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Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 7:44pm On May 20, 2022 |
Hello There �� I'd like you guys to help me on this... My wife packed her belongings from the house exactly a month today. Now she wants me to come bring her belongings back to the house from her parents. As a man, is this right? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by yomi007k(m): 7:47pm On May 20, 2022 |
Why did she leave in the first place? 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Mindlog: 7:48pm On May 20, 2022 |
Like earlier asked, why did she leave in the first place? 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by HeRulesMen: 7:53pm On May 20, 2022 |
What happened in the first place? 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by JRichards: 7:56pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: 100% So. Yes If you rely on advice here, you'll get it wrong. She has already figured the part she got wrong in your issues so you don't need to overflog it or play the ego card by saying, you left yourself, return. She wants to be needed and as such, you're almost re-proposing to her. Hence you need to reach out, while she meets you mid way Any other counsel about from this counsel here is to scatter your marriage patapata. The choice is yours. I have spoken 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Emma2Seconds: 8:03pm On May 20, 2022 |
What's the matter first?? |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Baba40(f): 8:03pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: This people are the same thing... If you go and help her pack , she would pack out again 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Baba40(f): 8:04pm On May 20, 2022 |
JRichards: You are wrong bro... Mine did 4 different times, the last was the final 11 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:10pm On May 20, 2022 |
JRichards: Hmmmmm. I don't have issues with her coming back, where I have issues with is me been the one to come bring her belongings back to the house. She's this nagging type, she someone who wants you to please her 100% even when she know you're not equal to fulfilling it. She's someone who chooses other people apartment to hers, even when I've told her I don't like her sitting or doing anything in others people's home. When I'm busy with work on my phone, that's when she wants to have a conversation. She's someone who will not do anything for you until when she pleases. There's alot of things she's doing which I talked out with her but she's not ready to heed. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by JRichards: 8:10pm On May 20, 2022 |
Baba40: Is your marriage his marriage? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by JRichards: 8:12pm On May 20, 2022 |
[quote author=PeerHub post=113018916][/quote] How about talking about the issues in your marriage with a counselor rather than point out her flaws. EXAMPLE. Panacea to her sitting down at home can be easily controlled with either getting her a shop or Dstv and Solar and a work engagement to keep her home 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by JRichards: 8:14pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: You have legit points though. Make sure you state your concerns in the present of her kin before he returns If you want to prove manly, you can act dismissive and tell her to find her way home same way she left. This way you retain your honour and dignity intact. It's also doable too. But state your needs and wants before allowing him her return oh otherwise, aluta continua 8 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:17pm On May 20, 2022 |
JRichards: The funny thing is I gave her money about a ₦100k to start something with, gave the fund to sisters husband to keep. I don't want to go deep with this money matter. Still gave her some money to start selling foodstuffs at home, make subscription available every month still she won't stay in the house. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:21pm On May 20, 2022 |
JRichards: She doesn't want to back else I come pack her things, I told her I was going to pay the the transport fare, she still insist on me coming. Not that I can't go and bring those things back to the house, but to me It feels like I went to beg her to come back. Is there dignity with doing that? 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Richy4(m): 8:22pm On May 20, 2022 |
<< I don't want to know what transpired between the two of you.. but if you were the one that wanted her back into the house and she accepts to come back, logically, u should be the one to help her take her luggage back because u wanted her back... << If she was the one that left on her own accord and decide to come back at will, then...( I won't say what I will do ) but conveying her luggage back into the house is not part of it.. 9 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by JRichards: 8:24pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: She just wants to be free. Doesn't want to work, but want to be free to do as she please and go around neighborhood. Is she an Ijebu lady ? |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by JRichards: 8:25pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: This is more of a personal decision and desire oh. Only you know what you want and only you know what it feels like being in your shoe 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:27pm On May 20, 2022 |
Richy4: Hmmmm. Both parents want us to resolve, I keep saying I didn't send her packing, when she feels dim she can come. I'm not not comfortable with the part where I should be the one to go bring her luggages back to the house. This is why I've come to ask if that's not foolishness. If I do go, what could be the possible consequences. 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:28pm On May 20, 2022 |
JRichards: She's from kogi... Egbira Okenne |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by JRichards: 8:30pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: Don't be quick to take her back. Go ad tell her kins-people all you dislike about the marriage in heir presence first and foremost. Prioritize your needs. She should be the one serving, not asking you to worship her 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by ojun50(m): 8:31pm On May 20, 2022 |
Don't go let her bring her tins by her self, if her parents can allow her to stay that long without sending her back since all this while, oga you might see worst of her to come oh 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:36pm On May 20, 2022 |
JRichards: I've met kins-people. They're also saying I should come bring her belongings. That I should act like a man and just over look her childish behaviour and manners. I called one this evening that It doesn't sit well in me to come over to bring her belongings. What he said was he's not interested in this anymore and hanged the phone on me, I took time to call back and he didn't answer. I had to call my woman and talk things out that I can only provide her with the money to get back home. She went silent and could not alter words afterwards. We have a son together though. And I'm concern about my child. He's just clocked one March 30th. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Richy4(m): 8:38pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: If I was to be in your shoes, God knows that I will not go... If she knows how she managed to fit her luggage into a car while leaving, she should also try and fit it back while coming back... This is just me being me...If that's just how every couple behaves, packing out once there is misunderstanding, how would one solve their issues... But you can be a better man buddy and bring her stuffs back... See it as a sacrifice for reconciliation 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:39pm On May 20, 2022 |
ojun50: I've used that against them. If they really meant well for her, the same day she came with her belongings, she should have been sent back. 6 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:40pm On May 20, 2022 |
Richy4: God 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Danibonk(m): 8:41pm On May 20, 2022 |
As a Yoruba man if your wife dare pack her things out by herself if she want to pack in her parents will come and beg for her to come back. She will beg with her two knees on the ground 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by slan87(m): 8:42pm On May 20, 2022 |
Did you sent her packing out of the house, if NO. Let her find a way to bring back her belongings the way she did when she was packing it out. But if you are the one who sent her packing then do the needful 6 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by boxer022(m): 8:46pm On May 20, 2022 |
The fact that she moved her things out of the house back to her parents and you not sending her packing herself, is to be settled by her moving her things back by herself the same way she moved them out. You do not need to go there to carry her things. According to tradition, it is the man that can send his wife packing only due to infidelity from her and not the woman moving out her things. If you have older relatives confirm from it. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by JRichards: 8:47pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: You dont get it still. Go and tell her parents what you hate in her, first and foremost. leave every other thing. Go and establish that so you can know you will be getting a redemmed soul not the same crude one that misbehaves 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by PeerHub(m): 8:48pm On May 20, 2022 |
slan87: I didn't! As a matter of fact I wasn't at home when she packed 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Richy4(m): 8:50pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: I disagree with you on this one man... I can't send my daughter that came to take refuge in my home away in the name of marriage... God forbid.. Why am I her father? I will advise her to settle with you or find ways to reconcile with both of you and bring the issue to an end... But asking her to leave my house because she's married.. that will never happen... Sorry 14 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by slan87(m): 8:56pm On May 20, 2022 |
PeerHub: Let her find a way to bring her belongings back, she made her choice going & let her decide her coming back. Going to her parents place to help her bring it looks like you are desperate of having her back, let her find her way back 2 Likes 1 Share |
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