DEAR MEN!! How can your wife be as romantic as your side chick when you have impregnated her several times, sent her to labour many times, antenatal, postnatal and brèàst feeding for many years?. The stress of child care and up bringing till each baby turns 20+. School runs every morning and evening, kitchen to cook for you and your childrens. In the hospital for many days just to look after your kids when they fall ill, house chores and groceries are still to be taken care of by her. You the husband has caused her many cuts down her "V", cuts as a result of CS. What about sagged brèàst and stomach stretch marks you caused her, pimples, Yam leg and big nose you caused her during pregnancy, what about vomiting and loose of appetite, you have totally withdrawn your wife from the society because of African culture and yet you don't want to value and Respect her. Yet the only thing you remember is that she's not romantic but your side chick is. Put that your side chick to this life threatening Adventure and see if she can cope. Please dear men, learn to appreciate your wife, life is not all about séx and roma.nce, remember how she was before you married her and Remember that you are the cause of her woes. Appreciate your wife! Love your wife! Treat your wife the way you treats her before you married her! Make her feel like a queen she is! Be proud of her! Love her unconditionally!. May God bless every hardworking mother's and wifes. I HOPE THE VOLUME IS LOUD ENOUGH?.

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Rubbish post.
The usual victim mentality once again.
Men are the cause of your biological responses to child bearing.
You wanted to have a child, same as the guy.
Your body is created to handle the consequences of child bearing.
It's not something men imposed or forced on women.

I don't support cheating in marriage, doesn't mean that men are the cause of your issues.
After all the children would grow and most likely be singing sweet mother.

I don’t get this post useful