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How Do I Share The Rooms? by teekay213(m): 11:17am On Jun 13, 2022 |
Hi, I got a 2bedroom flat because the place is close to me and my wife place of work.we couldn't get a 3bedroom around the area cos that was the one we saw at the time and it was not costly. But here is the problem I have a 19yrs old boy waiting for admission and a 16yrs old girl in ss3 but I don't know how to allocate the 2 bedroom maybe my wife and I should take one and leave the other room for my son and daughter but my girl is already a lady and she doesn't want to share a room with her brother,,am also thinking my wife should share one room with our daughter while I share the remaining room with my son but what if me and my wife need each other. Where we relocated from we had 3 bedrooms and everyone had his room but because that was the only apartment near and less costly we had to take it. 76 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by osato45: 11:38am On Jun 13, 2022 |
teekay213:have a talk with your kids and let them understand why things are the way they are. In terms of sharing, you can get a second mattress or foam possibly 2 by 6 type and place in the room where the kids are to stay, let the eldest occupy the bigger foam and the youngest takes the smaller foam which would be placed on the floor Or better still get a wooden bunk bed of 3 by 6 that would make one person stay up and the other stay down 231 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Cutehector(m): 11:42am On Jun 13, 2022 |
What is the size of the room? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Candidlady: 11:45am On Jun 13, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by pozehnani(f): 11:50am On Jun 13, 2022 |
Let your son be sleeping in the sitting room then or is that not a space. I'm suggesting this to prevent any form of sexual immorality between the two of them. Though the boy can still share the room with her, only that he can not sleep there at night. By the way, what of family of six that live in a room and parlor apartment? Are they not living fine.? That your girl is being too choosey and I think you caused it. Teach your children how to manage when things are not so rosey otherwise they'll grow up not being contented or knowing how to manage hard times. Nothing too difficult here 624 Likes 35 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by SmileDance(f): 11:52am On Jun 13, 2022 |
If your daughter insists she won't share the room, I think you need to sit your family down and ask for suggestions. 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Emma2Seconds: 12:30pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
What a nonsense from a Girl of 16yrs . What about a family of more than 5 adults (male and female including the parents) living only in Room. What if you don't have money for 3 Rooms. 159 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:36pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Look for a board and demarcate their room if it's big enough.At least make small privacy dey for dem 289 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by teekay213(m): 12:43pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Cutehector:I don't actually know the size of the room but it's a standard room ensuite both rooms have bathroom and toilet 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by teekay213(m): 12:50pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds:lol,,, people says I have a soft spot for my daughter,, she's the madam in the house 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Cutehector(m): 12:55pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
teekay213:ok. |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Cutehector(m): 12:57pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds:yh op.. People are living in self con.. You should talk to your daughter. She shouldnt take that attitude going to her husband's house. 72 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Emma2Seconds: 1:00pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
You better start now to reset her brain before it get out of hand. teekay213: 80 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by sisisioge: 1:26pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
1. If one of the two rooms is big enough, get a carpenter to demarcate with plywood and create doors. You would just need smaller beds for each room. 2. Take a look at your parlour to see if it's big enough to carve out a small room for either of the kids. 3. Consider the possibility of turning the whole parlour to a 3rd room. 4. Consider just using a thick curtain to divide the room for your children. Afterall, one is almost out of the house. Good luck. 77 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Emma2Seconds: 1:28pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
What a mentality @16yrs . What if the parents cannot afford 3rooms, so she should expect her parents to go into thieving abii?? Haven't you seen a family of 6 living in one room and parlour self Cone before. U mean the family should be lavising money for house rent because she is a daughter,16 for that matter.When Has it become a crime for Siblings to Live in one room UpInTheSky: 88 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by teekay213(m): 1:55pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
UpInTheSky:if I demarcate the room there won't be ventilation..heat will deal with one of them.i thought of that before and the room is not that big 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 2:22pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds:...... You have spoken well bro and since the op feels her daughter can't cope well with his blood brother for now in the same room let him kukuma go rent a duplex for her and stop disturbing us. 83 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 2:25pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
teekay213:..... Rubbish. Why not rent a duplex for her.Or better still let her sleep in your room while you and your wife sleep in the parlour. Nonsense. Soft spot ni hardspot ko. A minor that you will tell what to do is now telling you what to do.There are duplexes in that vicinity go and rent one so that she can have her separate room. 83 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Emma2Seconds: 2:37pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Br HELP me tell them. Speak it louder For Wonder Shall Never End. JONNYSPUTE: 37 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 2:44pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds:.....He is now calling her a lady and madam of the house but if anything like abuse happen ( God forbid) to her now,he will come here and starts telling us she is only 16, a minor and doesn't know anything. 51 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Guderian(m): 2:57pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
I wonder how some adults reason here. Why not ask your daughter why she doesn't want to share the room. She might be aware of sth about her brother or herself, That can lead to sth else. Demarcating the room is also a good option. The street Where i lived before a brother was sexually engaged with his sister because of her hot body.he wasnt ashamed to say it out. 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Carcholce: 2:58pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Why not do it this way, mother and daughter in one room while you and son in the other room. Any day you want to have sex with your wife, tell son to hang in the sitting room for the night. He’s already a man. He should understand. Abi you think he doesn’t know his mom moans at night? Being husband and wife doesn’t mean you two must share the same room. When I get married sef I don’t wish to share the same room with my wife. She can always sleep in mine while I can also sleep in hers. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 4:36pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Hi bros Teekay213, This is not a difficult issue at all. In fact ur daughter is right for not wanting to share room with her brother but that needs to be corrected in a way. Cos saying she doesn't want to share the room entirely with him is not possible in this sitn. Both of them would share the room togeda but both of them shouldn't sleep in the room togeda Bro can be sleeping in the sitting room but his wears would be kept inside the room I believe the room has a wardrobe and if it doesn't pls get one so they can ve separate space to keep their wears in the room whilst in the night, the bro sleeps in the sitting room. Pls ignore the insults from oda people and people saying she is ova pampered. She is an old teenager and she needs some privacy and it is not morally right to allow both brother and sister share the same bed 67 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by shantti(m): 4:55pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
pozehnani: How can a brother have lusty feelings by sleeping on the same bed with his sister. U r sick. 51 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Neptunium(m): 5:33pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by garriAndsugar: 7:16pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Just one brain resetting slap will solve all this Abeg no allow that small girl pressure you 14 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by NoToPile: 10:19pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Carcholce: Nairaland ooo I don't know why I just burst out laughing reading the bolded. Lool at he's a man he will understand 17 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Carcholce: 10:22pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
NoToPile: Lol. He should tell his son he wants to discuss with his mother Na 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Share The Rooms? by Dailyparrot: 5:28am On Jun 14, 2022 |
shantti: Nothing is impossible. Don't give the devil a chance. Constant body touching could arouse any of the siblings. It will first start slowly and unintentional until it gets to the final bus stop. I would suggest they live in the same room but separate beds. The girl can use the bathroom to change her clothes and deal with other private issues. 16 is not an older teenager. The last time I checked, teenage age starts from 13. Husband and wife shouldn't let their children know on the night they are about to get intimate, it isn't right. The girl is still young and at this age, she thinks there's anything special about her body. My married elder sisters can expose their breast before me and it means nothing to them and to me. What's there about the body other than the breast and her pussy? If there's a strong sibling relationship between the two, I don't see why a small 16 year old will feel that uncomfortable with her elder brother who's 3 years older than her. It's not like she's the older one here. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
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