Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Slurity(m): 2:49pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. If happiness and rest of mind is part of target in marriage RUN now before she run you mad. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Jefferyhi86(m): 2:50pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
If she tells u they have sex 4times, do u know how many count that is (first sex approx 3rounds)so ur babe has be fuxk 48 times ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by MNDY(m): 2:52pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
gaby: If I were you, I'd be more worried about her written English than her naughtiness. She's living her age.
Make I tell you the truth?
Hahahahahahahaha. Aswear me too. Her English & spellings would worry me more. The OP and many other guys out there are unfortunately investing their serious feelings/emotions on women in the first place and causing themselves pain in the long run. Women that are capable of doing anything anytime; humans generally too. And that's where the females have an advantage over men. Many men are chasing after a woman; very rare for a man. As humans, we really need to develop a mindset that Anything Can Happen. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by InvertedHammer: 2:53pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. / Marrying her is the same as voting in Tinubu for President. Are you BATified? Because denial and delusion is their forte. Your life will suck afterwards. / |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by yusluvad(m): 2:53pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
virginprincess: Pls let her go,if you marry her she will cheat on you. She will be having extra-marital affairs pro max. What a bitch cannot do does not exist. Lastly, she'll be the one to end this guy's life, if given marriage chance... |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by zrocky: 2:54pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. *She treats me well and has never disrespected me.* *She is waiting for you to marry her then she go show you pepper. *A woman that share herself and chat with other guys while in a serious relationship has absolutely no respect for you. It's not by force to settle down bro. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by mozona(m): 2:55pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
she is lying.. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by tradepunter: 2:56pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
She fking 22!!!!!! what else did you expect? girls at that age have no direction and want to have fun.
As a 33-year-old man push up the age to look for a serious girl to 24.... it's everything you guys put on nairaland....
Girls below 25, especially that 20-23 gap don't want anything to do with serious relationships and are more vein. They want money and want to flex.. know this and know peace 1 Like |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by encryptjay(m): 2:56pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Ladies that deal with married men ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) She also sends nudes. You're settling yourself up for depression. You'll get married and start asking questions. She knows how you feel about her and she's using this to her advantage. She'll keep doing this shit cos you're ever ready to accept her with open arms. You have to let go chief. There are great ladies out there. You're a nice guy that doesn't want trouble; you just want to settle down and be happy. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by 27Pushing30: 2:57pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. YOUR BABE SAY HER puss.Y NA your own and her ass.hole na for others and you're asking for advice ![](/faces/huh.png) ok ooo |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by lexy2014: 2:57pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
KingofTheStreet: you know me? or your mama follow people wey i dey sex chat I don't know. Pls tell me |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Anuoluwa12345(f): 2:58pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Don't worry, you. Know when you get there. Nope, I am not.. but I am talking from something I have experienced with someone close. 40fy:
**Hahaha!! How did you know that?? **Are you a 50 years old woman??
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Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Emmy4040: 2:58pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
wallarwallar: It is not easy to dey advice people 4 relationship cos na go dey ask advice bt na anoda ting dey una mind.. 4 ur case u luv dat girl dearly and it is very hard 4 u to let go bt u @ jst looking 4 people to condem her so u can use dat to move on but it won't help u cos u go still go back.. Ur problem is jst dat u gat no principle and people like u are very hard to advice that's a very mature response. God bless you |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Arkmanbuddy(m): 2:58pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
wallarwallar: It is not easy to dey advice people 4 relationship cos na go dey ask advice bt na anoda ting dey una mind.. 4 ur case u luv dat girl dearly and it is very hard 4 u to let go bt u @ jst looking 4 people to condem her so u can use dat to move on but it won't help u cos u go still go back.. Ur problem is jst dat u gat no principle and people like u are very hard to advice Cold, hard truth @the bolded! 1 Like |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Ebubu9: 2:59pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Michelle55: You better focus on yourself and leave that girl, she's in the whoring stage and there's nothing you say or do now that would deter her from getting dicked by others. On the other hand, you can decide to be a gentleman and accept her back, the choice is yours bro. I can’t even take a woman who once had whorring stage/past. Inside me I feel she may one day return to it. If there is any lady who never had a whorring stage(have a boyfriend, Bleep only him and be true to him, break up, get another one, be faithful), if there is any lady without a whorring past, na that one I want. I’ve described that type, not the ones who were dating boyfriend, and fucking outside or flirting outside, that’s whorring stage and I fear they will return to it. To be on safer side, get one who had never had that stage: she may had bleeped, but she hadn’t cheated on anyone. That’s the kind of girl I want. 2 Likes |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by blue01(m): 2:59pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Trusting a known LovePeddler is like believing that you can fetch water using a basket....run for the sake of your sanity. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Druss(m): 2:59pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
You really need advice? Or you need emotional support for the decision you are about to make? |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by hotwax: 2:59pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
no advice anyone give you now will change you. You are enjoying the sweet sex now.
But later, you will raise bastard children. You will not trust your kids. Oga do yourself a big favour right now.
You can continue dcking her right now if she is not asking for marriage, but when it comes to marriage, run..
millions of ladies out their begging for marriage...i get plenty of them...to find a lady to marry now is like picking stone on the floor...
be wise |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by achimendy(m): 3:01pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. You dey see red flag you no wan run abi, until she put am for your body wotowoto. Secondly, don't be desperate to get married, age is just a number, so settle down and search with wisdom. Thanks. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Ebubu9: 3:02pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
tradepunter: She fking 22!!!!!! what else did you expect? girls at that age have no direction and want to have fun.
As a 33-year-old man push up the age to look for a serious girl to 24.... it's everything you guys put on nairaland....
Girls below 25, especially that 20-23 gap don't want anything to do with serious relationships and are more vein. They want money and want to flex.. know this and know peace I can’t even take a woman who once had whorring stage/past but has repented if she like make she be 26 year old. Inside me I feel she may one day return to it. If there is any lady who never had a whorring stage(have a boyfriend, Bleep only him and be true to him, break up, get another one, be faithful), if there is any lady without a whorring past, na that one I want. I’ve described that type, not the ones who were dating boyfriend, and fucking outside or flirting outside, that’s whorring stage and I fear they will return to it. To be on safer side, get one who had never had that stage: she may had bleeped, but she hadn’t cheated on anyone. That’s the kind of girl I want. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by sureboykris(m): 3:03pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. Run oooo |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Basiljoe: 3:04pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Once a woman cheats on you, you dump her and never take her back else you're a cuck and you've confirmed for her hind brain that you're a beta who would do anything for pussy.
No single decision will impact your life more than the one you make in determining who will be the mother of your children.
If you marry her you be mumu. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by yemi1504: 3:05pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. Why do guys deal with ladies around that age that are still in their h0eing phase? Beats me! You had better look for a more mature lady from age 26 up and have the peace of mind you deserve! |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Tzar(m): 3:05pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
She is a wh*re! You better run! She has no qualms exposing or selling her body for attention or money. What other thing do you want GOD to do to rescue you from being a f**l that He hasn't done?! Will this generation of boys just stop being SIMPS for pete's sake! |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by yusluvad(m): 3:05pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
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Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Ten06(m): 3:07pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
I would have posted an advise here but if I do those ones that dryer her dried their brain will start insulting me because the only thing they can remember from what they are thought in school is insult. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Nobody: 3:08pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. she sent nude video of a vjay to a man ad yet she said he didn't see my unclothedness, person wey don see vjay wat else is left? Werey there's no gal that doesn't act like her, just pick the one that u can manage |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by 40fy: 3:08pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Anuoluwa12345: Don't worry, you. Know when you get there. Nope, I am not.. but I am talking from something I have experienced with someone close.
**I know niggas wouldn't tell you this, but I'm gonna be real and say what's on my heart!! **Girl, let's just get married!! **Meet me at the altar in your white dress!!
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Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by COMPAQ(m): 3:08pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
virginprincess: Pls let her go,if you marry her she will cheat on you. Babe Don talk am! You better flee from that girl. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by yemi1504: 3:11pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
I appreciate your advice but it is not as easy as it sounds dear. Yes, I am thinking towards that line but I feel I have wasted a great deal of my time with this girl. I am really depressed. You will get over it bro! Yes, it will be painful getting over her but you will be fine in due course. |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Jennifer89(f): 3:11pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
See you see red flag you're seeing dangerous pointers and still asking questions |
Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Sniper101(m): 3:12pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
You want to go and see the parents of a 22yr old immature female?
Mtcheeeew Do so/Wife her at your own peril. |