Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me

As an elder, I want to ask u a questions, each time he defend u what is always your action and reaction?

Have u.ever walk up to him and tell him thank u boss for protecting me the other day?

What is always in your mind whenever he does that?

If u don't know how to unlock the hidden agenda in his mind try and be friendly with him. When u are free with somebody u can tell such a person anything.

It is not bad for u at least to walk down to him and say my boss good morning with a smile on ur face.

It is not bad for u to buy a Candy for ur boss without any emotional attachment.

If u can be free with him he will open up to

He may b afraid to stoop low to your level but it is only u that can give him that strength to find his voice.

Looking at ur pic. U must be a very fun loving person.

U can know his intention within a short time
U ladies have that natural power. Use that .

NamelessOGBENI:

I notice am too.

you're with me in the spirit, but no loud am

Uniquetani1:
He likes you

great

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Okay each time he defends me out of the blues, I do walk up to his office later to thank him with a smile but he is always wearing a cold and emotionless face that's why it is hard for me to read his intentions!

AMI3:

As an elder, I want to ask u a questions, each time he defend u what is always your action and reaction?

Have u.ever walk up to him and tell him thank u boss for protecting me the other day?

What is always in your mind whenever he does that?

If u don't know how to unlock the hidden agenda in his mind try and be friendly with him. When u are free with somebody u can tell such a person anything.

It is not bad for u at least to walk down to him and say my boss good morning with a smile on ur face.

It is not bad for u to buy a Candy for ur boss without any emotional attachment.

If u can be free with him he will open up to

He may b afraid to stoop low to your level but it is only u that can give him that strength to find his voice.

Looking at ur pic. U must be a very fun loving person.

U can know his intention within a short time
U ladies have that natural power. Use that .

I will follow your beautiful advice and be more friendly with him to know his intentions...Thank you much

Emmanuel30a:
Don't read many meanings to it... Take it as an act of kindness, compassion and maybe likeness... Respect is reciprocal... Its good if someone seems to be standing in gap for you. It is tangible and valuable... You can value them too... Take note, always do the right things so that he may not necessarily to protect you; don't make him protecting you doing wrong things or don't continue doing wrong things and expect him to be protecting you continuosly.

Alright Noted thanks

He wants you

Fcmb2022:


Dat has never happened in the bad TVs I watch

This is Nigeria APC administration where change birth Next Level

Fcmb2022:

Ehhhh what ever, no matter what happens I will never abandon my club, most especially now they need their fans the most.


And remember no matter what happens the sky will always remain BLUE.


CHELSEA ROCKS!!!!!!!

you are doing well.. ride on..blues fan

Nikrose:
Okay each time he defends me out of the blues, I do walk up to his office later to thank him with a smile but he is always wearing a cold and emotionless face that's why it is hard for me to read his intentions!I will follow your beautiful advice and be more friendly with him to know his intentions...Thank you much

its obvious u like him too

Nikrose:
Small I am not small you can't judge with pics sha! But @bolded maybe I remind him of someone

You look small like under 20, probably 17 or 19.
Your colleague likes you, and probably has a huge crush on you.
Maybe he thinks you might talk down on him or report him if he directly tells you his affectionate intentions towards you.
He appears to lack the courage to ask you out. And you seem like a young Nigerian girl with low manners regarding guys.

Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me

why does this surprise you?...motives are rarely unselfish!

Fcmb2022:


Dat has never happened in the bad TVs I watch

do your work with fcmb??


If yes.. I got a relative that has a pension with your organisation.. how does she go about withdrawing it
. Does she need a fcmb acct??

Nikrose:
Alright Noted thanks

You are welcome... Overtime, the intention would be know, whether good or bad...

He might just love guarding you he might not have any feelings just normal attitude

[quote author=9182736455O1999 post=112932448][/quote]As in, the guy matter tire me sef

Nikrose:
At my work place, recently I noticed that one of my senior male colleague in his early thirties, not married is always defending, and protecting me even if I am wrong in many cases! I started noticing this for few weeks now and I don't understand his motive and reasons for doing it

I also noticed, He does this for only me and no other person! I just want you guys opinions for his reasons and motive for doing this!

Note: he is not displaying any romantic moves towards me, he keeps a straight face around me

You might remind him of his little sister or niece

AndroBlaze:
Though I agree with most people that he probably likes you it could also be that you remind him of someone he cares/cared for...... so this possibility is a 15% chance, with "he likes you" being 80% and the other 5% being "other reasons".

Yeah... She might remind him of his lil sister or niece.

Nikrose:
Okay each time he defends me out of the blues, I do walk up to his office later to thank him with a smile but he is always wearing a cold and emotionless face that's why it is hard for me to read his intentions!I will follow your beautiful advice and be more friendly with him to know his intentions...Thank you much

Which mean u like him already, if truly you like him and u re not into serious relationship, you can start chatting with him, to create more and faster way for him to enter you.

Fcmb2022:

Pls can you explain what yo mean by this post cos I have been looking at it for d past 3 hours now but I can't understand it.



what do u mean by "u complain u can't find mans on Nairaland" have i ever discussed something of that nature with anyone not to talk of you.

pls explain cos i dont get it.

sweet tat please describes that yor fine sef again?

Fcmb2022:


OG Be calming down..
not all guys has guts to open up to a girl..
u guys keep talking about the ladies, don't you most are introverts.

I wasn't refering to the guy on the main post. I replied the guy that was busy insulting the op.