From the experiences of friends and those around me, I observed that marriage is not as rosy as it's portrayed on social media. I have a good job, working with two foreign universities from Nigeria as virtual lecturer. I earned more than $2,000 a month. I'm always indoor because of the nature of my job. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't womanize. I'm introvert. The lady I was dating said until church wedding is done, she cannot pack to my house. I just want a lady who is understandable, that we can live together and have children. It's possible to get married in the future but I want to live with the lady first and have at least one or two children before marriage.
Is it not possible to get a lady that will accept this condition in Nigeria?
When I talk to a lady for relationship, she will happily accept but when I discuss this condition with her, she will just run away. I don't go to club, I only go to church but since the church ladies are not accepting this condition, that is why I am bringing it online, if I can get a lady outside the church. I'm 31 years and running my PhD program in a reputable university in Nigeria. I work with two universities outside Nigeria.

Go and beg China to mould that person. You dey find sb’s daughter to ruin their lives baa? May your daughters meet people like you.

What you need is baby mama

What if you have the child but don't like her

Hmmmm this your condition strong o....in this Africa continent where marriages are carried on the head like crown you now think you can find the one that will agree to this your condition? May be you should try other continent and see

chatinent:
Go and beg China to mould that person. You dey find sb’s daughter to ruin their lives baa? May your daughters meet people like you.

There's nothing like ruining life. I will take good care of the person including her family. I just want us to live and see how compatible we are before going into marriage

APC2:

There's nothing like ruining life. I will take good care of the person including her family. I just want us to live and see how compatible we are before going into marriage

Go build that kind of lady yourself.


You folks don't respect womanhood at all!


It's disgusting!

chatinent:
Go and beg China to mould that person. You dey find sb’s daughter to ruin their lives baa? May your daughters meet people like you.

This is one of the very few sensible comments you've made on this forum.

I am still watching you.

I don’t advise you to go into marriage or cohabiting for now because you are still selfish with your thoughts, you want someone’s daughter to cohabit and have kids for you before marrying her, which also means she should disappoint her parents and throw morals to the dogs because of YOU? You’ll be a father someday and you’ll understand better with this selfish mindset of yours when your daughters start having kids carelessly with men who ain’t married to them.When you’ve learn to be liberal with your thinking then you can start thinking of been responsible, for now please concentrate on your academic life and enjoy your singlehood

APC2:
From the experiences of friends and those around me, I observed that marriage is not as rosy as it's portrayed on social media. I have a good job, working with two foreign universities from Nigeria as virtual lecturer. I earned more than $2,000 a month. I'm always indoor because of the nature of my job. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't womanize. I'm introvert. The lady I was dating said until church wedding is done, she cannot pack to my house. I just want a lady who is understandable, that we can live together and have children. It's possible to get married in the future but I want to live with the lady first and have at least one or two children before marriage.
Is it not possible to get a lady that will accept this condition in Nigeria?
When I talk to a lady for relationship, she will happily accept but when I discuss this condition with her, she will just run away. I don't go to club, I only go to church but since the church ladies are not accepting this condition, that is why I am bringing it online, if I can get a lady outside the church. I'm 31 years and running my PhD program in a reputable university in Nigeria. I work with two universities outside Nigeria.

You be comedian walahi .. you wan cohabitation?

Woah big guy you have to give yourself some rest man.
Chill
Shey you grab?

Passing Six(6) Is Not Passing Sense. May What U Want For Others Be Given To You In Full Measure.

U dnt need to them that's what u planned for them but instead use babymama of a thing to hold her down. Please dnt allow any girl deceive u into marriage that's when u will see their true color

You keep screaming u have a nice job u have a nice job. Na 1m e be, please rest. Some of us make more and no dey shout. Go and buy Vaseline, subscribe to pornhub premium and help your village pipu

APC2:
From the experiences of friends and those around me, I observed that marriage is not as rosy as it's portrayed on social media. I have a good job, working with two foreign universities from Nigeria as virtual lecturer. I earned more than $2,000 a month. I'm always indoor because of the nature of my job. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't womanize. I'm introvert. The lady I was dating said until church wedding is done, she cannot pack to my house. I just want a lady who is understandable, that we can live together and have children. It's possible to get married in the future but I want to live with the lady first and have at least one or two children before marriage.
Is it not possible to get a lady that will accept this condition in Nigeria?
When I talk to a lady for relationship, she will happily accept but when I discuss this condition with her, she will just run away. I don't go to club, I only go to church but since the church ladies are not accepting this condition, that is why I am bringing it online, if I can get a lady outside the church. I'm 31 years and running my PhD program in a reputable university in Nigeria. I work with two universities outside Nigeria.

Even though you get this kinda mind set, why don't you keep it to yourself.
If you are a man and this is how you talk in real life, celestial church no fit get solution to your problem.

APC + 2 = drama.

Even if u are clean,no lady go gree stay u with dis kind moniker...
APC+2=double suffering...

get a calabar girl