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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by irunoko(m): 3:26am On May 14, 2022 |
Iamolukorede:what exactly is he really pained for because there's nothing worth being pained about.if you offer someone money and the person says no, why should that become something to be offended by? Anyway I know what is wrong with op.hes egoistical.his ego is bruised possibly the others spraying money reminds him of his financial state. Op the Bible says the Lord resists the proud and gives grace to the humble.you cannot be broke and still be proud.na double jeopardy be that.if you want grace from God to be financially comfortable and happy in your marriage,be humble and be happy for others.they have a right to their choice and they have the right to want what they want 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by irunoko(m): 3:29am On May 14, 2022 |
Myexdisturbs:no bruise him fragile ego Na You too harsh with words 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by irunoko(m): 3:29am On May 14, 2022 |
Myexdisturbs:no bruise him fragile ego Na You too harsh with words 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by irunoko(m): 3:31am On May 14, 2022 |
Persephone1:gbam.exactly.youre very apt.his dangerous sense of self awareness stems from a place of PRIDE AND LOW SELF ESTEEM 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by DonSpankie: 3:58am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200: It is simply because you have prioritized money ahead of everything what did you lose by not spraying absolutely nothing.... use your money for something meaningful bro |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by InoGetJoy: 4:13am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200:hahahahahaha...my G, that plate of rice is very important for stepping down your anger |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by careytommy37(m): 4:27am On May 14, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: No mind the weyrey |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Dest8sman: 4:28am On May 14, 2022 |
Them see am spray twenty twenty naira for another wedding before
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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by longview007: 4:36am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200: This your last statement (... and withold the happiness from it because I don't think they need it.) was part of the reason they asked u not to spray money. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by HRMK: 4:43am On May 14, 2022 |
hahaha....which one u dey?envy or jealousy?na by force peson dey spray celebrant cash?anyway some evil minded peson dey spray celebrants bad luck....they are only bn security conscious!! |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by bunmioguns(m): 4:44am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200: Na by force to spray money self? 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by muyico(m): 4:54am On May 14, 2022 |
It mean nothing.dont take it personal |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by TheRollingStone: 5:45am On May 14, 2022 |
Go hustle bro. Nothing go do who no show you love Life no be your mate 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Psady(m): 6:20am On May 14, 2022 |
MrMcJay:Nothing really bad in what you just narrated, it's a norm anywhere, and for the MC, IT'S his job to rake in more money for the celebrants. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by 123papas(m): 6:21am On May 14, 2022 |
Wish the a happy married life irrespective of any treatment. Don’t be a wizard Tonero5200: 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Originalsly: 6:24am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200: Bro ... times are hard... money to get by is precious and scarce to a growing number of people... many of them at the wedding. The groom knows that ... he is well off and doesn't need money to offset the wedding nor to help him in marriage. In his mind... unlike soooo many MoG... it is likely that he is not comfortable receiving money from people who he knows really need it. But at the same time ... he knows that these same people came with the intention of spraying so he gives an option to spray to the MC or DJ. If you didn't like the option then you simply keep your money or spray it on another occasion. Spraying is part of the celebration.... but the people who were allowed to spray were those who were swimming in money... can spray big bills for an hour and their bank account would remain almost the same. He is comfortable with that. Maybe he gathered all that money and dumped it at an orphanage. You can be rich in mind and body and soul... but this was about money. He treated you and everyone with respect by announcing that you should not spray....that's not disrespectful. If you began to spray your small money and he tells you stop.... that's disrespectful and embarrassing. Seems like you are embarrassed because you believe you are rich and didn't get the opportunity to display yourself! Humble yourself. 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by freddie009(m): 6:25am On May 14, 2022 |
Mindlog: Exactly, some people get angry unnecessarily. Na there I go sit down chop more, even carry wine go house. If you let what people say control your emotions then bro you are in for a long ride in this life.. |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by franchasofficia: 6:27am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200:You weren't supposed to feel embarrassed at all. I did almost the same thing during my wedding. The only difference is that I wrote mine on the invitation card and it was also stated that its strictly by invite, and nobody is expected to spray money or give gift to the couple. There was no arrangement for couple to dance, only country music were played, and no room for high table or whatever they call it. Phones were not also allowed inside the reception hall, just come in and sit, eat and drink to your fill. When it was time to take pictures, buses were stationed to convey people interested in taking pictures to venue for snapping and back to the reception hotel where they boarded their private cars back to their various homes and destinations. So these things depends on peoples choices, some people love private life, some want extra security, some don't want to burden their guests with worrying about money to spray them or what to gift them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by freddie009(m): 6:30am On May 14, 2022 |
franchasofficia: Abeg this one an oversabi jore, if this is true. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by PericomaNwankwo: 6:41am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200: How close we're you to the celebrants? |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by PericomaNwankwo: 6:42am On May 14, 2022 |
franchasofficia: Thank you!!! I don learn 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by franchasofficia: 6:46am On May 14, 2022 |
freddie009:What's oversabi there? I didn't want to burden anybody, plus I never liked the idea of couple dance and all those various wedding brouhaha they do. I wanted a simplified yet classy wedding devoid of stress. I didn't want to stress myself on my wedding day in the name of wedding ceremony. And I also didn't want to burden some of my guest who came from remote villages to go bothering about money to spray or gift to gift us, so I completely canceled money spraying and gifting completely. Many people cherished it and I learnt many said they would adopt that style. All I needed was for few people to come and witness that I am officially married, not to use my wedding as a fundraising campaign or to disturb the whole town, that's never my kind of person from childhood 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Austeeenxx: 7:02am On May 14, 2022 |
I wonder why you're so pained? This is a perfect mix of low self-esteem and jealousy. � |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by aktolly54(m): 7:08am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200:why you dey vex afterall you are not ready to spray them 2m or 5m that day, the celebrant just feel like you should keep your 100k to yourself instead of giving them. Be happy for them... we movee |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Mattwillz: 7:17am On May 14, 2022 |
You dey vex you still carry rice you go chop..yeye Dey smell |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Pat081: 7:19am On May 14, 2022 |
Did they mention any body name? Tonero5200: |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 7:21am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200:person talk say make u no waste your money n u deh vex... Abeg who go remind me that Ebenezer obey song? |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Sweetvie: 7:22am On May 14, 2022 |
Tonero5200:I don't see any reason for you to be angry... It's what they want at least it not as if they face u and told you not to spray dem money... You av a low self-esteem, you felt as if they were talking to you, right? You wey suppose dey happy you go wedding u no spend shishi and still chop rice join ... Don't be embarrassed, they mean no harm... They r just trying to help you guys save money |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by macho44(m): 7:27am On May 14, 2022 |
Mindlog:Comrade, if you write a book titled "My Collection Of Insults" walahi e go sell pass pure water |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by Londonpraise(f): 7:59am On May 14, 2022 |
With the nature of the world now...we didn't allow anybody spray us o, even when someone came to ask...Oga say eat,keep your money with or without spray I we know we were to spend money.. And in other to achieve that and stay out of debt we hosted as we can in terms of number |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by princewarri1985: 8:00am On May 14, 2022 |
Uncle you heard them right, keep your money for your pocket, eat their rice, if possible eat 5 plate and drink their drink wella too, you can give the money you wanted to spray to a beggar on your way home, non be everything una go bring come nairaland. Their life, their buisness. Mind your buisness |
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Ceremony by luvyaself95(m): 8:00am On May 14, 2022 |
Immediately they finish their stupid and annoying speech i will just stand up and walk out of the weeding reception. I don't tolerate nonsense |
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