liv all of them, she you hear
and me sef dey find wife ooooo
dont mind to be in the 4th position

The best thing is to start all afresh and let them all three just go.

I agree that you should let them go. Are you sure you really love any of them? How long have you known these men?

I don't know why you girls think relationship is a game.

I think you should learn to think properly and carefully before giving your heart to someone. If you claim to love the first guy, why was there a second and a third?

If you don't want to experience a terrible heart break, then I would advise you to be very careful when next you fall in love.

As for you question, you are the one dating them, so I think you should be able to know which of them you love most.

It is not just girls that can think relationships are a game. . .besides. From the impression I get by some posts its normal for people in Nigeria to date more than one person at the same time. . .

don't mind that person who said its bad to break upwith guys, so in the alternative you wait for the guys to break up with u if they ever will abi?

what i don't understand is if you are dating the three - but i guess u are, since u can't break up if u aint dating.

i would have advised you to pick the one you love but since he knows of the other two, i guess you should ditch them all, nicely and start afresh. and next time don't get tangled like that, the human heart is pretty delicate so be careful who you listen to

PTBNaija:

It is not just girls that can think relationships are a game. . .besides. From the impression I get by some posts its normal for people in Nigeria to date more than one person at the same time. . .

Its normal yea but such relationship would end up in nothing but pain.

@ Poster

I think u are to be blamed, do u think relationship is all bout accepting any guy that comes with a kind heart to u? Why then did u not go ahead to accept all the guys that come ur way.

I think it is u that should be blamed for the kind of situation u have putted urself in, but the advice I would give u is just to try and study all of them. . . . . You have been with them long enough to know who truly loves you, so I suggest you to give ur love to the one that loves you more and forget about the 2 others.

Be careful not to get urself in this kind of mess again.

Cheers!

Later on, you'll go back to calling Guys "Players". See the kind of game you're playing already. 3 GUYS

Get a clue!

How can u LOVE 3 guys at the same time?

I doubt you can love all three of them at the same time. I think everything is too circumstantial for it to be true love. Like everyone else said starting afresh is the best decision. Why wait for them to break up with you. You should break up with them instead of dealing with the heart ache when they break up with you. Better their heart ache than yours, though you did this to yourself.

my candid advice for you is to forget the 3 guys.

how can u love 3 guys at a time that means u dont love any, you are just being infatuated towards them becos if u truely love one of them u can never compromise your love.

so my dear start afresh

and think before u leap this time , dont leap before thinking as before

You are yet to tell us the truth, when you are ready for good advice, you will tell the truth, cos no nigerian woman will date 3 guys with nothing attached, it is either one is Father Christmas, one is a donator and the other is a baby boyfreind, so tell teh truth and they we can advice you,

Like i said b4 i only love the second one but the third one is forcing himself on me but if u dont believe i dont care just need advice dats all,

Why don;t you just confess the truth to the second one and if he reciprocates the love you have for him then he might make the third one back off. Is he forcing himself like a rapist or something?

The second one reciprocates my love for him and the third one is asking me Wat i mean

Let me know when there is a vacancy. I would love to apply.
Geting serious now wetin u dey look wey one, two, three guys begin love you
dey follow u about. Na wa oo. You be beyonce? Anyway, make up your mind.
Compare their characters and uniqueness. You know your priorities.
Its up to you, you know them best and have the final decision.

Well tell the second one that the third one is forcing himself on you.

Follow your heart

I don't get the "forcing himself on me" bit.

As Wendymanda asked, is he forcing himself on you physically, like trying to[b] r a p e [/b] you? 

Christ, you do like a complicated life! If you're confused, and you know these guys, how do you expect us to understand, when we've no idea what these guys are like? 

My advice? Forget this trio, and find someone else, completely isolated from these ones. I can't see it working with any of them, as you don't seem very sure of whom you do or don't love. I know you profess to love Guy 2, but how can you, if you're dating all three? 

Listen the third guy tries to kiss me publicly and always get me injured when i try to force him of me.I love the second guy should i say Cos am dating three i should now leave him

derinsola:

Listen the third guy tries to kiss me publicly and always get me injured when i try to force him of me.I love the second guy should i say Cos am dating three i should now leave him

In a nutshell, yes.

Whadaaaa?. . . Girl, get a grip!

derinsola:

Listen the third guy tries to kiss me publicly and always get me injured when i try to force him of me.I love the second guy should i say Cos am dating three i should now leave him

I wonder why you still keep bothering yourself after so much advice giving to you
As you said the second one reciprocates your love - Then what are you still waiting for?
Leave the third and stick with all you have to your true love _{the second guy}

Thanks!

So the second guy is physically abusing you. There is a law against that in Nigeria right?

wendymanda:

There is a law against that in Nigeria right?

ROFLMFAO U kidding, right?

ROFLMFAO You kidding, right?

O, well if she can't go to the authorities she has two other options, divine intervention, or a hit man. Hopefully she uses the first.

Girlfriend, why are you complaining? You have the best of 2 worlds. Three regular customers without the risk of getting arrested for soliciting. Lots of hookers would like to be in your shoes. Get the drift?