This lady is very intelligent, a lady that is ready must show commitment and responsibility, this is a sign that screams "am ready" ,rememberwhat is said ,shes intelligent, there re ladies who dont hide their text and advances of other men from their man ,they know they re the one putting themselves in the situation ,but by letting you know they numb and kill you observation instinct ,i can tell you atleast one has had his way ,i have been in similar and discovered aunty have quash all of them ,save yourself from heart break ,imagine you in a marriage and your wife confides in men outside marriage ,imagine you in a marriage and another man hold your wife mumu button ,they will say they love being around guys lolz street shows no mercy

LaSenior:
am not pained about her keeping male friends but where I have issues with her is that her those of her male besties wants to have her too

One was even telling her to double date that he wants her too , seriously this is where I have issues with her and her besties, if they can be besties and not have intention to sleep with her then I am fine with it , for me I won't be comfortable with her keeping besties who wants to bleep her too

You have a problem with your relationship guy. If your woman follow another man for a date or lunch which you are aware of, it means you have failed in the relationship as a man. Your woman should not be confident to tell you that she is following her bestie or sex mate for a date. Best thing to do is to get a female bestie and let her see them. Gather more female friends around you and let her know them. If she complain, tell her they are just your bestie. r

LaSenior:
oga this is a girl I am planning to marry even her family knows me too well

Am fine with her keeping male friends if her male besties are happy seeing her with me or happy knowing that she has a boyfriend and they decide to be Just friend

Her male besties wants to see her pants they want something more than besties with her
Besties wishing that she was dating them

Am not stupid to bring things here you are not in my shoes and you won't understand this till it gets to your turn

If she can't leave them get your own lady friends it's that simple her reaction will tell you your next line of action.

czarr:
She knows they want to sleep with her, she is not blind, she's enjoying the attention and want they have for her and that is a red flag.

Sooner or later her pant would be shifted, if it hasn't happened already.

Well said...the problem some ladies have is that they think they "are in control" and can keep enjoying the attention/goodies from other men when they have partners already.

It is down right disrespectful and shit eventually hit the fan..

Bluewitch:



When dating I don't go out with any guy except my BF.

Its not normal as it shows disrespect to your BF.
Only ladies who want to remain in the street halfly do that.
Or if they want to play games on their BF

You are a wise woman

Mryacks:


You are a wise woman

thank you

shege45:
na so I dey talk before. Trusted her for years. Until I see things. Now

There might have been signs & You prolly must’ve ignored some red flags earlier before “May Day” Breh …

I feel You though