways I could. Still nothing has changed.

I have equally told her to instruct her sis to do the dishes when she feels she can't meet up with her shop in the morning...yet nothing.

Yesterday I went all out on her and this resulted in her keeping malice with me. She woke up this morning and not even a good morning greetings from her. She has been frowning her face since yesterday.
According to her I am supposed to help out with the dishes sometimes. Pls how can I wash plates that my gf and her sister used in eating at my house.

Lol, red flag, she's not your blood and she behaves that way, even my younger brother doesn't expect me to wash his plates after eating, send them packing brother

Most times when she does her laundry I beg her to d mine but it's always an issue. Now I wash with dry cleaners and that one was solved. I can't just imagine washing plates when I have a gf who uses the plates with me

Dirty girls!!!! Sure they are from that region


My two fav place in the house. Toilet and kitchen!!! Can't stay in a dirty or clumsy kitchen!

Those places must always be clean especially the toilet cuz that is where iconnect the most high!!


But OP when you are done with your meal do you wash your own plates?

What an ungreatful family. Its in their DNA, even without you bringing up the issues she should be doing the dishes or tell her hungry sister to do them!!
Please call off your marriage..
Your jus a source of free food and money to the girl and her family..

Candidlady:
Dirty girls!!!! Sure they are from that region


My two fav place in the house. Toilet and kitchen!!! Can't stay in a dirty or clumsy kitchen!

Those places must always be clean especially the toilet cuz that is where iconnect the most high!!

mechionu der!! You jus want to sale your retired and expired market..

Mehnnn that your babe no the try now, how many minutes does it takes for someone to wash plates used by just (three individuals) in the house, I want to assume dirtiness is not part of her lifestyle.......make she the try abeg, dammmm am out of here

Stallionhorse:
mechionu der!! You jus want to sale your retired and expired market..

Do have a lovely weekend mr

Gentlerespect76:
Wonderful. Your story should read "The man who Narrowly Escaped an Unhappy Marriage". He that has ears, let him hear!

Ikr? The writing is so glaring on the wall sha.

My brother, she isn't ready to be a wife.

You better check your compatibility with hers.

The answer is in your court!

Lala