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Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Hoodyrich(m): 7:40pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Truthfully it is not the popular thing to do even if it seems normal or right. I believe it's already common in this part of the word(Nigerian) for a man to be financially better of relative to his wife or girlfriend as it serves as a measure to his worth,sad truth!!. In the case of a woman her beauty or physcal features is the guage. |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by cattylove7(f): 7:42pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
in this harsh economy of naija that tables can turn at anytime his saying u shouldn't work u beta don't ans him/ else ul end up marrying ur enemy who wish no progress 4 u www.cattylove.com |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by cattylove7(f): 7:44pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
n this harsh economy of naija that tables can turn at anytime his saying u shouldn't work u beta don't ans him/ else ul end up marrying ur enemy who wish no progress 4 u www.cattylove.com |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by GloriousGbola: 8:12pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
pocohantas: The word you are looking for is pre emptive failure. No plans to self-upgrade, so the only way it can work for him is if he has someone he has forced down 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Wwwq: 9:09pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by reddingtonblack: 9:23pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: The online world is so funny and highly dominated by people living probably another life ... perhaps you people don't know r/ship is all about compromise & sacrifices,in these case both parties could not compromise and the man freed her how does it amount to force, did he blackmail her ? A man must know what he wants, chasing career demands time, family requires time, unfortunately a big career alway comes with bogus task that demand time @ the expenses of the man/family, at the end of day you we hear, her money is her money naa the man go still dey foot major bills. most times he won't be available, due to workload she will alway be tired, her salary is solely for her ... we must accept not all men can live with that, as long as he didnt blackmail or force her to stay the man did nothing wrong 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by GloriousGbola: 9:29pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
reddingtonblack: Nothing in your post history indicates that you have started earning money or raising a family or providing support for anyone, so I'll pass on your attempts at advise 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by sonofthunder: 9:49pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
julie90: He knows he's about to lose you, he doesn't know how but he knows it is coming. I wouldn't know how much you did to distil his fears but if above is not the case then maybe you better off leaving. |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by luminouz(m): 10:06pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
bukatyne: I do know women with standards, but realistic ones. Yours is way too extreme for anyone to consider you seriously. If your man doesn't want you to work and he can take care of you and his kids, does that mean his ego is fragile or he is insecure? OP has points but I'm not one who judges from ONLY ONE SIDE OF THE STORY 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by luminouz(m): 10:10pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
wagzy37: You nailed it Cc saintmary |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Shedrill(m): 10:46pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Leave that man and run for your life 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by yuping(m): 10:48pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
julie90: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by RichProminent(m): 11:10pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
God forbid! I will not break up with the half my heart Sweetplum because she gets a high paying job.Sweet Sweetplum are you in the house? |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by RichProminent(m): 11:14pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by hkidola00(m): 11:18pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Eprincess:sorry dear I agree with him..that's the way most of we men are..we want to take the lead and run the home,not the woman doing so..u women starts getting annoying, defiance and rude when u take a step higher...don't reply me 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by HoneySwag(f): 11:19pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Mikester:You've spoken well � |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by reddingtonblack: 11:22pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Your parent must have called i moved in, that was airtel fast ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by GloriousGbola: 11:28pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
reddingtonblack: behave yourself before i tell your dad to off the gen and take your phone from you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by WantsandMore: 11:32pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
julie90:do you & accept whatever consequences. Humans are illogical and sometimes we can't put a perspective to an action because it basically doesn't make sense, but ok, it's what, it is, We meuve. |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by reddingtonblack: 11:36pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: cut the long talk, do you have difficulty pronouncing or spelling "Kid" which ?? love to see you try ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Nobody: 12:03am On Jun 04, 2022 |
RichProminent:I m just finding out |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by cococandy(f): 12:04am On Jun 04, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Caseless: 1:55am On Jun 04, 2022 |
@Julie90, stay away from that man forever. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Mcslize: 3:11am On Jun 04, 2022 |
I believe he felt insecured with your new achievement. I will be very happy if my partner earns as much as me cuz we will end up becoming a power couple in terms of finance. It's not wrong for a lady to earn as much as a man as far as she will support in running the home financially. As it stands, it has been a norm in this part of the world for men not wanting their partners to earn higher than them or up to their level. It's quite wrong. As a man, I want a woman that will assist to lessen the financially burden in the home with me. That's why women were created to be helpers. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by RichProminent(m): 7:56am On Jun 04, 2022 |
Sweetplum:What do you say about it? |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by nastynic(m): 9:10am On Jun 04, 2022 |
Khoielvis: Think about it bruh, The highlight of that whole post is that she got an increase in salary, My speculations are, he realized that she was earning more than him and we know what happens when women earn more in MOST relationships. Attraction diminishes slowly, only few women retain respect and love for their man in such a situation. Now I'm not judging the female in this context cause it's not my business, I'm just stating observation from real life samples. Tbh I respect the dude for calling it quits regardless if y'all think he is insecure, hater, narcissistic etc. Bruh actually knew what he could handle |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Khoielvis: 11:03am On Jun 04, 2022 |
nastynic: So she should be static. That guy has serious personality complexes that needs psychiatric care. Same goes for every guy with such mentality. Anyone opposed to growth is a witch. Simple 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by GloriousGbola: 11:43am On Jun 04, 2022 |
pocohantas: How does a broke chick glow up? I knew some diamond in the rough chicks in school, plain looking becuase no money. You meet same chicks a few years out of school, or just see their WhatsApp and you're like whoa!. It's just empty naija male talk. |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Druss(m): 11:56am On Jun 04, 2022 |
I love ambitious determined women with a goal who are loyal to the development and establishment of the family. If the ambition is self centered then wahala go dey. In this case. I presume you are the former and not the latter. |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by pocohantas(f): 12:23pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Kai! This is cold sha. ![]() ![]() GloriousGbola: And you had to add this? Hahahahaaha |
Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by nastynic(m): 10:03pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Khoielvis:Did he beat her? Did he cheat? Bruh broke up quietly, He knows what he can handle and a career woman is not one of them simple |
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