Prettylitlady:


I already said why I mentioned it. If you can't read and comprehend then the gtfo please

your reasons lack worth, besides you goofed so live with your mistakes.

Bukola94:
got married to a new person but I can say I really regret it, but we don't have anything in common and misunderstanding as been happening in the marriage between father in law and mother in law.

Oh! Okay Sis. But whatever you do, don't cheat on your Husband if you eventually meet your ex. I as an Unmarried Lady can't even do that, people saying Okafor's law up and down in my post. That law is not for me, I can't cheat on my partner with my ex or whoever. I dnt know where you are from but where i came from, Our Tradition forbids a married woman sleeping outside else smthing disastrous will happen to her children(it is real). Please sister don't do it, apart from Tradition, it is really not a cool thing cos after the "do" your eye go kan clear and live in regret... Yes God hates Divorce but it that will make you happy, I think you should file for it, raising your kids in a peaceful environment is much more better than in an unfriendly one where both parents are at each others' throat every time. My 2cent

Cutehector:
your reasons lack worth, besides you goofed so live with your mistakes.

Oga rest abeg, I don't have your time

The truth is that it will take time before you can complety forget about him. Just focus on your new guy.

Prettylitlady:


Oh! Okay Sis. But whatever you do, don't cheat on your Husband if you eventually meet your ex. I as an Unmarried Lady can't even do that, people saying Okafor's law up and down in my post. That law is not for me, I can't cheat on my partner with my ex or whoever. I dnt know where you are from but where i came from, Our Tradition forbids a married woman sleeping outside else smthing disastrous will happen to her children(it is real). Please sister don't do it, apart from Tradition, it is really not a cool thing cos after the "do" your eye go kan clear and live in regret... Yes God hates Divorce but it that will make you happy, I think you should file for it, raising your kids in a peaceful environment is much more better than in an unfriendly one where both parents are at each others' throat every time. My 2cent

don't want to lost our kid, he is just two. I love my boy very much. I don't want him to grow up without either of us contributing to is upbringing. He is the factor and bond that is still keeping us together. The innocent boy interest and future must be protected.

Bukola94:
hot temper, anger issue and only get angry easily with small things. But very caring, responsible, loving and an introvert and extrovert. So simple, intelligent and interesting to be with, God fearing and hardworking. The relationship just crash and I find it hard to let it go.

Wow...
But I wonder how someone who gets angry at trival issues can be described as loving...

Anyway, if you still feel that much for him you can still reconnect na. Though it depends on who called for the broke up sha and whether he hasn't hooked up with someone else.

Unless beating join the anger

hardon1:


Wow...
But I wonder how someone who gets angry at trival issues can be described as loving...

Anyway, if you still feel that much for him you can still reconnect na. Though it depends on who called for the broke up sha and whether he hasn't hooked up with someone else.

Unless beating join the anger

we still communicate once in a while. little to late, but I don't think neither of us has move on, in fact we still care and get jealous of each other.

Prettylitlady:


Oga rest abeg, I don't have your time

if you really didn't, you would have ignored the comment. Common sense is far from you though

Bukola94:
we still communicate once in a while. little to late, but I don't think neither of us has move on, in fact we still care and get jealous of each other.

There are still chances I guess, if you guys want to re unite, unless you both don't stay in same City, 6yrs no be beans, it's enough to engrave memories in people's heart

And like wey say in warri: " old firewood dey quick catch fire". One of you can take the initiative of starting with "am sorry". The film fit restart again . . And I believe he must have outgrown some vices and would have better control of his temper now.

My thoughts though

hardon1:


There are still chances I guess, if you guys want to re unite, unless you both don't stay in same City, 6yrs no be beans, it's enough to engrave memories in people's heart

And like wey say in warri: " old firewood dey quick catch fire". One of you can take the initiative of starting with "am sorry". The film fit restart again . . And I believe he must have outgrown some vices and would have better control of his temper now.

My thoughts though

thanks for the advice. We live in different city, Ilorin and Ibadan. Any time we jam again, it is going to be so emotional. Because we don't believe we can break up. My brother said a word years ago that we will not eventually marry each other. Said we may not not end up with the love of our lives and first love. I can't believe it end that way.

In my own case, we started dating since SS2 till I finish college and till university years. And the break up happen when going for NYSC.

Bukola94:
thanks for the advice. We live in different city, Ilorin and Ibadan. Any time we jam again, it is going to be so emotional. Because we don't believe we can break up. My brother said a word years ago that we will not eventually marry each other. Said we may not not end up with the love of our lives and first love. I can't believe it end that way.

Distance was a factor that cause us not to be together.

Cutehector:
if you really didn't, you would have ignored the comment. Common sense is far from you though

Shut up.. What the hell. Too petty, grow up please

Bukola94:
thanks for the advice. We live in different city, Ilorin and Ibadan. Any time we jam again, it is going to be so emotional. Because we don't believe we can break up. My brother said a word years ago that we will not eventually marry each other. Said we may not not end up with the love of our lives and first love. I can't believe it end that way.

Your bro is Right. I have come to realize that Life provides us an opportunity to meet the love of our life, but it doesn't really mean we would settle with them. Everyone is given a chance eto have that butterfly feeling once on a lifetime, only a handful eventually settle with one another

The last time I have such feeling was far back during my NYSC. But now I think my heart has outgrown tenderness

I wish you both happiness if you happen to reunite; and if you don't, I believe time and space would eventually heal and erase the memories. And you'll find fulfilment in someone else

Pray to God to seperate you by fire. There is nothing prayer cannot do. And with your you have listed about him, he is not even a person you have to look back at.