| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by frozen70(f): 8:26pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. If you want to benefit anything from him try being humble He doesn't want you to rub shoulder with him, even if you are hus senior Go back to him and me him know that something was disturbing your mind that period you reacted Then keep calm and be loyal as if you are an apprentice |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Nobody: 8:28pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. There is a difference between humbleness and ridicule. Stop ridiculing yourself 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by 6pack: 8:29pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. anybody wey get money pass you , respect am , I don't care how he made the money . I thank God for myself, I own no motherfucker respect. They owe me..dude I am sure your family looked down on him, this is called pay back. If you like your self, no go back o. Go and hustle and show him that he is trash. A useless trenches girl I once dated left me for a son of a commissioner then. Because of her I vowed to myself that I will be richer than the guys father and his generation. Yes it happened. She came back when she saw doings wey pass boyfriend papa. And yes I used her to the max , had gangbangs with her 3 somes etc and dumped her back to the trenches she came out from 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Qatar2022: 8:29pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. Don't go there again , he will never do anything for you he will just use you and dump you 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by davies(m): 8:29pm On May 27, 2022 |
It's good to be humble to receive but wen it comes to using it as a means to spite me, bros na mi personally go change am for you.
Don't av time for bullshit.
Ajumobi o kan t'anu, e'ni Olorun ba ran si ni lo s'eni lanu.
Meaning...
To be related doesn't mean you can be favored, it is he who God sends to you that will favor you.
If you don't gerrit forget about it 2 Likes 
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| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by coputa(m): 8:29pm On May 27, 2022 |
For your cousin to have allowed to live with him for three days and do domestic household chores,it means he loves you. yov dont expect him to throw his hard earn money at you. Humble yourself before him and descretly find out what he does for a living and learn the trade through him. |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by miqos02(m): 8:30pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. oga look for work, there is dignity in labor. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:31pm On May 27, 2022 |
God1000:
Lol, money makes people arrogant.
Unless you've impacted him one way or the other before, he won't respect or regard you as anything.
That's wrong though Damn straight! |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by nedekid: 8:32pm On May 27, 2022 |
This really happens with people who were very poor and then things get better for them.
I am sure this your cousin was from a less off home that you. Possibly comming to spend his holls in your family house. Looking at your toys, watching your TV and vcr they never had.
All those bad belle bottled in his mind is what is playing out now.
I put it to you this your cousin wount help you, neither will he show you the way he makes money, abi you think he wants you to get richer than him?
Oga, if you have other options face them, because all you will get is humiliation. 6 Likes |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Myadore: 8:32pm On May 27, 2022 |
Your Cousin is into fraud MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by 001spice: 8:34pm On May 27, 2022 |
EVEN The bible say we should humble ourselve. So wat stopping u frm doing that so as to get wat u wat |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by tommy589(m): 8:36pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. What personal issue are you having? If been homeless is the core reason I will advise you to stay for a while. If not,move. I guess you are not married,it is the only thing I know that limit freedom and dogged adventure to success.if no baggages you will shine. But take it from me he won't help. You are like an house boy without wages 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by JohnOkolo: 8:36pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. Are you blatantly stupid or just asking to meet and listen to your type of lowlifes. J pity your destiny, I don't have any advice to give a lowlife. Bow and be used as a doormat. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by leochi(m): 8:38pm On May 27, 2022 |
I see it as an insult no matter what might be his reason. Earlier you made mistake by washing his clothes, you wouldn't have, he just want to humiliate you. Bro don't go back there get something else to do And pray for God's grace. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Icebreeze(m): 8:41pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.
He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
Bro you get chilled temper, even though he senior me I go still deck am talkless he is your junior na steady decking him go collect before I move out of his house. |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Bizstud: 8:45pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. Op: your cousin is a bad person. Always reject offer that comes with disrespect. No matter how juicy it is. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by chatinent: 8:46pm On May 27, 2022 |
Stop selling your respect for money. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by AfroKnight: 8:47pm On May 27, 2022 |
You are asking a fraudster for help. Lol. You better help yourself. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by lilyheaven: 8:47pm On May 27, 2022 |
washing his clothes is not an issue, but dis regarding in the presence of someone is very bad, next thing the girl will join to insult you. abeg waka MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Ten06(m): 8:48pm On May 27, 2022 |
It seems you have a servitude spirit. How dare you wash clothes for your junior?
Someone that you may be richer than tomorrow.
Leave him and go and hustle. Why reason like one who has no potentials?
Didn't you go to school? 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by AFONJAPIG(m): 8:48pm On May 27, 2022 |
Dey there they look for who will help u out of poverty... big boy ko big man ni |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Cloud007: 8:48pm On May 27, 2022 |
Dont be a slave please. Pray and hustle. Your story Wii change.
Poverty na wah oo 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Dirpetaner: 8:49pm On May 27, 2022 |
your younger cousin tried but you know that money is the most senior...you are the junior cousin... sometimes our future requires us to be very humble.... I just wish you good luck making the right decision. Pray for direction and fast I swear.... you will be comforted |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Streetmovement(m): 8:49pm On May 27, 2022 |
Wotoporiously  speaking There's this particular saying that goes this way, " Person wey go pay you no go stress you" Try understand wetin I dey talk you go know your next move... As for your cousin try know wetin him dey do first before you go use humility kill yourself, Some humility dey kill pass sapa my brother. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Tradegood: 8:49pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1
I just dey feel for you here.
It is well.
I wish I get excess money, I for give you.
I don't think you should go to him.
No good person humiliates another to their face like that. Chai!
If he wanted to help, he would have since helped.
It looks to me like he is testing the waters with you. What if he suggests you join their cult or become h*m*s*xual, will you do it out of desperation?
You soul is worth more than a billion trillion, don't sell it.
I am just saying be careful with that guy.
What he did was disgusting.
If you go back, he may humiliate you more and still not lift a finger to help you, Only GOD knows.
Let's look at it this way, if he wasn't available, if he wasnt in the picture, if he didn't have the means, how would you have solved the issue?
GOD is calling you to resourcefulness. You can do it.
If that your cousin refuses to help you, GOD will help you.
GOD HIMSELF makes a way for you right now where there is no way.
You can engage your brain, with GOD's help, after praying to GOD, and the solution to your challenge will be so clear before your eyes without you humiliating your self before a another human calling it humility.
Jeremiah 17:5
This is what the Lord says:
“Cursed are those who put their trust in mere humans,
who rely on human strength
and turn their hearts away from the Lord.
7 “But blessed are those who trust in the Lord
and have made the Lord their hope and confidence.
What is the challenge you are facing? You should mention it in your main post.
Your helper (may or may not be in monetary terms) may be reading this thread.
Some of us may have faced similar challenges and solutions to share with you. |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Tukor1759: 8:50pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. oga fine your way,man no be God 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Karleb(m): 8:50pm On May 27, 2022 |
There's humility and there's stupidity.
This is one of the reasons I love that these days you can learn almost anything online.
Some tutors are just too full of themselves. This reminds me of my keyboard tutor then, man was so annoying.
If I were you, I'd just tell him Bleep you to his face and leave. Whatever he think he knows can be learnt elsewhere. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Tradegood: 8:50pm On May 27, 2022 |
Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking
There's this particular saying that goes this way, " Person wey go pay you no go stress you" Try understand wetin I dey talk you go know your next move...
As for your cousin try know wetin him dey do first before you go use humility kill yourself, Some humility dey kill pass sapa my brother. That wan no be humility o. Na humiliation. Dem no mean the same thing at all  |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Truvelisback(m): 8:50pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.
We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.
Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o
He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.
He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.
I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.
Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
How do you guys see it?
I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues. Don't go back there, except u enjoy being a Bond-slave to him. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Cloud007: 8:52pm On May 27, 2022 |
001spice:
EVEN The bible say we should humble ourselve. So wat stopping u frm doing that so as to get wat u wat that is no humility. It's called simple minded. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by americaninja1: 8:52pm On May 27, 2022 |
Free that guy. That guy go use u as rag for millennium , u go lose ur time and self esteem before u realize that u wasted ur time serving ur cousin. Better to serve an outsider than serving ur extended family members, they go use u for years and dump u |
| Re: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 27, 2022 |
MrOjay1:
I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.
Na when wall fall goats dey climb am anyhow. You have no honour and he knows this as u have already shown to him that's why he will continue to humiliate and use u for that master n slave relationship. Some people may tell u to go on and misinterpret "pride goes before a fall" which has nothing to do with this ur matter. Redeem ur glory and hustle thyself before him use u. I know it wouldn't end well. He just showed u a tip of the iceberg. Only 3 days ur junior for family turn u slave and even dey insult u ontop u still won go back  In fact bring that ur coconut head make i knock sense enter 3 Likes 
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