A lot has been going through my mind as to how things have been turning out with the sacred act of marriage. It feels as if it is just something to do (a ceremony) to partake in to show you have grown to a certain level.

For the guys, marriage is a way to secure deals and show maturity. For the ladies, marriage is a way up in life and for the ladies seeking love and not money, it is likely a way to attach yourself to someone else which is not a bad thing but it can be too dependent.
Spouses cheating left, right, and center

There are few people who still marry to build a family and I have always been of the opinion it is better to get married out of respect as opposed to love. Love would always fade away but if you respect your spouse, it gets easier. Don't get me wrong your spouse can actually lose respect for you but it is easier for love to fade off as opposed to respect, simply because you can respect someone and not love the person at all.

When I say respect I mean both ways, a man should respect his lady and a lady should respect her man.

I am also of the school of thought, that it is better to like your spouse more than you love them but I am not sure you all are ready for this.

Feel free to read more on if marriage is worth it via the link below
https://nicholasidoko.com/blog/2022/04/03/is-marriage-worth-it-today/

Chikina

It's not.... sincerely