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I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by SarcasticWords: 7:00pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Apologies for the long write up. There is this young lady in my area that used to be a tailor or as most people call it, a fashion designer. She works with a group of tailors in a shop that is very close to were I stay. I usually go there to press my clothes whenever we experience power outage. We don't know or speak to each other but I noticed she was very good in her craft and to be honest, I admired her because of that but not in a romantic way. One day, I went there to press some clothes and I saw her talking with a friend. She was complaining that most times she would design clothes for people and she would have to remind them to pay up the remaining balance they owe. Her friend asked why she allowed them to take their clothes when they are still owing and her reply was because she's finding it difficult to get customers so she doesn't want to make the few ones she has feel bad when they demand for their clothes and promise to pay up. To cut this story short, a time came when I didn't see her anymore in the shop and when I asked the other designers, their reply was she's no longer designing. I didn't see her for a long time untill recently, just few days back, I saw this young lady stepping down from a benz with tinted glass and very loud music playing in it. She looked completely different... long artificial eyelashes long nails long pink hair attachment very tight physique revealing clothes. That innocent look she used to have was completely gone. When she saw me staring, I could sense this sudden look of anger/embarrassment on her face, so I stopped staring at her and pretended like I was staring at something else behind her. I've been feeling a bit sad ever since. Sad because of the pressure alot of youths are facing in this country. I also feel guilty for not speaking up and encouraging her when I heard her complaining to her friend but even if I did, I don't know what she was going through in her personal life, so encouraging her may not have yielded anything positive. I am just sharing this here with you guys to clear my head instead of keeping it to myself and feeling down. 4 Likes |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by thesicilian: 7:05pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
SarcasticWords:You're feeling depressed concerning another person's issue. Life is personal bro 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by rickpat(m): 7:06pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
na wa...well,you don't have really hate yourself for this...she made her choice.....if you are so much bothered about her,you could go and get friendly with her, maybe she would confide in you...if not...just move on...don't be sad over decisions made by an adult...WE ALL HAVE A PATH TO CHOOSE AND FOLLOW 5 Likes |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Slynation(m): 7:10pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Well... Society will always throw it weights on you, but it's left for you to chest or fall for it, I believe at every point in life, we all have choices to make, she already made her choice. |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by dontrulee: 7:11pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
People never learn to mind their own business. You dey carry person headache for your head. Better grow up! Everyone is responsible for the outcome of his/her life. 6 Likes |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Nonexisting: 7:12pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
That's vaginarians for you. They give up on life struggles easily, they don't even want to try at all. She has chosen the easy way that will soon lead to her destruction. Don't feel down, just feel pity for her because soon, she will likely be a sacrificial lamb for ritual killers. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Cyphar(m): 7:14pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Make una no crucify the young lady. It's her life, let her live it. If the repercussion comes she will be the one to face it alone. We never know what people go through until we are in the same shoes. I wish her well 1 Like |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Cypress042: 7:16pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Hope you're mind is cleared now ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
This life na per head. She chose that route and there are surely consequences attached to every action taken. Are you a mumu man? Why are you sad? 4 Likes |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by michlins(m): 7:41pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Oga, that you didn't encourage her didn't make her enter the street or change hustle. She actually had it in her and for the fact she wasn't patient enough to allow the seeds of hardwork to germinate, make dey see what it is like on the other side. Don't sweat it. You can't make someone what they were not before |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by 2special(m): 7:43pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
You went to the shop to iron your clothes not Press. 1 Like |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Medianna(f): 7:46pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
So touching |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by IkeIgboNile(m): 9:10pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
No need feeling bad, she's an adult and has made her choice but i understand how you feel. I most times feel bad with myself,whenever i fail to take an action and something bad happens. |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Emma2Seconds: 9:22pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Any Matter That is not your matter do not put your mouth. |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Robertgreene1(m): 9:25pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Interesting.... But "never get so enmeshed in other people's problems..lest that problem becomes ur problem as well"...Robert Greene in the "48 laws of power" Life is hard...and most people will always be unfortunate in life...hence when u get so involved in their pains...they suck u into that pain..their pain infects u nd consumes u as well.. |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Uniquetani1(f): 10:22pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
You are sad? So many jobless people Girl don upgrade her life, continue the sad mood 1 Like |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Streetmovement(m): 10:31pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
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Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by cavreek: 10:39pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
U will be very surprised to know what hunger can make some people do while for some it's luxury and for others it's power Whatever u want to do make sure u do it before 2023 because tins will be very unstable. Try to save up ur savings in $$$ u will thank me for this |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Karleb(m): 10:42pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
One spinal loss. That's why people are being advised to birth the number of kids they can take care. The number of yahoo boys and olosho keeps increasing on a daily. Spare her your pity. |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Karleb(m): 10:44pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
cavreek: Your advice is for people that have money to save in the first place. If we don't change this government ehn, na cassava and corn for the next 8 years. |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by cavreek: 10:51pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Karleb:I thought I was being patriotic by criticizing those relocating but I realized that u can still pray for a better nation while outside ur country reason why I stopped criticizing them who have relocate Lets just hope for a better nation |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Medianna(f): 11:30pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
over sabi housewife He went to the shop to aluminium his clothes not iron ![]() 2special: |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Dizzyyish: 12:22am On Jun 09, 2022 |
Re: I've Been Feeling Sad Because Of This by Gadafii: 4:40pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
She has chosen her path bro, move on |
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