Hi Nairalanders, I need your help. I'm in search of my mother, i'm not sure of her maiden name but on my birth certificate it says Wosilat Omodunni Adeyeri. I remember she was called Alaba by all. The last time I saw her was six/seven years ago.

How did you lose contact with your mother? Where are you now and where is she?

My daddy died when i was 3 so she left me with my paternal grandma (actually that was my choice). If i knew where she was i wouldn't be asking for help and am in Lagos.

that's really sad but have you done some kind of public announcement on T.v and radio or reported to the police or something? wish you best of luck.

Ehee yah i pity u not experiencing d luv of a mum
well put in prayer and whats ur age
u can forget and just try to get married and give ur children d best

u can try to find out from ur fathers people where ur mum comes from it will help

have you asked your father's people? that is if you know them? they should be able to at least give you a clue as to her people even if they don't know where she is.

all the best baby girl

tammie:

My daddy died when i was 3 so she left me with my paternal grandma (actually that was my choice[/color][color=#990000]). If i knew where she was i wouldn't be asking for help and am in Lagos.

how could that have been ur choice at 3? n e hoo, goodluck n i hope u do find her

Hmm. It's not gonna be easy. I hope you find her.

go to newsline. dont be shy! thats your best bet. everyone watches it. goodluck oh!

There's this evening daily newspaper circulating in lagos! I think you should try them out.

Dont worry, they aint gonna charge you any money!

How are you sure she wants to see you?
How sure are you that you won't be better off without her?
Why is she not looking for you as well?
I'll advise you to let the sleeping dog lie

Everbright:

How are you sure she wants to see you?
How sure are you that you won't be better off without her?
Why is she not looking for you as well?
I'll advise you to let the sleeping dog lie

and how do you know the mother has not been lookin for her too? she will neva know until she finds her & if the mum doesn't want anythin to do with her at least she tried she won't leave the rest of her in regret of "what ifs"

i say you try and find her and hopefully you do , but you propably need to have picture poster of her sent to the newspaper and stuff Good luck

sad , i hope you have found her, and i hope she is ok.
sometimes family memebers can meddle and with hold information like just like in your case, i suspect this is what has happened . All the best sha