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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by tnerro1(m): 4:19pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
How many kids do you have? Better get her pregnant before someone does it for you |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 4:20pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:Be honest.... from your OP, your worry wasn't that something might happen to her but instead that she might be out cheating on you with someone. You mentioned her going out in the past with an ex for this very reason. ![]() You are both adults and so I see no reason why your wife would need to be running around like a teenager around you- it is teenagers that pack a change of cloths when going out. If your wife feels she needs to hide her intentions from you when supposedly hanging out with friends then what means your relationship is already in trouble and my suggestion is you both seek professional marriage counseling to help you get to the root of the many problems here. And don't for a second think it is all her fault in any way. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Coinwarrior: 4:22pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Heavensent01:teach me |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 4:24pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:Your wife is not your child neither is she your property that you should have it constantly tracked or monitored. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by DrDunamis(m): 4:25pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:Forgive and caution, also report to her parents this that she has done |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Clinghton: 4:28pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Maybe your marriage has lost its spice, but when spouse remembers there ex its a big issue. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Isaacpromise1(m): 4:36pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
If anything happens to her … the next screaming headline would be “HUSBAND ALLEGEDLY USES MISSING WIFE FOR RITUAL!!! Make her comfortable and let her understand she is free to go anywhere reasonable as long as she informs you duly. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Heavensent01(m): 5:04pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Coinwarrior: goto her linked devices or web on her WhatsApp top right .... you've to download WhatsApp clone app first on App store. the process is not hard sha na on your phone you go download the WhatsApp clone app then finished it up there. I read my wife chat without her knowledge but na better pikin, I don't forgive cheater |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by efficiencie(m): 5:19pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: You married an olosho sir. She will keep doing this. Go and do DNA test for your kids to be sure they are yours. If a lady is prone to waka waka before marriage she will continue her waka waka after marriage. Yes you paid her bride price ohh but she is not for you alone. Send her packing before you beat her to death ohh or be prepared to share her with other men peacefully. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Qatar2022: 5:26pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:Take a decision now because won't stop apologising and you will keep accepting her |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Aaay: 5:38pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Really |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 5:42pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Isaacpromise1:Get over yourselves and your obvious control issues. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by McDuncan: 6:13pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Marriage is sacred alright from your cultural, religious and traditional point of view. You may hold a divergent view as entitled to you, but it doesn't accord you the facts. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 6:19pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
McDuncan:There's nothing sacred about marriage from my religious view, and since I don't subscribe to your cultures and traditions, those opinions have nothing to do with me either. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by President2001(m): 6:44pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:Forgive the fool but don't be a partner to the full |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by McDuncan: 6:50pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Except that religion was founded by you, marriage in most major religions is considered sacred. In Christianity, GOD set the standard and requirements for marriage and often times described HIS relationship with us as a marriage. Your views as entitled by you doesn't accord you the facts. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 6:55pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
McDuncan:In Christianity, God cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, rendering it unholy/nonsacred, so I don't know what you are babbling on about here. ![]() |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Adjovi: 7:08pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Idaytesj29: It still doesn't stop you from making out time for yourself. In this case it's still a young marriage and their romance life should still have a very high spark. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by McDuncan: 7:11pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: At this point it is pertinent to let you know that this is postmann and that we've been through this before. Your ignoble campaign that GOD cursed marriage is not just a lie but a Satan inspired one. If GOD cursed marriage why would HE say in proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the LORD? There are other examples emphasizing the sacredness of the union between a man and his wife as illustrated by our sacred covenant (relationship) with GOD. Here are some few more; Rev 19: 7-9 Let us rejoice and be glad and give the glory to Him, for the marriage of the Lamb has come and His bride has made herself ready.” Hosea 2:16 It will come about in that day,” declares the Lord, “That you will call Me Ishi (My Husband) And will no longer call Me Baali |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 7:33pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
McDuncan:1. What is written in Proverbs 18 was not attributed to God by the writer and so I don't understand why you claim God said that to you. Even a fool with eyes know the claim made by the writer in Proverbs is not based on fact. ![]() 2. The verse in Revelations which you quoted does not in any way refer to marriage of man and woman as defined by God for men in scripture. The word marriage is merely used to signify a union. ![]() 3. Same applies to the use of the word marriage in this verse in Hosea. ![]() Again .Marriage, according to Genesis 2 vs 24 is simply an agreement between a man and woman to become husband and wife(marriage). The very same husband and wife on whom the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 is placed on by God.. You(wife) will want your husband very much,Implicated are the very same husband and wife(one) that is a marriage. ![]() God didn't place that curse on single women or single men, but on men and women in marriage(husband and wife) .I.e. on marriage itself. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Rexymania(m): 7:39pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Fvck her |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by rajiayo(m): 7:54pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
I don't understand why you guys are bashing this poster. This is pure sarcasm and you didn't notice. ETHICALLYrlght: |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by advanceDNA: 8:03pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
some people are just trying to sound woke and civilized on this forum.... what is the meaning of a wife can go where ever she wants with another man, even hiding clothes inside bag...?? something you people cannot take..u are telling another person to take it |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by McDuncan: 8:14pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: 2Tim.3 Verses 16 to 17 [16] All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: [17] That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works. This is why I believe you're the most dangerous being alive. For you apportioned certain scripture in the bible as not of GOD. You cherry-pick scripture as to what's convenient and agreeable to your logic and your 'progressive' mind. Kobojunkie: If you're conversant with scripture and attend a sound church, you'd have been thought about GOD's ordained institution on earth being a replica of what is obtainable and required in heaven. For GOD tells man to honour his parents to give us an understanding of HIS being our PARENT. By so doing, HE is teaching us reverence. Same logic applies to the respect and reverence for priests and pastors because HE is our heavenly PREIST. Same logic applies to marriage when HE compares HIS relationship with us as that of a marriage. As sacred and as binding. How else does one send electrons into your cranium to wake up all the cells of your understanding? Man understands the sacredness of the union between man and wife that's why HE being GOD used that understanding to illustrate HIS relationship with us. , Kobojunkie: False! Marriage according to Genesis was the completion of GOD's design for humanity. To be bonded in companionship, having one mind and one goal. To multiply and be fruitful in all their endeavour. That's why HE needed not go to the clay a second time but took the man's rib instead. That was symbolic of a bond meant to endure for a lifetime. I will tell you again like I told you before; the curse was placed on individuals and not on the institution of marriage. Here's a question for you: the curse on the man was stated as thus; for you the ground is cursed and both thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you, In the sweat of your face you shall eat bread". Is this is applicable to man irrespective of his marital status? Does single men go through the same struggle? Again, to the woman HE said, out of pain you shall give birth: whether she gets pregnant in marriage or out of marriage, it is what it is. And men has been lording over women from the start of creation to the very end of time whether in marriage or out of it. Your logic and understanding is as porous as a picket fence. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 8:25pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
McDuncan:Scripture contains the words and opinions of men, the words Satan, demons and devils, the Word of God Himself - all of it inspired by God. ![]() The confusion many of you have is you think because a thing is inspired by God automatically means it is all God's Truth. That is a wrong conclusion as it suggests that God was delusional when He instead sent Jesus Christ as His Truth to us. ![]() As Jesus Christ explained to you, the devil is the father of lies, and the opinions of men are nothing but lies. Now when you go back to review what is in fact edited in scripture, you should realize now that there are lies recorded even in scripture. ![]() The only Truth contained in all of Scripture, the very Word you are commanded by God to live by, are His Words and His words alone. ![]() |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Souzin: 8:36pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:Whenever women confess, they usually do so to ease the guilt. And when they do, they leave out the bad part ![]() |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Munzy14(m): 8:52pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:Spice up your relationship abii marriage...Be romantic. She is passing a non verbal message you are not paying attention to her. Shine ya eye sha..Before you lose her. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by McDuncan: 11:47pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Get help while there's still time. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 11:50pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
McDuncan:Stop feeding on the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) , what Jesus Christ warned you were nothing but lies spewed at you in His name - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Open the book to hear what God is in fact been telling you for at least the last 2000 years. ![]() |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by McDuncan: 1:59am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Get help. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 2:06am On Apr 25, 2022 |
McDuncan:Again.... Stop feeding on the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) , what Jesus Christ warned you were nothing but lies spewed at you in His name - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Open the book to hear what God is in fact been telling you for at least the last 2000 years. ![]() |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by McDuncan: 2:40am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You couldn't wait to complete your tutorials in heresy before jumping on the public space to spread your mendaciously concocted baloney. Each time you pick up your Bible and flip its pages, heaven cringes in horror why hell expands in anticipation of a great harvest from one of its most obsequious minions. |
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